I don't know what category this fits in or if its advicenators material but I just wanted to ask the simple question if anyone knows any good anime to watch? I'm a 17 year old girl and I love fruits basket, azumanga daioh, and many others like it any suggestions?
I always liked Death Note. :D
[view]
i'm 18 already so i can legally get any piercings or tattoos. I REALLY want to get my nose pierced and my cartilage on my ear pierced. there just a few problems..
I play a sport so its required for me to take the piercings out for at least 3 hours, 3 times a week. would that be a problem? if it was just for 3 hours 3 times a week?
I also heard someone mention those clear plastic earrings? how well do those work?
and my last problem, my father. He is not so fond of me getting piercings.. but i am legally 18 and can legally do what i want. I dont want to be this obedient little girl anymore. I want to do what I want. and that is to get 2 piercings. Yes he will most likely be mad. But he has to realize that i'm 18 and can legally do it. Its my decision. not his. i know he doesnt want me to, but i have been wanting this forever.
he is also my coach. which makes things 100000 times harder because i would have to hide it from him.
any tips or advice please? THANK YOU!!!
I have my nose pierced, and you're supposed to leave it in for a year before you can take it out so it heals completely. Hiding it and taking it out for several hours a week won't be good, plus it'll also hurt and be hard to get back in. You may think that the nose piercing has opened up enough to not close, but you'd be surprised. Even after six months, the piercing is still healing. Unfortunately, if you have to take out piercings and hide it from your dad, it's probably not a good idea all in all. /:
[view]
After year and a half of being together my boyfriend got me a promise ring... except he didnt offer a promise in any way... i picked the ring out he paid for it and handed me the bag didnt tell me he loved me or anything. I gave him the ring back and it just seems like he isnt trying to make anything better at all.. what shoud i do?
ask him if he bought you it because you wanted it or if he intended to actually promise something. if he didn't, then why wear it? make a promise or return it. put some meaning to it so that way you can keep it and be happy you have it.
[view]
I'm fifteen, sophomore. It's been five months since me and this guy I dated for seven months broke up. He was my first boyfriend, first kiss, fingering, hj, and bj... It was a really unhealthy relationship and a super long story but to sum it all up, he really hurt me. He became sooo much a part of me that when we broke up I felt like I had nothing to distinguish myself with anymore. Even now, he doesn't even feel like a person to me, more like a whole part of myself. But its an empty space... We don't talk. Hang out. Nothing. But I still think about him every single day. I sometimes still cry over him... It's just wierd. Because even thoguh I hate him for all the pain and betrayl he put me through I miss him like crazy. And I feel like a different person now that he's gone... And I hate it. I want it to go away SO bad. I just don't understand. It took him days to move on. It's been five months and I'm still hurting. Whats wrong with me??
you actually have to TRY to move on... i know it's tough but if you actually try to then it'll work within time. remember, time heals everything. you have to be willing to. go hang out with your friends as much as possible. meet new fun people. all i know is that being with your friends as much as possible helps prevent the pain a little (actually, a lot) more. keep yourself occupied and eventually he'll be behind you, but remember: you have to WANT to otherwise you just won't be able to move on from it.
[view]
Okay to start things off I am an 18 year old female.
Sorry this is long but i just don't know what to do.
So i cant really explain my emotions through text but here it goes. I dated this guy for 8 months. he took my virginity. we spent everysingle day together, we even spent nights together. i pretty much lived at his house. we became SUPER SUPER close and comfortable with eachother like best friends. we would take showers together. i would go pee while he brushed his teeth. i loved how close we were. i loved this boy with everything. all of my heart. and then the day before yesterday through text he tells me he just doesnt feel that spark anymore and broke up with me.
idk what to do with myself. i still love him so much. i feel so horrible to know i love him with everything and he doesnt want me back.
i had so much planned for us. i was looking forward to spending our first christmas together and halloween. we had actually told each other we were gonna be together forever and talked about in the future getting married and having kids. he told me i was the girl he wanted to marry.
i have never found someone to be as cute in my eyes as he was. i loved everything about his personality.
everyone says i will get over him but i just dont see how. i mean sure i see other cute guys but nobody compares.
im am so terrified i will not get over him and i will be unhappy forever.
i understand im young and you all probably believe that i dont understand what love is but i do i promise you i do.
so i guess what im asking is how can i get over this? has anyone ever thought a break up was the end of the world, but got over it and now is in a happy relationship where they love the guy more?
i feel so horrible and not good enough. i just want to curl up into a ball and rot away.
oh geez, can i relate!
i went out with my boyfriend of 11 months (who also took my virginity), and we were exactly as comfortable as you described. i was at his house every day, slept over all the time, even went on family vacations. i imagined my whole life with him. we picked out our kids' names and decided where we were gonna live. hell, my username on here is our initials put together... i never got around to making another one, obviosuly haha. but we were so comfortable around each other it was almost scary.
we broke up. it was me, though, who broke up with him, so i'm coming from the other end here. believe me, i still cared, so i'm sure he does. i didn't feel the spark with my boyfriend anymore either but if i could, i would go back out with him just because a huge amount of time was put between us and i believe things will be different. but i assure you, you will get over him and he'll get over you. you guys probably won't be able to be friends without it being awkward, but who says that later on you guys can't happen again? who said that spark can't be rekindled? it's very possible, it's happened before.
but as for getting over. i was over him months ago, and so was he. we just had time apart. we tried other people. i broke his heart, i really did, with no intentions. i wanted to help him but i couldnt because we needed to be apart. he would try to win me back several ways. letters, promising he'd change, buying me lots of things for christmas... but maybe all you need is time. maybe you need to talk this out with your guy. but we were crazy about each other, but we've both moved on and we broke up 9 months ago. we havent talked in 6 months and even before that we were almost over each other. it just takes time, which sucks, i know, but it heals everything.
[view]
I've been with this guy for three years. If his heart stopped beating right now I would give him mine. When he asked me to marry him all I could think of was yes. We're both young, but I love him so much and I just couldn't picture myself with anyone else. I started college a couple months ago and I met this other guy. I've noticed signs that he likes me. He's said that he wishes I was single. He helps me with my homework. He walks me to my car when it's dark. I appreciate this especially because my fiance isn't there to do these things. He goes to a different college. There are so many days that I wonder what it would be like to be with this other guy. I know that I can't because (1) I'm engaged! (2)This other guy is a temporary research student and next week he will go back to his college... which is across the country! Still so many nights I have bad dreams and fantasies. I can't get good sleep. My fiance used to be the first man I thought of when I woke up and I feel horrible because he isn't now. I've talked with him about this and he is trying to do everything he can to make me happy and it does help. But, these wandering thoughts are still inside my head. And, I don't wanna marry someone if I'm not 100 percent sure anymore. What should I do???
If youre not 100 percent sure anymore, hold off on the marriage. Im not sure when or if you were even planning that at the moment, but thats all you can do for now cause i'm sure you don't want to break it off with your fiance for good for something so minor.
its a good thing you talked to your fiance about this. youre not hiding anything and it shows you do truly love him, clueing him in on something you know if hurting him but it's the truth.
this boy is very temporary, from what it looks like. i know it's stupid to compare, but if you've ever heard of the show Hannah Montana, there was one episode where she was caught between her long-term boyfriend & a boy she'd met on her own time that just seemed perfect and new to her. she didn't know which one to choose, but in the end, chose the long-term boy.
i know that's not the BEST comparison, but it is ONE, haha.
remember... you love your fiance. this boy, although the feelings are there, doesnt know you like your fiance does. it's very normal to be attracted to another guy. i know i was while i was with my boyfriend of a year. i started to think of other guys.
are you bored in your current relationship? whether you are or not, some things that may help change your mind and keep your mind on your fiance, is going out and doing something new together or something that is very special. i'm not talking pizza then movies. something new, something sincere, something sweet. you can ask your parents or friends for any suggestions. i'm hoping that from this it will help you realize how positive you can be again about your fiance that you once were.
this other guy, however, must know that youre engaged, right? in a way, its almost disrespectful that he tells you he wishes you were single & spends this time with you, probably in hopes of something happening. i know, it's a taste of something new. but he is temporary & like you said, hes leaving to go to his college across the country. i know youll miss him, because he was practically there for you during the days your fiance couldn't be! it's absolutely normal. maybe you miss your fiance and anyone who treats you the way he does when hes not around makes you feel a lot better inside.
im sorry that was so long, but i hope it helped somewhat. good luck!
[view]
I broke up with my boyfriend of 6 months and last time we talked I cahnged it to a break because I still love him. I can't stop thinking about him and he won't answer or return my phone calls. He does work a lot...its a VERY crazy schedule. I made him a little slideshow of pictures of us...not sure if I'm going to send it to him. I was thinking of sending it to him.
What can I do? I want to talk to him and I miss him like crazy. HELP PLEASE!! :(
you NEED to make sure if youre going to tell him you made a mistake and you want him back that youre not gonna be playing this game with him.
no more on and off break ups and taking breaks. and id move fast before he realizes that you could easily do it again and doesnt want to be with you anymore.
you need to approach him calmly. like, "hey, can we talk? so, i was thinking, i was really out of line... i needed this time to think and i hope i can make it up to you."
just dont make this continual. im not sure how close you guys are but i did this with my last boyfriend and when i asked for him back, he said to forget it because i was playing too many games and he liked being single better.
[view]
Alright, I am having my Sweet Sixteen next month. I am not the kind of person that goes to parties a lot nor has them, haha, I'm in the marching band.. yea.. geek. So this is why I am stressing, I want my party to be spectacular. I am planning to put a chocolate fountain on the table with the food and the blender to make smoothies and virgin pina coladas. I also want to have a paint fight. I will tell everyone to bring something white, an old shirt or something and we're gonna fill up water balloons with paint and just go wild. If you ever had a paint fight before, PLEASE tell me how it went! I'm also gonna bring out my Ipod and speakers and blare my music. Also, at around 10ish pm we are going to play manhunt.
My question is, would you come to my party, if you know, you were invited? Does it seem fun to you? If it doesn't sound fun to you, what can I do to make it more fun and interesting? Thanks for your input!
sounds like fun to me! (: i'd go.
you can do giveaways or raffles. maybe you have extra coupons laying around or something, haha.
[view]
I have problem I don't last long when having sex. I get too excited when at the foreplay stage then when I actually come to the sex part I don't last long at all. Is there any advice people can give me please
well actually ill tell you what my ex did. during foreplay, he would finish off there, and then foreplay would continue then he'd jump right into sex. it made him last longer since he just came minutes beforehand.
another thing you can do is train yourself to hold back longer. if you jack off/have sex/get head more often, the more familiar everything will feel, so you will hold back a little bit more.
if you feel like you're about to come, you can think of something else, or stop for a few seconds, and once the feeling goes away, then you can continue.
just some techniques that helped a guy i knew. :)
[view]
i was listening to z100 and there was this song with a really catchy beat. at one point, the artist sang "do do do do do" to a beat. does anyone know which song i'm talking about? THANK YOU!
i dont know it, but if you listen to it again, just get a line of the lyrics & google it. they should have it there.
z100.com also has a top 100 list for the radio. go through the female artists on the list & see if you could find it. :)
[view]
What do i do my boyfriend an di have dated for 2 months and we are intimit(not sex) but intimit. He makes my feel good but i dont know what to do to make him feel good i keep thinking im doing something wrong. what should i do ??
ask him what he likes to be done to him. ;D ask him to show you, if you really needed.
[view]
http://i49.tinypic.com/2ps21ww.jpg
Look at the picture and guess her bra size. I am trying to get breast implants about that size. Not quite sure what size she wears but it would be weird to ask so can someone tell me what size you think she is? Thanks
that definitely looks like a push up bra, i hope you're not going for anything THAT insane. but i agree, it looks about a DD in a push up. i'm a 32DD and it also looks fine without one.
[view]
me and my best friend want to get tattoos to always remember eachother and i know me and her will always be friends. weve been best friends for 9 years but we have no idea what tattoo to get, i was thinking something like in pairs maybe like she get a spiderman logo and i get a batman logo since that was our favirite shows back in the day. but we need some more ideas. we got in a fatal car accident and were both put in hospital so we were going to do one to remember that. but i have no idea someone pleeasee helppppp!
initials? agree on a symbol?
[view]
15/f
My boyfriend and I are going to have sex and when I told him I had just gotten on the pill, the first thing he says is how excited he is because he won't have to use a condom. When he said this, I had no idea how to respond because I've always been under the impression that with sex, a condom is ALWAYS a must for protection. My first time was last winter break when I was raped. Since then, I've been tested (clean) and only had safe-sex once with my current boyfriend. I know the fact that I'm having sex with my boyfriend at such a young age may seem "slutty" after such a short period of time but being raped, I never thought I'd have any desire to have sex again. Plus, now that I've done it, I'm much more open to it. But, I'm not sure how open I am to sex without a condom. He's 18 and I'm his first and we're currently not seeing anyone else....I just don't know what to think about sex without a condom. I want this to be special but I'm just not sure. Because I'm his first and we're both clean, sex without a condom shouldnt have any risk.....right?
Please please please use a condom.
My friend was on the pill AND a condom. He didn't pull out and she got pregnant.
I know it's stupid, to be on the pill & have to use a condom and pull out, but that's the safest way to do it. With my ex, I did that every time for 8 months and never had a pregnancy scare.
[view]
this might be hard to follow.
about a month ago me & this guy messed around & almost had sex. i still think i got preggo ,but i got the plan b pill two days after. & then i had my period ,so i'm not pregnant. i know i shouldn't have done anything with him, but what's done is done. anyways, i'm a freshman & he's a senior. i didn't tell anyone but three of my friends. they're all people i know i can trust. but now ,it being a month later ... people know about what i did with that guy *john*. i thought him being a senior, he wouldn't tell anyone ,because i would of thought that it would make him look desperate for going for a freshmen. i didn't tell anyone ,because i didn't wanna be known as a slut. he knows my friend *jessicas* big brother *joe*. joe is 21 ,so he's not in school. but joe has a 17 year old brother that told all his friends at school. so now all my older guy friends know about it & soon, it'll probably be all around school. my mom knows about it, but that's because i told her.
anyway, basically, i just don't know how i'm gonna cope with it. does anyone have anyways that i can just ignore people. or anything? i just hate all of this. :/
anything will help.
okay. do NOT let anybody bring you down, ONCE.
hold your head up high and have confidence in yourself.
you do know you regretted it (i'm assuming you did), you would never do it again (another assumption), and you're smarter than that (hopefully, haha).
i went through a very very similar thing. the gossip and shit ONLY lasted a month. over spring break, i did some shit that i definitely regretted later on. everybody in the school found out about it & i got shit for it everywhere -- internet, formspring, in person, etc.
but i never once let them bring me down.
eventually, people stop talking. one thing can only spark their interest for so long.
i hope i helped, i understand what you're going through, believe me, just dont let shit bother you, ignore it all, being called a 'slut' shouldnt bother you because i guarantee people have done worse (and besides, youre a teenager, youre basically expected to do stupid stuff).
hope i helped. (:
[view]
Hello. I'm making my boyfriend a cd for our anniversary, but I need some help with songs. We have kind of differing tastes in music, and I want the cd to be more about him.
He is very into rock and alternative (a day to remember, the marches, iron maiden, etc).
If anybody could suggest some songs about love that are that style, I would really appreciate it :)
Thanks!
Madina Lake always has love songs, i know a few are about break up, but you can check out others.
[view]
I dont know what to get my boyfriend for christmas.
He is getting me something and everyone says ill love it. and they are jealous and what not. But he already knows what im getting him and I want to get him something thats a surprise, I just dont know what to get.
dog tag necklace for starters :]
[view]
So everyone has heard of the whole, "u never forget your first" thing when talking about losing their virginity, and how one can get emotionally attached or make the feelings grow even more. Can anyone who really knows exactly what I'm talking about tell me if that's only true with girls, or if guys can feel the same thing? Me and my boyfriend for six months just had sex for the first time and i find myself thinking about him a lot more and my feelings for him have grown so much. I know i can just ask him, but is it just as possible for him to feel the same way, or is that just a female hormonal thing?
well, I know that most people probably can't forget their first, I mean it's a big deal - even for the player guys out there, i'm sure they remember their first as well.
however, some don't even remember - which I kind of find surprising ... but yes, its possible he feels the same, especially since you two experienced something like that together for the first time.
[view]
Our 6 month anniversary is on July 7th and his birthday is July 25 and he's into games aswell. What should I get him?!
haha, this caught my attention: my 6 month anniversary is July 8 & his birthday is July 16 - i'm getting him some clothes, because that's mainly what he likes. as for games, you're not entirely sure if he'd like a game you bought him or if he already had that game - clothes never go wrong with me, as long as you get the sizes right.
[view]
In the press conference, that happened a few minutes ago, about Michael Jackson's sudden death, Jermaine Jackson said, "May Allah be with you always," about Michael Jackson. I never knew Michael converted to Islam, when did he do this? I always thought Michael Jackson was Christian... :\
i hope the :/ face wasn't because he was a christian.
:( that's somewhat prejudiced ... but i'll take it as a mistake. :P
http://www.nypost.com/seven/11202008/news/nationalnews/michael_jackson_converts_to_islam_139892.htm
there it has the whole article.
[view]
|
