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Is it possible?
So everyone has heard of the whole, "u never forget your first" thing when talking about losing their virginity, and how one can get emotionally attached or make the feelings grow even more. Can anyone who really knows exactly what I'm talking about tell me if that's only true with girls, or if guys can feel the same thing? Me and my boyfriend for six months just had sex for the first time and i find myself thinking about him a lot more and my feelings for him have grown so much. I know i can just ask him, but is it just as possible for him to feel the same way, or is that just a female hormonal thing?
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It depends on the person. You can't really make a generalization about guys and girls.
Personally, I'm a virgin, and so I don't know the feeling since I'm waiting for marriage.
But I've heard this is a common feeling, depending on how sentimental you are.
--Jack
(17/m)
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well, I know that most people probably can't forget their first, I mean it's a big deal - even for the player guys out there, i'm sure they remember their first as well.
however, some don't even remember - which I kind of find surprising ... but yes, its possible he feels the same, especially since you two experienced something like that together for the first time.
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It's a human thing.
Some girls wont experience it. Some girls will.
Some guys wont, and some will.
I know a guy who is still really emotionally invested in his first.
Me, I couldn't care less. I have other partners who remain very much on my mind, but not my first.
It all depends on the person.
The only thing you can say for sure, without asking the guy directly, is that in our society it's more acceptable for women to express their emotions about sex in that way, and tell each other stories that romanticize the 'first time'. Our culture doesn't give men the same stories and emphasis on the first time, but that doesn't change how they feel about it, it just changes the words they have available to talk about it.
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