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sex, boys, friends, rumors.
this might be hard to follow.
about a month ago me & this guy messed around & almost had sex. i still think i got preggo ,but i got the plan b pill two days after. & then i had my period ,so i'm not pregnant. i know i shouldn't have done anything with him, but what's done is done. anyways, i'm a freshman & he's a senior. i didn't tell anyone but three of my friends. they're all people i know i can trust. but now ,it being a month later ... people know about what i did with that guy *john*. i thought him being a senior, he wouldn't tell anyone ,because i would of thought that it would make him look desperate for going for a freshmen. i didn't tell anyone ,because i didn't wanna be known as a slut. he knows my friend *jessicas* big brother *joe*. joe is 21 ,so he's not in school. but joe has a 17 year old brother that told all his friends at school. so now all my older guy friends know about it & soon, it'll probably be all around school. my mom knows about it, but that's because i told her.
anyway, basically, i just don't know how i'm gonna cope with it. does anyone have anyways that i can just ignore people. or anything? i just hate all of this. :/
anything will help.
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i agree with almost everyone people will always be nasty , especially the ones that are jealous about you..small minds talk about other people and thats a fact. the great thing is your support system is in place, all the people ho you actually do love and care what they think.. its going to hurt ,a and heart breaking but, this are the times your character builds up.. you cant ignore people but, you just have to believe you will go through this and that at the end of the day your support system is stable..when you show people you don't care and are still happy then you have given them no power..no one likes losing and they will move on faster=)
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no matter what you do or where you go in life people will always talk shit its what the due when they get bored. dont let it affect you. keep your head up high and dont let anyone lower your self esteem. rumors are just that rumors. you can always just deny them. if you ignore them and not allow them to effect you people will give up and move on because that rumor gets boring if they do not gain attention by you. =]
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okay. do NOT let anybody bring you down, ONCE.
hold your head up high and have confidence in yourself.
you do know you regretted it (i'm assuming you did), you would never do it again (another assumption), and you're smarter than that (hopefully, haha).
i went through a very very similar thing. the gossip and shit ONLY lasted a month. over spring break, i did some shit that i definitely regretted later on. everybody in the school found out about it & i got shit for it everywhere -- internet, formspring, in person, etc.
but i never once let them bring me down.
eventually, people stop talking. one thing can only spark their interest for so long.
i hope i helped, i understand what you're going through, believe me, just dont let shit bother you, ignore it all, being called a 'slut' shouldnt bother you because i guarantee people have done worse (and besides, youre a teenager, youre basically expected to do stupid stuff).
hope i helped. (:
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look dont worie about it dont show any immotion or attntion to it and dont give any reactions cause that is exactly what people want jst act like nothing happend and if someone rips you off about it look at them and say "you now what at least i have better things in life do think and talk about but you i feel sory for you cause have nothing better to think or talk about" and you now what it is true they the stupid little immature soles and they have nothing better to or think about with their lame boaring life so cheer up it will soon fade and they will forget about it :)
hope u feel better and hope this helped
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