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My boyfriend and I have been dating for a few months now, and whenever we go out he always introduces me to people as his friend, not his girlfriend.
Should i be concerned? What does this mean?
I've never met any of his close friends, or any of his family.
- 21, F (link)
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well honey if he cannot repsect you and if he doesnt introduce someone as special as a gfriend as a gfriend then hell maby he doesnt deserve you but then you might not want to look to deeply into it, so next time he introduces you like that say "acctualy its girlfriend" and see what he says + you should ask him why you havnt met his family and if he denies to his friends about u being his girlfriend then he doesnt deserve you hope this helped
good luck
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i am from india gender female age 25. actually i am in love with a guy of other cast. their parents accepted me but my parents didnt.after knowing this my parents asked me to resign the job. i resigned it.i am house arrested now.my parents are so good and soft but because of cast feeling they r not accepting.that guy tried to convince my brother but my brother didnt accept. that guy asked me to come out and lets get married but i cant go out like that leaving my parents. they get hurt.now i cant get settled in career and cant marry him what to do. i am standing on two boats.i am a coward girl.dont dare to do anything.dont even dare to die.dont even dare to go with him.if i go like that if my parents die then that curse will come to me. (link)
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hi there
shame sounds pretty hectic, look i think you should do what your heart tells you, your 25 your a grown up girl, a adult and its time to make your own choices not your parents, you cant live by momy and dady forever cause what if something happens to them, how you going to fend for yourself, you need to put your foot down, your encharge of yourself and they are just going to have to live with whatever choice you make cause if you dont let go you will be stuck with them for the rest of your life, misserable wishing you have gotton out of it a long time ago is that what you want? so it is truely up to you, its time to start thinking about you and not others and your parents will never stop loving you no matter what and they might learn to forgive whatever choice you make.
hope everything turns out well
good luck
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What If Your Vagina Iches Really Bad, And When You Pull The Skin Away It Hurts Really Really Bad. What Does That Mean??? (link)
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if u have a sexualy intercoarse and have not usin protection it might be a STI but it may be a yeast infection, there are many possobilitys such as thrush but that ussualy occurs inside the vagina, you could have shaved wrong and caused an irritation of the skin but if you are shy or imbarresed of seeing a doctor at first look at the signs/symtoms of possibel STI's
warts on vagina
unussual swelling
bumps
painful smelly liquid coming out vagina
and many more
but i suggest you go see a docter soon before your condition gets worse hope this helped
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I had sex with my girlfriend for the 6th time today, and she bleed a little.. and she just told me that i popped her cherry and it wasn't her period. but she's used tampons and she has already had sex with another guy before me... so is it possible that i really was the first to pop her cherry?? (link)
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tampons dont break a girls viginity and if she had penetraiting sex with another guy it had to have broken her viginity so she must have had oral sex with that guy is YOU popped her cherry hope that helped
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I'm 15, and I am a female. My Ex-boyfriend got a new girlfriend, and when I see them together, my heart just breaks. What can I do to get over him? (link)
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mixipixi here
look you still have feelings for him by the looks of it and i think the best thing to do while you getting over him would be to avoid him try to forget about him and try to get yourself distracted from it be with friends and take your mind off things, as much as you can, that should help the pain :) hope you feel better
TaLk SoOn
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this might be hard to follow.
about a month ago me & this guy messed around & almost had sex. i still think i got preggo ,but i got the plan b pill two days after. & then i had my period ,so i'm not pregnant. i know i shouldn't have done anything with him, but what's done is done. anyways, i'm a freshman & he's a senior. i didn't tell anyone but three of my friends. they're all people i know i can trust. but now ,it being a month later ... people know about what i did with that guy *john*. i thought him being a senior, he wouldn't tell anyone ,because i would of thought that it would make him look desperate for going for a freshmen. i didn't tell anyone ,because i didn't wanna be known as a slut. he knows my friend *jessicas* big brother *joe*. joe is 21 ,so he's not in school. but joe has a 17 year old brother that told all his friends at school. so now all my older guy friends know about it & soon, it'll probably be all around school. my mom knows about it, but that's because i told her.
anyway, basically, i just don't know how i'm gonna cope with it. does anyone have anyways that i can just ignore people. or anything? i just hate all of this. :/
anything will help. (link)
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mixipixi here
look dont worie about it dont show any immotion or attntion to it and dont give any reactions cause that is exactly what people want jst act like nothing happend and if someone rips you off about it look at them and say "you now what at least i have better things in life do think and talk about but you i feel sory for you cause have nothing better to think or talk about" and you now what it is true they the stupid little immature soles and they have nothing better to or think about with their lame boaring life so cheer up it will soon fade and they will forget about it :)
hope u feel better and hope this helped
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Hey everyone, I was just wondering if anyone has ever tried the Singing Success program by Brett Manning? I'm trying to increase my range and strengthen my voice and I was wondering if his program has worked for anyone. I have a decent range but once I start to sing high I have to shift into kindof a breathy-falsetto and I want to know how I can increase my range so I don't have to do that. I was recently approached to be in my friend's band and I would like my voice to be as strong as possible. I'm really interested in the program but I do want a few opinions from people who have tried it first.
Any advice? And have you tried Brett's program?
Thank you so much!:) (link)
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mixipixi here
hey there i encourage you to start the programe it is pretty good
TaLk SoOn
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i know its early, but i already got my homecoming dress (GOOD sale) .. i dont know if i like it or not tho, im gonna decide today if i wanna keep it or return it. but one of the prblms is, it has a really low back that kinda like, laces up, but its open .. u know what i mean?? wat kind of bra can i wear with it .. its too low for a strapless one (but it would hafta be strapless) .. and the "backless" styles come like all the way down to your belly button and are kinda constricting, and i dont wanna be like that for homecoming .. so do you know of any other types that would hold up good for the whole night but still be comfy??
thanks TONS
xOxO*
((i'll rate good!!)) (link)
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mixipixi here
you could try and use silicone bra that has no straps or anything its Self Adhesive Self Supporting, Washable Invisible Silicone Bras for Cutaway Red Carpet Dresses, fashion bras, Skin Bra Cups.
a reli helps trust me it does a great job yes nubra would be the best
hope this helped
TaLk SoOn
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Like many people, I'm trying to get abs. Or at least some definition. Now I'm not fat, but I do have a little pooch over my stomach, and I know that you need cardio training mixed with core and strength training to get your fat in front of the abs to go away, and get your ab muscles to actually show.
So I was wondering, if I run 3-5 days a week, and I use a stability ball for core training 5 days a week, will I see results?
I'm also eating better nutritionally. I have smaller portion sizes, and am eating healthy foods like fruits, vegetables, and lean proteins.
I am 16 and weigh 130, so I'm not totally "fat" I just want to look tone and maybe drop a few.
Thank you :) (link)
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mixipixi here
look you seem to be doing the right things try to stick to protiens like egg white not the yolk
jst the white, chicken breast, veg, one cup of rice or pasta and try lots of sit ups and crunches + drink a protien shake every morning + sit on the floor and balance on your but (not alound to touce anything and your feer may not be near the ground then that a 2kg weight and start lifting for 2min straight every morning) hope this helped
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i have two friends who seem to be in love with each other they went out but it didnt work out so well cause hes not such a great well lets say lover so they broke up months pass and now he said he wants her back but turns out he might be going out with the one girl we all hate but at the same time his hiting on my friend she knows all of this but what do i do to help them cause i know he loves her (link)
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mixipixi here
well if he loves your friend he should tell here how he feels and well if he loves your friend while his hitting on the girl u guys h8t well im sory bt he mst pull his act togtha, try and get them to spend as much time as they can togtha and tell his to hell her how he feels, at the end of the day its all up to him :) hope it goes well and hope this helped
TaLk SoOn
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So I have been dating this amazing guy for two months, we were best friends before then, me, him, and our other friend. Well now that we're dating it's really not weird for us three to hang out and I like that. But, last Friday I got grounded until summer vacation. Well that's still three weeks away, I don't see him much outside of school since he is grounded until summer too for shoplifting. I know I know bad kid. Anyways. His parents are married to different people. His dad lives by our high school and his mom lives by my house. During the week he usually stays at his dad's because it's closer. Occasionally he stays at his mom's but not a lot. But I am just afraid since we don't have a lot of time together as it is that we'll have even less time together once summer comes around. His car's registration expired so he has to work all summer in order to get the money to get it back into good shape so it'd pass inspection. But so I don't know, what if he spends a lot of summer at his dad's? I'd have to walk there since I don't drive and it's an hours walk. Well my question is, what are ways I can spend more time with him that doesn't involve going anywhere far away? We live in the suburbs kinda in the desert, all there is are a few stores and three or four parks, the closest mall is about an hour on the bus. We plan on going camping with our friends but not for a long time. I want some nice alone time with him I am just not too sure how i'd do that. My mom stays at home because she has ms and I have eight other people living at my house, I don't even have my own room, and at his mom's house he has no room and I just find it hard to talk to a guy and spend alone time with a guy when there's no place I can. :T Any ideas? (link)
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hey mixipixi here
look i think in a situation like that the best thing to do would be walking with him to the park so you guys get to talk while you walking + you guys get the alone time at the park too, not much u can do in a situation like that, when you guys do go camping try and get time alone like when the other are asleep jst aly outside together and watch the stars and what im trying to say is use every moment you have
hope this helpd
TaLk SoOn
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i can't achieve the curly look and i really need help on it. I have medium brown hair and its shoulder length. Its naturally straight but my hair holds curls really well.. its not like i curl it and then it falls apart after an hour. It actually stays in for a good 2 days before it looks bad. the only problem is that when i curl it, it gets kinda frizzy. like there's a bunch of small strands just sticking straight up. and i try to hairspray it down and use serum but doesn't work. and its not like my hair is damaged because its actually very healthy considering i use professional salon products.
also whenever i curl my hair, its too curly. like the spirals are big and tight.. I want it to be more small and loose. like this picture right here:
http://ths_assets_production.s3.amazonaws.com/hairstyles/images/9772/icon/Lauren-Graham-1.jpg
http://www.haircareknowledge.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/06/curly-hair.jpg
http://www.marieclaire.com/cm/realbeauty/images/qK/rb-long-natural-curls-18-0809-de.jpg
also- how do i make it more wavy looking? i have a straightener that can straighten, crimp, and curl hair but i have no clue how to actually create waves. its it like curls but more relaxed curls? or what? (link)
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hey there
ok for the frizz try kia anti frizz spray works like a bomb then for the curls in the 1st pic use a hair dryer and one of thoes round hair brushes,put large portions of hair at ones and spiral and brucsh like curlers then blow dry that till it get quite curly (use same method for 3rd pic)
for 2nd pic id suggest wrapping small bits of hair around straightner and close quite tight then slowly pull it down while still hold tight
DO NOT PULL TO SIDE just straight down and that should create locks
then to make beach curls go to clickes (only supplyed at clicks) get "toney and guy beach curl spray" or make your hair into a whole lot of plats (not to small and not to big) then use fair amounts of hair spray on each plat and let it dry then use the straightner and go over each plat about 8 times and let plat loose
hope this helped
:) need more help contact me in my inbox
mixipixi
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Okay so I recently just got a job at a gym. I have front desk experience at a gym, so that's not an issue. But the gym I am currently employed at requires all personnel to work the kid's room for a certain amount of time before being moved to front desk. This is fine with me, but I'm a little nervous/scared. I've never really worked with small children before. I'm sure I would be able to handle it, but I'm just scared that something might happen that I wouldn't be able to handle. To add more to the nerves, there's a camera feed from the kid's room to the main office (no big), and a television in a common area of the gym, so other staff and parents can monitor what's going on. What if some parent freaks out about something? lafjfapuihf. I guess I'm just a little nervous. Is there anyone with daycare/childcare experience that could give me some advice? (link)
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hey there im sure evrything will be fine
most of the kidz go on and play with the toys
but if there are the od few that are a little too energetic i would advise that you play a few games with them like hide and seek or read them a few storis of teach them a few songs you now the usual
hope it helped
mixipixi
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i have a friend named louis whos really nice,funny and loud and we joke around a lot and it feels like she's like my sister because we are somewhat alike, as in personality wise one day my other friend and i was talking about my friend and suddenly when my other friend jake mentioned how louis is funny and he talked about how louis writes in her journal because louis let him borrowed it and when he told me by the way she writes she is the most sensitive and nicest person he ever met, it made me emotional and i dont know why, because she expresses her feelings by getting mad about the situation and i also noticed that she is really sensitive and nice, but the thing is why did it made me feel sensitive and emotional about this? i feel like im glad i have her as a friend and i dont wanna lose her kind of feeling because she is a good person even though she expresses herself by getting mad.
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hey there sounds like you are realy close to he and this sounds like a realy complicated sitiation but by the looks of it it sounds as if you are slightly emmotional by the way jake spoke of your friend and that may be the influence of jelously. as much as you love her and is close to her there is always the slight glich of envy and i think that also combinds with the fact that you are afraid to loose her but dont wory im sure she is not going anywere :)
hope this help and remember jst contact me in my inbox if you have anymore questions
mixipixi
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do girls think its gross(or nething) if a guy gets horny whith the gurl in there lap or nething (link)
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mixipixi here
look i dont think it is gross but id rather use the word uncomfortable to describe how the girl must feel,i dnt think she woul be very comfortable sitting on the guys lap if she knew he was getting quite horny
hope that help
TaLk SoOn
mixipixi
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I like my best guy friend alot.. but the thing is i set him up w/his g/f and shes a friend of mine.. and i have a b/f who i also like.. what do I do? (link)
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mixipixi here
what kaytlin said is right what if you guy bestfriend doesnt like you and if you break them up you will stand a chance to loose all of them so bad idea this is a major red light zone are wich you just do not enter :]
please just try and exterminate thoes little feelings for your guy best friend :)
hope what i said helped
gtg
TaLk SoOn
mixipixi
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I met this guy at school a while and we've texted a lot and we've tried several times to hang out, but they all kinda fell through. We don't really see each other that much at school - big school, no classes. About two weeks ago I asked him if he wanted to hang out and he said he didn't really want to anymore. So I figured, okay, whatever, I''m pretty sure he found someone else, but I could be wrong.
Welllll, he texted me last friday and said "so this may seem kinda weird but I miss you."
I was just like... what?? I'm so confused! He said we should hang out this week or weekend (im not sure which he meant). So I said sure and that he should text me sometime this week when he wants to hang out. I said it very clearly, that HE should text ME.
The whole week has passed, and I still haven't heard from him. Maybe he forgot? (it's happened before) Did he change his mind again? I just don't know. Should I text him? I don't want to be desperate or annoying, which is why I haven't. Should I wait until after the weekend, and if I still haven't heard anything, should I maybe text him on Monday?
Other people said he's probably leading me on or wants me 'on the side' of a girlfriend.
I don't know, I don't want to think that, but it might be true. :/
He was always so sincere and kind, and we really opened up to each and had great talks (through txt, but still).
I don't know, I just really have no idea what to do... I'm really confused by him (link)
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mixi pixi here
look what just ask me said is right but if he goes to the same skwl as you you should walk up to him AT skwl and confront him face to face and tell him how you feel cause you should never let a guy mess with your feelings like that.i now it might be abit scary or you might feel a bit shy or scared but realy u should let him now how you feel and if you have any ferther problems dont hesitate to ask me in my inbox
hope what i said helped
gtg
TaLk SoOn
xoxo
mixipixi
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There is this girl at school and we have been friends for about 5 or 6 months,not really a long time.But this girls personality is just great and she a gorgeouse,and we flirt alot.How should i win her over? (link)
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mixipixi here
one thing is for sure is that you must be yourself around her and act natural, you dont want to ovewhelm the girl otherwise she might just have a few withdraw symtoms.it might take some time but ask her if she would like to go to the movies with you as FRIENDS then after a while when you guys start to get realy close tell her how you feel about her and ask her on a date :)hope this help
TaLk SoOn
xoxo
mixipixi
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