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This guy is extremely confusing, I don't know what to do?
I met this guy at school a while and we've texted a lot and we've tried several times to hang out, but they all kinda fell through. We don't really see each other that much at school - big school, no classes. About two weeks ago I asked him if he wanted to hang out and he said he didn't really want to anymore. So I figured, okay, whatever, I''m pretty sure he found someone else, but I could be wrong.
Welllll, he texted me last friday and said "so this may seem kinda weird but I miss you."
I was just like... what?? I'm so confused! He said we should hang out this week or weekend (im not sure which he meant). So I said sure and that he should text me sometime this week when he wants to hang out. I said it very clearly, that HE should text ME.
The whole week has passed, and I still haven't heard from him. Maybe he forgot? (it's happened before) Did he change his mind again? I just don't know. Should I text him? I don't want to be desperate or annoying, which is why I haven't. Should I wait until after the weekend, and if I still haven't heard anything, should I maybe text him on Monday?
Other people said he's probably leading me on or wants me 'on the side' of a girlfriend.
I don't know, I don't want to think that, but it might be true. :/
He was always so sincere and kind, and we really opened up to each and had great talks (through txt, but still).
I don't know, I just really have no idea what to do... I'm really confused by him
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Hun i have been through this same situation!! Me and this boy texted all the time and then things got wierd and we wouldnt talk as much....we hung out one day...spent the whole day together and it was fun but at the same time it didnt feel right. Soon afterwords we stopped speaking to eachother completely, he just wanted me as like a backup. So yea definately listen to the others...boys who cause this kind of confusion are a waste of time and can hurt yu
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mixi pixi here
look what just ask me said is right but if he goes to the same skwl as you you should walk up to him AT skwl and confront him face to face and tell him how you feel cause you should never let a guy mess with your feelings like that.i now it might be abit scary or you might feel a bit shy or scared but realy u should let him now how you feel and if you have any ferther problems dont hesitate to ask me in my inbox
hope what i said helped
gtg
TaLk SoOn
xoxo
mixipixi
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I think you should start listening to the "other people" that keep trying to tell you. From what you have said, it seems like they are right. I've had my fair share of guys flip flopping day to day with their feelings. It never turns out good. This guy just wants you to be there whenever HE wants you, or wants to hang out with you. Don't let him get into your life like this. A guy that truly, really likes you.. makes the effort. If he liked you and wanted to hang out with you, he'd text or call you, no doubt. This guy is just one of those everyday jerks you need to avoid. You might be too close to the situation to see it, but as someone looking from the outside, I know how you're feeling and I know how this situation ends. Don't text/call him at all, it'll only add to your frustration. If he decides he really wants you, let him come to you.
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