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I guess you could say i like giving advice. i always know what to say when other people are in bad situations, but when it comes to me, i dont know how to take my own advice -.- but thats okay cuz this is why im here :)
Gender: Female
Location: Florida
Age: 17
Member Since: November 2, 2009
Answers: 5
Last Update: May 15, 2010
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I met this guy at school a while and we've texted a lot and we've tried several times to hang out, but they all kinda fell through. We don't really see each other that much at school - big school, no classes. About two weeks ago I asked him if he wanted to hang out and he said he didn't really want to anymore. So I figured, okay, whatever, I''m pretty sure he found someone else, but I could be wrong.
Welllll, he texted me last friday and said "so this may seem kinda weird but I miss you."
I was just like... what?? I'm so confused! He said we should hang out this week or weekend (im not sure which he meant). So I said sure and that he should text me sometime this week when he wants to hang out. I said it very clearly, that HE should text ME.
The whole week has passed, and I still haven't heard from him. Maybe he forgot? (it's happened before) Did he change his mind again? I just don't know. Should I text him? I don't want to be desperate or annoying, which is why I haven't. Should I wait until after the weekend, and if I still haven't heard anything, should I maybe text him on Monday?
Other people said he's probably leading me on or wants me 'on the side' of a girlfriend.
I don't know, I don't want to think that, but it might be true. :/
He was always so sincere and kind, and we really opened up to each and had great talks (through txt, but still).
I don't know, I just really have no idea what to do... I'm really confused by him (link)
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Hun i have been through this same situation!! Me and this boy texted all the time and then things got wierd and we wouldnt talk as much....we hung out one day...spent the whole day together and it was fun but at the same time it didnt feel right. Soon afterwords we stopped speaking to eachother completely, he just wanted me as like a backup. So yea definately listen to the others...boys who cause this kind of confusion are a waste of time and can hurt yu
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OKay, i'm 14 and the guy i like is 18. We started dating September 23 and we dated for about a month, and then i was like i honestly dont think i like him? and i really didnt think i did, i mean i wouldn't even act like his girlfriend? he got mad at me because i like wouldn't even touch him, & it was stupid. and i know i was wrong. and then like the week after i broke up with him, he came and talked to me and we had worked everything out, so we got back together.. and then then next day, he called and told me we shouldn't date, that i was wasting my time, and then like five minutes later i saw him with a girl in his truck! and it really hurt, and at this moment they're still dating, and i honestly dont know what to do. because i have finally realized that i was stupid and i really liked him but i think he likes her now, or hes just trying ot hurt my feelings or something? idunno. but what do i do? (link)
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well. obviously this guy is just leading you on and messing with yur feelings. trust me im 16 and ive totally been there. :) so wat yu need to do is just make it looks like it doesnt bother you, becuz he prolly is doing all of this to get a reaction from yu, it doesnt sound like hes very mature either, so if yur going to date an older guy, make sure he has his priorities straight, as in..hes a good guy. hope this helps!
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I feel like my love-life has become the song "falling for you" by Colbie Caillat and I don't want to scare him away by saying something. How soon can a girl tell a guy she's dating that she loves him, how long should she wait? (link)
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i guess it depends on how long you have been dating. if its only been awhile...dont say anything about it! that would scare him off. but with time yu will get closer, and hopefully the time will come where yu both know that yu love each other. yu will kno when the right time comes, just trust yur judgement. :)
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Okay Well I'm African American And I'm Really Into The "goth, emo, scene, visual kei" type thing. I Love The Stuff And Thats My Style. However, Everytime I Look Up How To's ANd STuff Its Focused On People Of Lighter Color. I'm A Milk CHocolatey Tone And The Type Of Makeup They FOcus On Just Doesnt Go With It. It Always Says "Make Your SKin Pale ANd Use Bloody Mary Powder" and things Like That, But I Cant Do That. Can Anybody Tell me Makeup I Can Do To Go With My Goth Style, And Not Require Making Myself Pale And Wierd Looking Because Of My COlor? Thanx :] (link)
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since your a darker tone then the typical "goth" person, yu should really try using makeup that works for your skin tone. purples look good on ppl of color like me, and i think that since the typical goth person is pale...maybe yu should try creating a whole new perspective of the goth scene. yu kno, make it yur own. :) be how yu feel yu should be
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me and my boyfriend are in a long distance relationship at the momemt. becuase of some things.
lately all we have been doing is arguing and im so tired of it.
he works alll the time and its annoying haha.
but the past couple of days he hasnt been talking to me as much. and the other day i said something. and i was like ok well whatever just text me another day since you havent had time for me in the past two days. and he was like ok you just pissed me off bye.
and i didnt mean to make him mad. i was just kinda upset and didnt really think about what i was saying and all i was doing is being honest and telling him how i felt. and that whole day he didnt talk to me. and the day after that he wouldnt call or text me back.
but i was at school and he texted me saying chill the *uck out you made me mad sorry. and i told him a bunch of times im sorry and he still didnt text me back after that so at night i was like are you gonna call me tonight or no? and he said he will. so that made me happy. but of course he didnt call me. so this morning when i woke up for school i was like thanks for calling. and he never texted me back. so later today i was like ok whatever since you havent even tried to talked to me that past week. im done.
and he texted me back saying yesteday was my little brothers birthday so after i got off work i got him a movie and we both fell asleep watching it. but ok were done. bye
and i texted him abck saying i dont really wanna be done im just kinda upset. and he was like you already said it. bye.
and hasnt texted me back since.
i dont know what to do! and sorry this was so long. and probably confusing.
but can someone help me.
it takes two people for a relationship to work out and i feel like im the only one working in it. and it sucks. (link)
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Im answering this from experience! im 16 yrs old ok? and i have tried a long distance relationship. well it was okay at first, but then we started talking less and less and we did start getting upset with eachother. i say, yu brake it off. i truly believe that yu should be in a relationship where the other person is there for yu physically, not a "txt boyfrend". i think yu should try moving on and finding someone that will care for yu, and be there for yu wenever yu need it. :)
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