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boyfriend problems
me and my boyfriend are in a long distance relationship at the momemt. becuase of some things.
lately all we have been doing is arguing and im so tired of it.
he works alll the time and its annoying haha.
but the past couple of days he hasnt been talking to me as much. and the other day i said something. and i was like ok well whatever just text me another day since you havent had time for me in the past two days. and he was like ok you just pissed me off bye.
and i didnt mean to make him mad. i was just kinda upset and didnt really think about what i was saying and all i was doing is being honest and telling him how i felt. and that whole day he didnt talk to me. and the day after that he wouldnt call or text me back.
but i was at school and he texted me saying chill the *uck out you made me mad sorry. and i told him a bunch of times im sorry and he still didnt text me back after that so at night i was like are you gonna call me tonight or no? and he said he will. so that made me happy. but of course he didnt call me. so this morning when i woke up for school i was like thanks for calling. and he never texted me back. so later today i was like ok whatever since you havent even tried to talked to me that past week. im done.
and he texted me back saying yesteday was my little brothers birthday so after i got off work i got him a movie and we both fell asleep watching it. but ok were done. bye
and i texted him abck saying i dont really wanna be done im just kinda upset. and he was like you already said it. bye.
and hasnt texted me back since.
i dont know what to do! and sorry this was so long. and probably confusing.
but can someone help me.
it takes two people for a relationship to work out and i feel like im the only one working in it. and it sucks.
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Im answering this from experience! im 16 yrs old ok? and i have tried a long distance relationship. well it was okay at first, but then we started talking less and less and we did start getting upset with eachother. i say, yu brake it off. i truly believe that yu should be in a relationship where the other person is there for yu physically, not a "txt boyfrend". i think yu should try moving on and finding someone that will care for yu, and be there for yu wenever yu need it. :)
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Sounds like you two definately need to talk. You two both seem to be blaming eachother for the difficulties you are facing in your relationship, and you are forgetting to take responisbility for your own thoughts and ideas.
I suggest you call him and tell him why you were upset, tell him that you wished you didn't fight all the time, and that you really do still love him, and you shouldnt have been so immature to say that you were done without really talking about it first. Ask him how he is feeling, if he really does want to break up, or if he was just angry too.
Long distance relationships are hard and they involve a lot of trust. Don't limit yourself by having a relationship with someone who doesn't care the way they should about you. Sometimes breaking up is the right thing to do. Even though the love you feel for him probably wont go away, the devotion you feel towards him seems like its already gone. I hope that you will have the courage and patience to go through with this process, whether you get back together or not.
Best of luck to you!
<3/ariannekp
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