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I'm fifteen, sophomore. It's been five months since me and this guy I dated for seven months broke up. He was my first boyfriend, first kiss, fingering, hj, and bj... It was a really unhealthy relationship and a super long story but to sum it all up, he really hurt me. He became sooo much a part of me that when we broke up I felt like I had nothing to distinguish myself with anymore. Even now, he doesn't even feel like a person to me, more like a whole part of myself. But its an empty space... We don't talk. Hang out. Nothing. But I still think about him every single day. I sometimes still cry over him... It's just wierd. Because even thoguh I hate him for all the pain and betrayl he put me through I miss him like crazy. And I feel like a different person now that he's gone... And I hate it. I want it to go away SO bad. I just don't understand. It took him days to move on. It's been five months and I'm still hurting. Whats wrong with me??
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Boys often seem to move on more quickly than girls -- and it's also true that a first breakup is very difficult. You might consider investing more in yourself, and who you are, and less in the idea of this lost relationship. What do you like to do? What are you good at? Focus on developing those interests and talents, and you may find you feel less empty, or at least that you have a productive distraction from missing your ex.
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honey he was your first it will always hurt to a point you will ever forget him but you got to tell your self i enjoyed it but now im to newer things and better thiings dont let it keep you down youll find a better guy
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I agree with the person below me. You need to put effort into getting over him. What I've learned is that you need to find things to do instead of think of him. Go find other guys to like. There are soo many better guys out there who won't hurt you like he did.
You need to sit and think about this. Your ex hurt you and totally broke your heart. Think logically about it. He just moved on. You need to move on, you already know this and you want to. So if you try and put some effort into other guys and your friends and you keep telling yourself you're getting over him then you should. Good luck!
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you actually have to TRY to move on... i know it's tough but if you actually try to then it'll work within time. remember, time heals everything. you have to be willing to. go hang out with your friends as much as possible. meet new fun people. all i know is that being with your friends as much as possible helps prevent the pain a little (actually, a lot) more. keep yourself occupied and eventually he'll be behind you, but remember: you have to WANT to otherwise you just won't be able to move on from it.
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