This is more of an opinion question I guess, but I have NEVER met a guy that is gorgeous but doesn't know it. I've met a few girls that are really pretty and they are confident and stuff, but theyre not conceited and they dont really realize HOW pretty they are. I just wonder if there are any guys out there like that. It just seems that all the guys that are gorgeous are all into themselves and KNOW they look good. It's different from confidence its self-interest. So I was wondering, do you guys think there are any guys out there that are gorgeous but dont really realize it?
crazytoad30 answered Sunday November 15 2009, 2:20 pm: well i met this dude and i think hes really good looking but he thought he was straight up ugly. when we started dating he didnt feel like he deserved me. this was kinda nice at first but trust me it does get old. my advice is find a guy that has confidence but is somewhat modest about it. pick someone equally as confident as you are:) [ crazytoad30's advice column | Ask crazytoad30 A Question ]
KisaKiss19 answered Sunday November 15 2009, 10:36 am: I think for guys, the "don't know it" part- is really that they don't care about their looks. They're probably the type of guy who's more interested in having a good time(not in that way, just in general, a good time-with friends and such :P) Rather,they probably base their opinions off of personality. Theirs a lot of different personalities out there for anyone, so there's bound to be a drop-dead-sexy man who doesn't even realize it, for many different reasons.It's really your background that you base yourself on.Say for example,if anyone has a lot on their mind and a lot to deal with in life-their looks would be the last thing on their list,you know? As apposed to the guy who knows he's gorgeous, has probably gotten a lot of praise. Others could just be humble with the compliments they get and don't put themselves on some high pedestal because of it. Some guys just aren't interested in themselves in that way-they don't connect their looks with who they are. That,to me,is a really rare find xD! They're out there,you probably don't even notice it-because you know us girls- tend to only notice the over indulgent men that we "can't have but want" type-scenario. Just look around ;). Well,that's my take on this! hope i helped :P [ KisaKiss19's advice column | Ask KisaKiss19 A Question ]
wisemen answered Sunday November 15 2009, 7:56 am: Yes there are those kind of guys out there but you don't notice them because they are probably shy or not confident. Just look around you and see if there are any guys you haven't talked to before and just wonder why not? Hope that helps! [ wisemen's advice column | Ask wisemen A Question ]
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