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About who I really am!!!


Question Posted Sunday November 22 2009, 4:04 pm

I went to college in the Philippines and I just did not know how to deal with the reality because I did not know how to speak the national language and I all my classmates made fun of me that's why I dropped out of college in the Philippines in the first place. I've also quit my jobs before that because of the reality. Now just today, I revealed the biggest secret that I've been hiding all my life to my mom and that's that I am gay. I'm beginning to think that hiding this secret all my life ate me on the inside in which I think led to the decisions I've made in life. I just couldn't deal with certain problems with people. Do you think coming out was the answer to all my problems in the past?? I feel like I've been living a lie about myself my whole entire life and I just want to know if things will get better now for me.

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Eros answered Sunday November 22 2009, 7:59 pm:
Yes, now follow the yellow brick road and tap your heels together 3 times and say there's no homo's no mo' there's no homo's no mo'....

Seriosly though, be yourself. If you're comfortable being closeted then be closeted. Don't try to force yourself to be something you aren't comfortable with.

Find a companion. That's what is important. Think of being gay as just a fact. All it means is that you know in advance that your future companion will be a man. That's all. And now your mom knows. That's all man. Be yourself...Be true to yourself...

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