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only one trying
17/f
Sometimes It feels like I'm the only one trying in my relationship with my boyfriend. He lacks in calling me & texting me & he often forgets about everything. He says he cares about me , that he wants to make sure I'm happy but instead of being happy I'm upset almost every day & I getting sick of bitting my tounge and prettending like everythings fine when in reality it isn't. He's in college & I understand college is diffrent from highschool but it feels like I'm his sidechick . I know he loves me and I'm certain he's not cheating on me he's just really busy. I've had these conversations with him & have often tried telling him how I feel. But sometimes he makes me feel like he seriously does not care..I just don't know what to do anymore I really don't want to look at leaving him as an option I care a lot for him and I really want to see us work out..how can I express myself more to him in a way that will get him to listen?
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take him out of his comfort zone where you would usually comfront him go out make a night of it and then at the end gently break the ice and speak to him and let him know how you feel and explain how you know hes busy and stuff but let him realise hw its affecting you and how much you care for him and tell him hw much little fings like fone calls and stuff make you feel loved and hw you miss them and even if he doesnt do it all the time once and a while would be nice because you love him so dearly and just like to know he s around for you and how he shoodnt forget the little stuff cause it means so much hope this helps.
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I would believe what he says to you he wouldn't of said it if it wasn't true i don't think he'd lie to you i'd sit him down and tell him exactly how you feel it's better then not saying anything
and keeping everything your feeling to yourself he'll probably understand that's your best option
seeing as you don't want to leave him if for some reason things don't work out you still know that you tried trying is better then not doing anything
at all and regretting it later since your in a relationship with him you should be able to tell one another anything and be able to trust him it's worth a shot to try and talk to him again you maybe surprised at how things turned out unlike the other times you tried
Good luck!
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