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im scared he will just laugh
so i like this boy in the year above me in school an he knows i like him but he doesnt no that i love him because i do love him. i really wont to tell him how i feel about him but im scared that he will just laugh an tell all his friends an they will just laugh at me as well. i thiguh about maybe tellin him on msn because i could mever do it face to face, but i just really dont no what to do im scared. please hellp me :'(
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well i get what you mean its hard to express feelings but under no circumstances should you do it by msn or any other messaging network as he can save conversations and show others and you fear may become a reality and he would laugh it up with his mates if he doesnt like you back best thing to is get him on his own and speak to him and let him no that you like him a lot but do not mention the word love as that makes some guys run a mile and it would maybe freak him out best possible move is face to face comfrontation and avoid having an audience that way he has no proof what so ever you said a word to him . :)
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The absolute WORST move you can make is to use MSN, a note or anything that can be kept or printed out and handed around to other people. If he's a jerk it will be fuel for him and other classmates to cause you grief over.
Also telling him you LOVE him out of the blue may not be the best card to play. It could scare him seeing as he knows you like him and you don't even have a relationship together.
If you are smart I would approach him when you are alone and tell him "Let's not make this hard any longer. I was hoping you could tell me where we stand are we just friends or could we try something out."
If he says no than that's okay. If people find out they'll soon forget about it and move on. However, if you say you LOVE him in person or on MSN it will likely scare him off and make you the target of classmates.
You can also try inviting him to a party, movie with friends, bowling etc. etc. and see if he sounds at all interested. If he doesn't and especially if he says no to more than one offer he's telegraphing "I'm not into you (at least not in that way."
So kiddo, th eonly way to get what you want here is to ask him "Where do things stand?" rather than say I Love You. It protects you. Try it out at school tomorrow and send me an inbox note. I promise this will at least get you an answer out of him.
Being scared is okay and believe me if he likes you back and is your friend he'll understand. He may be very scared to approach you for all you know. You just have to do it or you'll forever be wondering what if. So, there's your homework to do. If he's worth it than so is sticking your neck out.
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Well lets see. Do you really know this guy? Have you spent time with him, talked to him? You can't really love someone without knowing him first. You do like him, i can see that but i don't think you love him.If, you feel it in your heart that you REALLY do love him. Give it a try, and if it doesnt go your way its alright. See, I've been here before and i told him on my space that i loved him and it didn't work out for me. Seriously he was in a grade older to. So, i think you should tell him in person your feelings for him. I know it seems hard but it shows him how brave you are, and that you seriously mean it when you say it. Oh, and when this happened he didn't laugh at me or tell his friends. He was respectful towards me. Maybe the same for you? Don't worry if he does, he's NOT worth it if he makes fun of you.. and if he lets others do it to. If it doesn't work out, don't worry you
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