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Pressured into sex.???? help!!!!
I think I am being pressured into sex.. I have a boyfriend who just wants to have sex sex sex sex sex SEX!! and I am getting tired of telling him no! I am too young I am only 14(8months). we been together only 7 months and all he ever ask about is sex sex and more sex.. what do i do??? I feel he is not going to respect me if do manage to have sex with him after a while....
I NEED HELP !
Im NOT readyy!!!
-Jay Help!
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dump his ass
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If you're not ready, then you're not ready.
If that's all he wants from you, it's clearly nto a good relationship. He just wants to get laid and doesn't even care what you feel abotu that, even though it's YOUR body. You shouldn't have to put up witht his.
Dump him. Seriously.
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Kick him to the curb! You're 14 years old, and you know that you're not ready. You have told him this numerous times & he doesn't listen. Is that really someone you want to be with?
He doesn't respect you now, nor will he ever respect you (even if you were to have sex with him). Dump him now. Don't let anyone make you do something that you don't wanna do, or something that makes you feel uncomfortable. You have been right to say no, so keep saying no & dump him.
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I agree that you are too young for sex and you said yourself that you're not ready. You should wait until you are ready and willing to handle such a thing but remember to be safe when you do. If he won't listen to No then it's time to let him go.
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I agree with the above statement. It is YOUR body, not his. It is YOUR decision, not his. If you don't want to, you don't have to. Period. If he is pressuring you, tell him you don't appreciate that he is pressuring you. If he does not stop, dump him. You do not have to give in to please him. If he REALLY loves you, he will acknowledge and respect your boundaries. If he says "if you really love me, you'll have sex with me and prove it," he is only trying to satisfy his own selfish needs.
Be strong. Do what YOU want to do, not what anyone else does. You have a right to your own body.
All the best.
-Charlotte
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Tell him to stop or you'll dump him.
If he doesn't stop: Dump him.
If you really like the guy, then be honest and let him know that you are absolutely not ready and if he doesn't stop pestering you for sex that it will mean the end of your relationship.
If you don't like him all the much, don't even warn him, just dump his sorry ass.
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