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is he talking GOOD about seeing me naked?
so me and my crush were streaking (yeah i know, it's like not right or whatever) but it was in his backyard hahaa. anyways so it was the first time he seen me naked and i don't have the biggest of boobs. i have like a 34b..
and i have a good body, i'm in shape. it's just self-conscious about the boobs thing. well me and him were at our friends house and my friend was like he's talking dirty about you! and then i was standing there in like a tank top and i could hear him doing gestures to his friend about me but i didn't know if it was good or bad.
i'm really self-conscious he thinks i have small boobs. he didnt say anything. i know he wants to get with me and thinks im really hot but my boobs look bigger because i usually wear a push up bra.
i just don't know if hes talking good about me or not!?
by the way i'm 19/f
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The most important thing in my opinion is that this guy respects you. I am sure you have lovely breast and feel proud of them they are yours. Guys can be jerks and talk dirty about you which is NOT cool. if this guys is going around braggin and putting you down just walk away and be glad you didnt give it to him. just beleive that there are guys that breast size isnt important what is important is who you are and how much he admires you for who you are. dont let big or small breast define who you are. instead let them be part of who you are and that is
Intellenget, responsible, alert, self loving and very sexy..alot of guys once they hit it just complain how bad it was or put you down on what they call defects thats SO NOT COOL. be careful and always respect yourself and let yourself be respected..you are very special. I hope this helps
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trust me once guys get you in bed they don't really care about your exact boob size.that's not thier man focus. if they r good guys they wont care.
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The smaller the perkier, baby. Really, big boobs get saggy. Sounds like he liked what he saw. Dude sounds like a creep though... hand gestures?
kyle
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If you are so self-conscious about your body why did you put yourself in such a vulnerable position? I'm not judging you but you let him see you and that invited the reaction he gave to his friend.
In a way you've put yourself into this position with a guy who doesn't seem to care about you. Most guys if they had such an encounter where they saw someone naked wouldn't be telling others or using hand gestures to do it. Why? They'd be fearful you would go and say similar things about him to all your friends.
He seems to want a random hookup which is not a good idea unless you want to be hurt and or are seeking a fling. He doesn't seem to be interested in how the girl would feel about being described to others whether good or bad comments.
Don't worry about your breasts. They're normal and you are fine. If a guy really appreciates you your breast size and how you look undressed won't matter and if it did it means you've picked the wrong guy.
How do you tell if he really was talking about you? Well, you can't to be certain. All you can do is say "I saw you talking about me to so, and so last-night. I sure hope you weren't describing our encounter the other day. I'd hate to have to tell my friends what didn't happen."
You also have to be ready to tell what didn't occur or correct anything he says with your friends as he's equally vulnerable as he was naked too if he shoots his mouth off. I don't see him doing that but one friend with as equally a big mouth leads to rumor.
You'll be fine! Approach him about it and tell him if he was talking about it to a friend that it's not cool and that you don't know where things stand anymore. Talk it out one on one and make sure what happened alone one night stays between you.
If really insecure about your body be ultra picky about who sees it and don't allow yourself to be judged or talked about. You're too damn critical about your appearance. Every woman regardless of stature, age or bra size feels the same way about their body and breasts. It's natural. They all want to change something.
Think of it this way you saw him naked and his penis no doubt. He's probably worried what you think of how he looks too or what you said to your girlfriends. You're both in the same boat. It's time to talk to him about where things stand and practicing modesty when he's with pals.
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First, your boobs aren't horribly small, and if you have a small frame and flat stomach, gigantic boobs looks strange. Some guys don't even really care about boobs(i know hard to believe lol) Some guys are more into stomachs, legs, hips or butt, if he didnt say anything, he probably didnt think anything bad :0)
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I'm pretty sure he has no problem with your boobs. 34B isn't bad, it's better than having breasts that are TOO big which can cause problems and sag a lot (although it happens eventually). Here's the thing about guys, they are all visual. They won't care whether they are a 34B or 34D.. As long as it's on good looking person and it's BOOBS. Lol. Hypothetically, if you two were to get together based on really liking eachother and not just on looks, I believe he would appreciate you and your body just as he'd appreciate the person you are and how you treat him. Some guys are like this, but remember, boys will ALWAYS be boys so they slack off a bit sometimes. Bottom line, i don't think he's talking about you in a bad way. And if he's only concerned about your looks, I don't think the relationship would last. I say, look for a guy who likes you inside and out :D
Hope I helped,
Uniq
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Yeah he probably likes them. I'm sure he was happy to see you naked and he thinks your body is great i'm sure. Plus most guys just like boobs in general.. big or small.
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I think you're just being a bit paranoid. He's a guy... he was probably just happy to have seen you naked.
-Jasmine
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I am pretty much positive that he was talking good about you. It definately sounds like it, and I honestly don't think he would think your boobs are too small...at least you have some lol and your not a a cup or below. Most guys won't base everything on your boobs anyway
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