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hair down there
is it true that it hurts guys to shave down there? my boyfriend said he would start shaving for me but like i dont want himto hurt himself...oh and is it also true that guys don't respect guys who shave down there if they ever find out about it?
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no it is very common for guys to shave down there.
that's not true at all other guys don't look at other males in a different way cuz of that.they shouldn't even know about it anyways...that'd be odd.
no it shoulodn't hurt him if he uses an electric razor.
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I am not sure about the second part of your question but as far as the first part...My friend and I were chatting about this a few weeks ago and she said her bf shaved down there & they then had sex and it felt great. However a few days later they had sex again and she said it was so painful as he rubbed up against her. So my advice is if hes going to do he has to stay on top of it daily or every other day. He could also try trimming it so when it grows its not stubbly like a cactus! LOL. Or ofcourse he can just let nature run its course!
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No, on both accounts.
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Skin is skin, and it's not really designed to be shaven at all. So yeah, it can be uncomfortable, about as much as it can be uncomfortable for a woman to shave. Maybe a bit more, as they learn how to do it. Just like women get better with practice and hurt themselves less, men can acquire this skill too.
Waxing, I'll grant you, is WAAAY more painful for guys, simply because their skin isn't as taunt around that area as a woman's is.
As for the respect thing:
It probably is true of a lot of guys.
Straight guys are silly: They seem terrified that the moment they actually take care of themselves and give a damn about hygiene they will 'catch the gay'. So yes, it's probably true, and that is why both you should keep it private (it's a private thing anyways!) and not go sharing the details with anyone.
Frankly, if I were you, I'd encourage my boyfriend to trim the hair first, and get use to the sensation a bit before even considering shaving. Triming it a bit shorter will keep it neater and cleaner, without exposing all the skin underneath to sensations it's not used too.
Plus, triming doesn't hurt at all.
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