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boyfriend not answering


Question Posted Sunday October 4 2009, 2:12 pm

16/f

my boyfriend is 17 years old, and i let him go to homecoming with his friend since it was his friend's senior year and including the fact that he already bought him a ticket. i was against it at first, because he lost my trust like... 8 months ago when he flirted with a girl, but ever since i talked to him about it.. it didn't do it ever again. and at first my boyfriend didn't want to go because he knew i would be upset, but i told him to since his friend already got him one... and just not to have anything happen (flirting with girls, cheating) or whatever... even though he doesn't do anything close to that, but you know.. just telling him. So, i was supposed to see him after homecoming at 10:30, and on my way driving back from work he texted me saying "hunnie ima have to see you later" i sent a question mark and i was always wondering how come our plans keep getting canceled. but he never answered. i stayed up til 1 waiting for his phone call since his parents said to be back with the car by 12:30... no answer. i called him a couple of times, but he never answered the phone. so i woke up at 9, and called him it went straight to his voice mail (my guess was that his phone died) so i went on facebook and it said he was on.. at 5 in the morning. which made me mad, because he didn't answer my text or call me and he was up at 5 in the morning... then i tried going back to sleep, but i started having dreams about him and it kind of pissed me off. so when it was 12, that was when he was supposed to be at work. so i called *straight to voice mail again* so when it was 12:30 i called.. IT FINALLY RANG! but it only rang 3 to 4 times, and it went to voice mail *rejected phone call* then i called another 2 times, same thing. then i called again, it went straight to voice mail, so then i called again after waiting for 5 minutes, it rang 3 to 4 times... *rejected*

i thought he was avoiding me and stuff, so i don't really know what to do. i don't really want to end up going to his work place and ask to talk to him. i just really want to know what the heck is going on and why didn't he answer my phone calls or text me back.... help please?!


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Bolt answered Monday October 5 2009, 12:25 am:
maybe he's not answering cuz he's scared half to death about you yelling at him. no offense baby, but you sound a little physco. no big deal though, its hot. look he probably didnt do anything and he just isnt in the mood to get screamed at. so chill.

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Matt answered Sunday October 4 2009, 11:06 pm:
Chill the fuck out.

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Brandi_S answered Sunday October 4 2009, 11:02 pm:
Maybe he lost his phone, or left it at his friend's place?

Try not to jump to conclusions or freak out without knowing his side of the story. Why don't you call his house?


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