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Girls: Why is she still talking to me?
Long story short, I talked to this girl everyday for a couple months over the summer, and when she moved back to school I asked her out, only for her to say it was complicated because of an old relationship. She never straight up said "no," but that's basically the jist of what she said. Anyway, our conversations started to dwindle a bit right after that, it was a little awkward. But we kept talking, and we're back to talking nearly everyday now, hanging out on the weekends, etc. I'm nervous to ask her again, but here's my question. Girls, if a guy said he liked you and you didn't like him back, would you keep talking to him? She knows how I feel, and yet if she doesn't feel the same way why would she talk to me?
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She may only like you as a friend, and sometimes why girls talk to men that they don't like back, is because they're stressed about something else, and they need help, that's usually why i do it. Maybe she likes you, try asking her out in a couple of weeks or something, and if she says no, then leave it be.
Good luck^^
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the same reason why guys do it/ ok but it could be 3 things ok
1.) if she doesnt like you shes talking to you because you make her feel good and wanted thinking if she ever gets lonely your always there sort of her back up you shes probley insecure and needs to have somebody shes using you OR
2.)ok how does she treat you does she treat you as a freind and you miss read the signals or does she touch the border line and lead you on if so its number l if not maybe she thinks you guys are just friends until its made clear OR
3.) she could of releaized that you would be the better choice and shes comin around opening up.
but depending on how shes acting if shes talking and flirting to other guys i would be forward i know its going to be hard but it'll be worse and do more damage if you fall for her completely and she not even stumble say " Listen we've been talkin and flirting just to make sure were on the same page What is this" OR "so are we just talking like a friend or are we talking talking" But if she doesnt flirt and gives her attention to you mostly than be more gentle you dont want to rush her or pressure her you just want to know whats up. so something like jokingly say when she says or hints something to you joke and pull one of these. "If you dnt stop i may start to think you like me" and give her a cute smile. hope i helped you and remember its not what you say its how you say it oh and body language says alot lol sorry wrote so much just wanted to cover every aspect good luck
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Truth is; Yes. Girls have summer flings and we just like to flirt. we dont like everyone we flirt with but we just do it because its fun. Guys mess around with girls heads and we mess around with guys. its just the way life is. You could maybe ask her in a while how she thinks of you. if you dont get a good response then you might just be an easy target. If you get a good response its either that she wants to keep flirting with you or she really does think that of you. Point is, give her space. dont annoy her with texts or comments. we really do hate that.
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Once a guy told me he liked me when I didnt like him that way and I kept talking to him. I was totally fine with it! It was a tiny bit akward at first but that all ended within a day. Good luck!
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yup. girls love attention.
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She may assume that you got over it. She might like the attention and the fact you like her.
I really wouldn't ask her out again. I really think you need to move on. If she wanted to be with you, then should would be with you. I really don't like girls that play games and this is what it looks like. I wouldn't stop talking to her, but I wouldn't talk to her everyday. There are a lot of great women out there that will treat you the way you deserve to be treated.
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of course i would its the same with this guy i used to like one of my friends told him i liked him but he didnt like me it was a bit akward but we got passed it and now were just friend but i still have feelings for him but im not going to ruin our friendship i belive that the only people you need in your life are the ones who need you in theirs hope that helps x
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