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How do I stop this annoying girl from bothering me?
Okay, so I am a 10th grader. Last year there was this girl in one of my classes. Like we weren't friends or anything. Apparently she's pretty popular but i dont know and i dont care Like I've talked to her about school things.. and I think like general things.. like occasionally but I wouldn't call her my friend, at all, lol. Like i dont know how but she looked me up online on some site and found a few nicknames I have that I wrote on it. and I was wondering why she looked me up in google in the first place.. I still dont have that answer. So she was like thinking it was embarassing and stuff when she said it during class, probably,.. when it wasn't. there were like 3 other girls with her in that posse.. well like a class-posse. one of them was just a follower.. essentially a tool. she's on my bus and she bugs me.. people who are like that, sheep, bug me. the other like she was the type of girl like im sure she was making fun of me and also one girl in the class i'd talk to.. i guess i can call her my friend but we're really different and i dont like a lot of the things she does.. but she was someone to talk to in that class basically. we used to be closer but she changed. then there was one other girl.. er.. i forget what she did, but she was there too, lol. ANYWAYS, the main thing is the first girl i was talking about. okay so that was last year and i havent talked to her since.. and then all of a sudden this year she keeps randomly saying hi to me in the hallways. usually when shes around friends. like i have volleyball after school and she has cheerleading so its usually then and she like says "Hi/hey [mynamehere]!" and its like totally unexpected. and i check to see who's saying hi to me and when its her its like wtf cause im not friends with her or anything.. like it catches me off guard so i just act like it didnt happen and ignore it. like today i was in the middle of class taking a quiz and she like does it again in the hallway too when she was in a diff class. like i dont know what to do. like i cant just ignore it.. like if she truly wants to be my friend which shes currently failing at then i dont get why she'd do that. but im assuming shes just trying to make fun of me or something so how can i put an end to this? i dont want to have friends who do stupid sh** like this anyways. i like when people are straightforward. like i was going to send her a message on facebook but i dont know what to say or anything.. or should i say something IRL instead? please help me guyssss. thanks.
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Okay so this girl is trying to be your friend and your mad?
Nobody is making you be friends with her but if she says hi in the hallway it doesnt kill you to flash a smile or wave. You dont have to hangout with her on the weekends or give her a hug but does saying hi really kill you that much?
I personally think its stupid that you cant just say hello to someone in the hallway.
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don't do anything whatsoever, she's not making fun of you. by responding to her, its letting her know you register her, which is giving her what she wants. ignore her completely. if she is honestly trying to be friends, then you'll find out her intentions.
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Her and her friends probably find you attractive.
So there for she's probably going around telling her friends she's friends with you.
And to 'prove it' she's starting to talk to you in the hallway, ect.
I'm a girl, and used to have a best friend like this, and the guy could not stand her.
And she used to do this too make, basically trying to make me jealous.
^Take that into consideration.
But the only way you get probably get her to stop is to tell her to back off and just to not talk to you.
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