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I've been dating a guy for 3 years and I recently lost about 20 pounds. I am still in the normal weight range for my height and I feel overall healthier and happier and I have more energy and I wouldn't take it back for anything. However my boyfriend feels that I am too thin and has been "crushing" on this other girl that apparently looks like me but is a little heavier. He's trying to get me to gain weight but I really don't want to but I don't want to lose him. He's talking to this girl that he says is "harmless" but he's into her and it bothers me. What should I do? We're also 23 if that makes a difference.. (link)
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Your boyfriends a jerk. There I said it.
Not only is he trying to make you do something you don't want to do, he's "friending" someone he clearly is attracted too, and is making you feel uncomfortable.
You're not losing him, he's the one pushing you.
I would have a serious conversation with him:
1. That befriending this girl is making you feel uncomfortable and you don't like it.
2. You feel great with the way you feel about your body and don't need him body shaming you
#1 doesn't make you a jealous person. He might use that ploy against you. If you're not comfortable, you're not comfortable. I would never think about befriending another man that my boyfriend didn't feel comfortable with. I have respect for him.
If he doesn't stop what he's doing, you might need to leave him. A relationship comes down to trust and respect. It doesn't sound like he's respecting you.
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Well I kinda hate my life right now. My step dad is much of a jerk who verbally abuses me time to time. He is a jerk and my mom doesn't know how to divorce even though he threatned to beat up my brother and choke my other. He also charged at me at this one resort and threw a coke bottle at my head and ran at me and tried to hurt me so they got separated and GOT BACK TOGETHER THE SAME DAY. also my parents don't buy me anything. It is not a financial problem I know this because they spend all this money on themselves. They buy pointless stuff for my sister and themselves. Meanwhile im left sitting in the dog pound with hardly any clothes to start of the school year and nothing else. They also say I cant do anything. Like I always mess up everything which makes me want to punch a wall. The clothes I have now I either bought myself or are my brothers hand me downs. And they are so cheap. Also they discourage me to be healthy and I try my hardest but it just didnt work. Please I need advice. (link)
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I came from a verbally and physically abusive family.
The first thing, CPS and the police will help you. If you tell them what is happening, by law they have to believe you and have to help you.
I would first go to a trusted adult at school. They are required by law to make a report. If they do not, they can lose their job.
Is there anyone in your family that can help? Can you go live with someone?
My sister and I went to live with my uncle when my mom was acting crazy.
If your stepfather becomes violent with you again, don't hesitate to call the police. They will help you and make sure that you are safe. Your father cannot retaliate against you, if he does runaway to a safe place and call the police.
I wasn't brave enough to take action against my parents when I was younger. So I stuck it out and just stayed quiet and out of the way. If you feel you cannot make a report against your parents, focus on getting out of the home. I focused on going to college. I went far away from my mom.
Do what is comfortable for you. I would really talk to a trusted adult and ask them for help.
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On Monday I have the only chance to be with my family and hang out with them. I had been planning this for like a month and a half now. However, my mom started talking about it with my grandmother and now she wants to come along and drag my little cousin along with her. Let me explain:
Im in college right now and have to be two hours away from home until the weekends, where I only work with my parents or study. This is the only free Monday I have and for many reasons its the perfect family day. My grandmother is not coming with us because she wants to be with me, its because my cousin (he is about 10-11 years old) loves being with us (which I also believe is because of my brother and the fact that mom buys him stuff, people think were rich when were really not at all). She even told mom to ask for my permission, as if I would not want them to go. I love them, the problema is that my cousin is very... reckless. He doesnt listen to anyone, always gets into trouble, and is not satisfied unless everything HE wants to do is done. Im just afraid that whats supposed to be a stress free day will only cause more mayhem and that is not what I need right now. What do I do? (link)
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I would be honest with your parents. Otherwise, you're not going to have a good time and you'll resent it.
I don't know how your family dynamic is, but I hope that your mom will understand if you tell her how much you love her and was looking forward to just spending it with the immediate family.
Good luck.
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I am 20 years old girl.2 years ago I met a boy (23 years) on facebook.He was from the another city of my country.I never add unknown people. Actually I was searching someone from his company. And I sent friend request to him. But after chatting I came to know that he was not the one. I decided to remove him. But from his old status I came to know that he lost his mother last year. I really felt bad. And decided not to remove him. We became friends. We used to chat for long time. He shared a lot of things with me so did I. He was a nice boy. He cared for me. I forgot to take my medicine. He asked me everyday that I took my medicine or not. He asked my opinion about his business card. I mean he gave me priorities. But after 2 months don't know what happened he started to change. He didn't reply me back like before. I didn't ask why. And I started to realize that I like him. I felt bad about it that how I fall in love with someone on internet. I decided to move on and not to talk to him anymore. But that time it seemed very difficult to me. I decided to remove him. One night I knocked him and told him something about my family and then told him that I am going to remove him. He said please tell me the reason. I told him and removed him.but still I used to message him and he replaid me. That time I came to know from other source that he hided things from me. He didn't told me that his father got married few days ago. He told me that he had a girlfriend for one year but he never loved her. But I came to know that after that he also had a girlfriend almost for 3 years. But he didn't tell me anything about it. After one months I added him again. He accepted friend request and talked to me like nothing happened. Everything became normal again. I gave him my number. We started to chat on whatsapp. Almost like before. It was my birthday. I asked for gift. He asked what I want. I told as your wish. He told me to ask for something. I told him that you won't be able to give me. He asked me what. I didn't want to tell him. But he forced me and requested me to tell what I want. I told him that I liked him seriously and I really wanted to spent my life with him. He told me that we didn't meet each other ever so we shouldn't think about it. One night I asked him,won't you ever love me?He said "you are a very silly girl,stop this childish,it will be good for you and relationship are really trouble thing for me". On reply I said I will wait for you because I am unable to love anyone else.He didn't say anything.One day I called him and we talked for the first time. That day he told me about his father marriage. We talked for 20 minutes. And he was nice. After that we used to talk. His birthday was coming I decided to send him a gift. I asked for his address but he refused to give it to me. But I knew his addressed already so I sent the gift. And he accepted it(There was his another female friend. She also liked him. She also send him gift but he didn't accept it.I came to know from someone.) And on his birthday he called me and said that I am crazy. But he was happy.Every thing was going well. One day I knocked him on whatsapp and after sometime he replaid. Like he always does. But I felt something is wrong. Don't know why!!! But my mind telling me that something is wrong. I felt that he was not replying me. Someone else was doing it. And the person talked to me little rudely. I knew that he couldn't talk to me like that. I end the conversation. I was so upset that he allowed someone to reply me by his phone. After 7 days I knocked him and asked about the matter. He told that it wasn't he. I asked who it was. He told it was his colleague. But he didn't tell the name. I got very angry. He tried to explain me that it wasn't intentional. But I didn't pay any heed to his talk. I asked him how could he allowed someone to message me. He said that his colleague borrowed his phone for some work and I knocked that time and she replaid. She also deleted the message but told him what she wrote. And she did it for fun. I was so angry. I shouted at him. And told him not to contact me ever. At last he also got angry and told me that I was just a facebook friend to him nothing else and he never thought about me.
After that I found out the girls name. She is 1 year older than him. She also proposed him. But he said no. I contacted him again almost after 3 months. He also did. One day he called me we talked for so long. And the next day the girl tried to commit suicide and admited into hospital but he didn't even go to see her. When I heard about it I really felt bad.I come to know that the girl is back in his life.They talk to each other.But they are just friend. He never tells me anything about it ever. I found it out from another source. I also ask him that if he has any problem to talk to me he can tell me directly I won't contact him again. But he says he has no problem to talk to me.
We don't talk like before.He never knocks me. I don't knock him much. I still have that feelings for him. I still like him. But it doesn't hurt me anymore. I am doing okay in my life. I call him sometimes(like once in a month/months) . And he talk to me nicely like before we used to talk. I wonder he still remembers little things about me. I talk to him like a friend. I never talk about my feelings and all this. But last time when we talked he asked me,do I have a boyfriend now? I said,no. He asked,why? On my mind I was telling,because I told you that I will wait for you. But i didn't tell him that. I told him that you know the answer but may be you don't remember it.I was a little angry.
Should I move on?Should I cut contact with him?
And yes I always feel that he has some feelings for me. May be its not love,but its special.Did/does he have?I accept the fact that he would never love me. But I still love him. And I am okay with that.
Tell me what to do now? (link)
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One thing that has always been true in my life is that if a guy wants to be with you, he will be with you. He will do everything to be by your side. This guy doesn't sound like he wants to do anything to keep you in his life.
I was going through some religious things in the beginning of my relationship. After my 4th date with him, I told him I couldn't be with him because he wasn't part of my religion. I thought that was it. I felt sad. But, he emailed me this beautiful long email of why we should be together. He told me although we don't have the same religion, he was supportive of me. I found out from him later that he cried when he read my email. That's how much he cared about me.
You need to be with someone that cares so much about you that they are unwilling to let you go. This guy is willing to let you go.
I had a boyfriend before that cared about me, but didn't love me. He was happy if I was around, and he was happy when I wasn't around. He wouldn't go out of his way to contact me. He kept a lot of things from me. I felt very confused. I broke up with him. I was happy after that.
A guy should never make you feel confused. Either he likes you or he doesn't. If he likes you, he will do everything he can to be with you.
I hope that helps.
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Hello,
I met this girl about three months ago in a club, we danced (close grind) , and exchanged numbers. I was friends with her on facebook and then she unfriended me after about 3 months. I guess since I sat on her number and didn't ask her out. I sent her a message by facebook and she is like I heard you were at this place, you go places and you don't invite. I would like to hit it quickly. Should I let her know by facebook or text that we should go to the hotel or should I invite her for drinks or something and then go for the hotel. When should one communicate ones intentions of having sex? As soon as you meet a girl...I have seen some guys on youtube called simple pickup who do this all the time...or later on after seeing this girl more time?
I told her that we should go to a motel...she told me that she couldn't go... so I told her we should go on another day... she told me that she can't have sex for two weeks and that if I waited then I could hit it and if couldn't wait that I can't hit it. and then she asked me by the way why would take me to this place (the motel)?
What should I answer?
Thanks
Kind Regards
Eins (link)
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I would find out what her intentions were by giving you her number. Did she want a relationship? Or was she also looking for a hookup?
It sounds like she doesn't want to hookup, but maybe she liked you, so she's playing along. Sometimes girls think sex with lead to a relationship, which it rarely ever does.
If your intention is just to have sex with her, then I would tell her sooner than later. It's really messed up to string a girl along. There are girls out there who just want to hookup.
I would just be up front with her.
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I am 22 years old and am dating this guy I know through a friend.I had known him since 2009 and met a couple of times. I Had heard a lot about him from my best friend. the sad part is he left for europe to pursue higher studies. we are currently in a long distance relationship and will mostly be for the next one year.He keeps telling me that he really likes me and when we are on the phone we talk real dirty. He told me that distance doesnt matter even though we started a relationship like this. He seems quite honest about his feelings and talks about having kids in the future. my track record in relationships haven't been exactly great.I sometimes feel if its stupid to start a relationship like this or should I just go with the flow.I really like the guy and I think it does have potential to turn into something solid in the near future.I don't want to keep bringing up the distance issue as I don't want him to feel m not in for a relationship. he seems confident and talks about being together in the future all the time. Does this sound stupid? (link)
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My friend that was in a long distance relationship just got married, so there are people who do work out. They dated for 2 years, all long distance.
On the flip side, I was in a long distance relationship and it didn't work out.
What it really comes down to, are both of you on the same page on what you want in life and in a relationship? If it's not the same, then it won't work.
You're 22 years old, so I'm guessing you just graduated college and possibly just started your career.
If I could go back, I would have worried less on relationships and more on my self development. Don't revolve your life anticipating what he will do, I assure you he's not doing that.
If this guy truly loves you, he will make the relationship work and make it so you two can be together. He will reassure you that he is committed.
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So this guy I knew for almost 2 months through camp contacted me daily and we talk for an hour or 2 up till this week we only talked twice. Due to examinations. He did tell me after a few days of camp that he liked me and asked for me to be his girlfriend. I said "to take it slow" and he did but recently he told me he as stopped liking me and sees me as something more than a friend but nothing more.so he called today and the first thing he asked was "did you miss me?", he was bent on getting the answer and I just laughed as I did miss him and in the end I just said a bit.
I think he was a bit upset at that response.
My question would be:
1) Does he see me as a friend only?
2) What does it mean when a guy asks if you missed him.
Thank you for taking the time to read this! :) (link)
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The part that I'm a bit confused about is the "he told me he has stopped liking me and sees me as something more than a friend, but nothing more". It sounds like he is playing a game. I would even say he's trying to get you to chase him, not him chase you.
I think you're a really smart gal. I would stick with what you told him from the beginning to take it slow.
He likes you, but he's pushing you to do more than you want too, which is a red flag to me.
If a guy likes you and respects you, he will listen to your request. When I first met my current boyfriend, I had gone through 2 really bad relationships, so I wanted to take it slow. He respected that. He still chatted with me and we became good friends. I felt really comfortable with him. Not once did he pressure me.
If a guy suddenly doesn't like you, that means he didn't get what he wanted, he found someone else that will do what he wants, or he lost interest (which goes back to, he didn't get what he wanted).
I would just keep doing what you're doing and see what happens.
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Hi, I am 23/male/207 lbs currently after loosing 35 lbs in 4 months. I have lost pretty much enough fat and now I want to build some lean mass. I have been working out for more then a year now. Now to gain some muscle I am suppose to have around 200 gms of proteins. But being a vegetarian I can get amost around 50 or so grams from my diet so I cannot compliment rest 150 with 6 protein shakes.
Thus I am confused that should a I becone a non vegetarian. Will it help me better, I have never had anything non veg my whole life and m not really looking forward to it. Is it uuterly necessary or can I stick to bwing vegetarian and become muscular , if yes then what should I eat the most in vegetarian food.i cant have soy too much cause it tend to increase estrogen .
Please help. (link)
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I actually read an article recently in a Vegan magazine about this couple http://www.veganmuscleandfitness.com/about-us/ This guy is a body builder and he's vegan. I would check out the site and see if there's anything you can add to your diet.
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hi im 14 years old and im turning 15 in december and most of my friend in my class have gotten there period and i have started puberty like hair and pimplies etc and im going into grade 9 and im kinda worried because one i have breast my cup size is 34B and it strange how i havnt gotten my period yet i really need help i just want to be sure that i wil get my period (link)
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Everyone's hormone is different. Some people get it sooner, others get i later.
I would talk to your doctor if you're concerned.
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I'm having a Sweet 16 on the first week of January. It's gonna be a candy themed party. Could you give me any ideas for making the program? I'm kinda stuck 'cause I haven't thrown a party in yeeaaars. So please give me any suggestions to keep my guests entertained throughout the party. Thankyouu.:) (link)
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I like what Isearchforwords said.
You can let people decorate their own cupcakes.
Try to get a band or a DJ. I love to dance at parties. You can have a cocktail bar, but it can be fruity drinks like virgin daiquiris and Margaritas. Those are candy like flavors.
I love caricatures and photo booths. You have a professional photographer go around taking pictures of everyone. You can find students at local college's who will do it pretty cheap.
There are some good ideas on this site http://mixmingleglow.com/blog/?tag=candy-buffet Do other google search. I put candy party. http://www.thoughtfullysimple.com/candy-theme-party-candy-party-favors/
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about to turn 17 in 14 days.
I'm aware of what being "emancipated" is and I understands the circumstances of it, but I'm in a stressfull situation where I really am dying to move out of my house. My parents and I do not get along & what I mean by this is we disagree on everything & are always arguying about the littlest things. Now I know what your thinking..why not try talking to them ? Or get counceling? Well trust me I've tried . I know me being my age is going to make it difficult for me to be able to find rent anywhere else but I refuse to be here any longer & I really am looking for some positive outside advice..I'm not looking to fix things between me and my parents I simply just want to move out..I've been supporting my self since the age 14 and I have a steady job . I basiclly just come home and sleep . But I can't take this anymore I'm too stressed and there not making it any easier..please help? (link)
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If you have any other family members that you could live with, I would contact them first. There are not many people that will rent out to a 17 year old. Search for youth shelters, here's an example of one http://casayouthshelter.org/aboutUs.htm They can help you.
You can also look on craigslist.org for a room. I would figure out how much you're making a month and determine if you are able to pay rent. I don't know where you live, but I rented a room for $600 in California.
Happy early birthday.
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Me and my best friend have been friends since 4th grade, and we're 19 now. I don't agree with a lot of the things she does, but I've always been there for her regardless. Lately, though, I'm at my wits end.
She has two kids already by two different guys. She just had her second child maybe two weeks ago with her current boyfriend, and he treats her terribly. He used to be like a brother to me, but after a bunch of drama, we really don't like each other. First, it was little things he did that made me worry. He'd tell her what she could and couldn't wear, he didn't like her talking to guys, stuff like that. But last night everything changed. She called me hysterical. He had hit her three times in the face and held her down when she tried to grab her phone. He finally left, and she called her sister, who called the police. I went to her apartment and he was in the back of the cop car. I went with her to the court house to get an EPO and everything, then stayed with her from 3 am to 10 am. At 10, I was exhausted and had to go home to take care of my dogs. I asked her if she would be okay, and she said "I guess". I didn't want to leave, but I just had to sleep. She texted me after I left and asked if I thought he missed his daughter or regretted doing it.
I called her when I woke up, like I told her I would, but she wouldn't answer. I texted her and she wouldn't answer that, either. I even I.M.'d her, and still nothing, but she talked to my sister on I.M. a few minutes earlier and said she missed him.
I don't know what to do, and I'm getting really frustrated. She asks me for advice, and I tell her what the best thing to do is, but she never listens. Then, I'm always there for her, but now she's ignoring me. It's like she's mad because I had to leave. I don't want to be rude and say "what's your problem?", but I don't know what to do. Any advice? (link)
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I would suggest your friend go to counseling. There are a lot of abused women groups and non-profits that can help her. She may not realize this, but she is also hurting her children. She needs help in realizing that she was in an abusive relationship.
I would go over to her house with your sister and talk to her. Realize, there is only so much you can do to help her.
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ok im 17 female and my boyfriend is going to be 18 in january. well we have been talking about wanting to move to hollywood or los angeles. and just moving out of the town we live in now, well today he jus randomly says "hey you need to start searching for houses or appartments or anything in L.A. or hollywood so we can move there i want out of here. and you need to get a job and we need to start saving money!" ok well hes working on getting a job. and i already applied for target and in-n-out burger. well once we get jobs i understand to save money thats the biggest thing. but what are some ways we can totally be ready at least by the time i turn 18 in september...of 2010? cause i need advice on how i can go about getting a job. saving money. and what can i search or what are good places to look into in hollywood or los angeles that are good or nice to live and raise a family that arent cheap but there not expencive. if thats possible. i just basically need advice on how to start a life together with my boyfriend. please help me thanks in advance! and the more advice you give the more help you will be thankyou! =] (link)
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I don't want to put down your dream.
I don't know where you're living now, but I live in Los Angeles. The economy has hit LA hard. There are very little jobs and the cost of living is very high. You will not be able to survive on a In-n-out or Target job. I just moved back with my mother and have been searching for a job 2 months now. I went to an interview recently and was competing for a spot with 200 other people. The best resource is craigslist.org for apartments and jobs. If you have any connections in Los Angeles, hit them up.
If it were a different time, things would be so much better for you and your boyfriend. It's very hard right now for everyone. A lot of people are losing their jobs.
I was living in Marin County before I moved back to Los Angeles. It was easier to find a job there. Specifically in Corte Madera. That's in Northern California. It's a nice place to live. It's one of the richest counties in the United States. The cost of living was high, but you sound just like my friend. She's married now and living very well in Marin County. You might want to look into that. They have a lot of FREE public services.
Seriously, I would much rather live back in Marin County, then in Los Angeles. It's hard living here, the pace is much faster.
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maybe I'm paranoid but lately my right arm (my dominant arm) has been hurting. Right where the shoulder and arm meet, on top of the arm, not the arm pit, it's been aching. It has these really intense pains randomly while I'm just sitting and doing nothing. It started today. It happens with about 3 or 4 pains each lasting 2-5 seconds, and then it stops for a while.
The pains enough to make me gasp and wince.
my mom says it could be from my backpack. I always have the strap on my left shoulder, but to support the weight I have to hold my right shoulder a certain way. I have a 'messenger bag' style backpack, so it's not like I'm being lazy and not putting the strap on like I should, the thing only has one strap in the first place
I know it's nothing serious at the moment, but any idea if it will GET serious if I don't change something? What could it be? (link)
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It sounds like it probably could be the backpack. Messenger bags are good if you're carrying light things. I had one in high school and it hurt my shoulder and back. I would try using a different bad and see if there is a difference. You can also get Salonpas. It helps relieve muscle pain. They sell it in all pharmacy stores.
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Earlier in the month I had sex for the first time. But it wasn't really anything. I was too tight to even go through with it and he really didn't get it inside really. We didn't uses a condom.
This past Saturday I had sex for the second time and this went much better. I used durex and we went at it for a decent amount of time.
But yesterday afternoon and all day today I have experienced an uncomfortable itching sensation that has been on and off. It's center right around the entrance of my vagina and its really bothersome.
I don't know what it is and if it continues to bother me tomorrow, I will get myself checked out. But I want be reassured it's not something major and if it is, an honest answer.
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Do you have yellow discharge on your underwear? It could be yeast infection. This happens if the vagina is moist. I would get it checked out in case. Almost every women experiences yeast infection at some point in their life.
Always use a condom. You don't know if your partner has an STD. Also, a bit of semen comes out when he puts his penis inside even if he doesn't ejaculate.
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My bff constantly lies to me about being pregnant & miscarrying & I can tell she's lying because she says she's preg one day after having sex and stupid, obvious stuff like that. She also lies about constantly being sick and random stuff like what people say or what her mom says, its dumb. I know its for attention but me and her boyfriend give her all the attention she needs. Tonight I told her for the first time I knew she was lying and I stood up to her she cussed me out and I don't think she wants to be friends anymore. We work together and she is like the bosses pet and everyones favorite I'm sure she'll make my life aweful there. Any help or advice on what to do or what to say to her would be helpful, thank you so much (link)
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If you want to be friends with her, talk to her about how you felt.
If you don't want to be friends with her, you don't really need a friend that constantly lies. If your doing the right thing at your job and she influences how people interact with you, you can file a complaint against her. That's harassment. I would just try to continue to do your job. My mom had a situation with a co-worker. The co-worker sucked up to the boss, but always said something bad about my mom, the co-worker ended up getting fired.
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Well, And My Love Had A Conversation On How We Both Thought We Loved Each other Enough TO have Sex. He Said "Whenever You Are Ready, I Am. I'm Not Going To Rush You." I'm Still Kind Of A Shy Person, So How Do I Let Him Know I Am Ready? And Should I Be Playful. Any Tips Will Help Also. Thank You :] (link)
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Seriously, the best way to let him know is to put your hand on his leg near his crotch and look him in the eyes. Be seductive. I had a conversation with my guy friends and they said this is the best method. I think it's awkward to say "I'm ready for sex".
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I'm a 21 female been married for 2 years. My husband is in the army and for the first 15 months of our marriage he was in Iraq. Our marriage hasn't been the greatest and it seems like we argue all the time and we never agree on anything. Since he has been back it has gotten worse. It seems like he never wants to spend anytime with me and he doesn't find me attractive. We are lucky to have sex maybe 2 times in 2 weeks or so and even when we have sex it feels like he is doing it out of obligation or mechanically. I feel like he doesn't love me anymore. I want to start a family but he doesn't seem to want to have a kid with me. I don't know what to do I want to get counseling but he doesn't want to go. I am seriously thinking about getting a divorce but I don't know if thats the best idea. I am so confused can someone please help me.... (link)
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I think he might have PTSD (Post Traumatic Stress Disorder). He should go to counseling. Most people who come back from war have PTSD. Often, they have a hard time fitting back into their lives after war.
If he doesn't get help, I encourage you to leave. I was married when I was 21 and I got divorced a year later. My relationship with my ex wasn't good before we were married and it got worse after. He would always go hang out with his friends and left me at home. It took me about a year to recover from it, but I found someone who cares about me. You don't have to stay in a bad marriage. My family and friends told me for so long to leave. I really regret staying with him for so long. We were together for 4 years. It was a total waste of time.
Go see a counselor. They really help you find your voice.
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Female- Well, The Question Is Pretty Self-Explanatory. I'm Not Exactly Sure What Gets Me Aroused. It's Actually Really Hard To Get Me Aroused. So Is There Anything That Will Help Me Get Aroused By My Boyfriend? Because I'm Not Exactly Sure What Gets Me Going. Except Biting. Biting Is Awesome Haha. But Any Tips? (link)
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You just have to experiment. I found that caressing my boyfriends skin makes him go crazy. I get aroused when he touches my nipple, sucks on them. Also, when he fingers me, caresses my body, role play, and massage my head. Sometimes we watch porn together.
Try getting a book about sex and trying different things.
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18 .. female. basically, i'm uncomfortable with how my body looks when i'm naked. i'm 5'6 and weigh around 120. when i have clothes on .. i still look quite thin but not so bad. my legs arent super skinny .. its my arms and stomach/torso area. i'd love being sexy with a guy and wear like a thong and my bra but i look so unproportioned it's rediculous which then makes me self conscious. i've tried everything to gain weight. i've tried protein shakes/bars. i've tried working out certain areas to gain muscle (mostly lifting) and that didn't work. i eat ALOT .. not just so i can try to gain weight but i'm always hungry. i eat more than most girls haaah. the thing is .. it basically goes right thru me if you know what i mean. how can i put on a couple pounds to look more healthy. i'd love to have some curves .. anything !! (link)
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You might need the help of a nutritionist or trainer. It sounds like your metabolism is very high.
You shouldn't feel uncomfortable being naked. I've had a few boyfriends and they've seen me naked. I'm a big girl and they don't care. Most guys don't care. If they are with you then they will love your body. If you're shy about your body, you're making the guy shy.
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