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Hard 13 y.o life
Well I kinda hate my life right now. My step dad is much of a jerk who verbally abuses me time to time. He is a jerk and my mom doesn't know how to divorce even though he threatned to beat up my brother and choke my other. He also charged at me at this one resort and threw a coke bottle at my head and ran at me and tried to hurt me so they got separated and GOT BACK TOGETHER THE SAME DAY. also my parents don't buy me anything. It is not a financial problem I know this because they spend all this money on themselves. They buy pointless stuff for my sister and themselves. Meanwhile im left sitting in the dog pound with hardly any clothes to start of the school year and nothing else. They also say I cant do anything. Like I always mess up everything which makes me want to punch a wall. The clothes I have now I either bought myself or are my brothers hand me downs. And they are so cheap. Also they discourage me to be healthy and I try my hardest but it just didnt work. Please I need advice.
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I came from a verbally and physically abusive family.
The first thing, CPS and the police will help you. If you tell them what is happening, by law they have to believe you and have to help you.
I would first go to a trusted adult at school. They are required by law to make a report. If they do not, they can lose their job.
Is there anyone in your family that can help? Can you go live with someone?
My sister and I went to live with my uncle when my mom was acting crazy.
If your stepfather becomes violent with you again, don't hesitate to call the police. They will help you and make sure that you are safe. Your father cannot retaliate against you, if he does runaway to a safe place and call the police.
I wasn't brave enough to take action against my parents when I was younger. So I stuck it out and just stayed quiet and out of the way. If you feel you cannot make a report against your parents, focus on getting out of the home. I focused on going to college. I went far away from my mom.
Do what is comfortable for you. I would really talk to a trusted adult and ask them for help.
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Hi sugar!
Im sorry to hear about this! I shake my head at this! Very wrong and unfair!
Yes,your step dad is up to know good.Anyone who threatens,or abuses is a bad person,and they should not get away with behavior such as this!
I reccommend you get a hold of Social Services or Child Protective services.Please,when typing in the search engine,to type ''CHILD SOCIAL SERVICES (Type in the state you live in)
Trust me,the problem will be solved,your step dad may say and claim you are lying,but assure them the things that are happening to you.
Also,please know how you are treated IS NOT YOUR FAULT,even if they tell you,IT IS NOT YOUR FAULT!!
If ever your step dad hits you,or tries something,call the police!! They will come right in and fix things
Do you have a camera? Its very possible to take photos of any evidence or incidents that happen.Especially since there is a chance they ask if there is any proof this is going on.
Now,your wardrobe,have a phone book? Yellow Pages?
Many thrift stores carry good stuff!! Like St.Vincent De Paul,Goodwill Stores,Hope Hopice,Shepherds Gate and various places can help you!!
Be sure to look in that phone book,or Yellow Pages regarding Social Services or Child Protective Services
Dont tell your step dad you will call them,or it will make it worse.Just go ahead and call them.
Also,your family is put in such a dangerous spot,and its unfair,and unlwaful and someone could get seriously hurt
Be blessed,and hope I have helped!!
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