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I am a girl, currently in Grade 12, and I have had a crush on this one guy in my grade since halfway through first semester grade 9.
He is really cute, and he loves singing and history. He is really funny, but can also be quite serious. He tends to be quite loud in class(he is in no way shy), but he is so sweet and kind and honest that the teachers rarely get mad at him.
I am quite(extremely...) shy when in a group setting, but one on one I tend to open up a bit. However, I only ever see this guy in class, in choir, and when our two friend groups (occasionally) hang out together.
He is always hanging around with this one group of girls, but he would never date any of them, so I know that's not an issue. The problem is that he's always with them. I get along well with all of them, a couple are even sort of my friends, but it would be awkward for me to just join their group when they are talking or whatever. I have in the past, like if they are in my class and my regular friends aren't but its just a little awkward...anyways yeah I feel too awkward to get closer to him that way.
He jokes around a lot, and when we are in a small group of people together, he sometimes/often teases me more than the other people in the group. In class the other day, he came over to talk to me, and he asked me about why I had been late for class that morning. He has done similar things a number of times in the past.
Also, just to point out, he is straight. I know this for sure. The girls he hangs out with have been his friends for years, they are like sisters to him...
Another problem- I am scared to tell my friends I like him. I told them a couple years ago, but they laughed and told me we would make a really awkward couple (probably because I'm 5'9", and at the time he was super skinny and like 5'3", but he's grown since then). I would love to have their support, but we don't really talk about guys much, and I feel like I've been lying to them for years about this guy..not that I ever lied...I just didn't speak up...
Also, casual out-of-school meetings are difficult because he lives in a different city than I do, although we go to the same school (it's a private school). I can't just casually invite him to do something with me like randomly on a Saturday because he lives like a 45 minute drive away..
I guess what I want to know is: do I have any chance with him? and how do I got about getting that chance? (link)
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Hi dear,
Well,I suggest getting a new group of friends who will not make any fun of you at all! Second,boys tend to tease in pubic to girls they may like,its just this insecurity thing they have going on. Anyways,it's up to you,do you think he worth all the trouble? If you both drive,then seeing eachother should not be a problem at all. Maybe try setting him aside,and drop hints of our feelings,it may help,and he my start getting the idea.If not,they are many people out there,perhaps the right man
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My life kind of started to end on July 15 2014. My wife of 52 years and I were sitting on our deck when we looked at each other and said, You know something we got it made. That was because I had finally retired and we had moved into our new house in the mountains. That was around one pm when we spoke those words.
That night around seven we got a call from one of our daughters (Barb). She told us that she had just left the doctors and they had told her she had stage four ovarian cancer, and that she had 1 to 5 years to live.
This as you can imagine floored us. The next morning my wife (Elaine) and I packed her suitcase. We decided that my wife would move in with Barb to help her as much as possible. Barb lives three hours away, so we thought I would drive down on weekends and bring our dog with me.
After three months of Elaine staying there and me coming down on weekends, the stress got so bad between my wife and I. You see, Elaine is 71 years old and she was taking care of Barbs whole house. There are four in the family, Barb, her husband (Jeff) daughter (Kristin age 21) and son (Jeffery age 17). She looked like she was 90 years old. This was killing my wife. Well after three months had gone by, Barb went back to work, so Elaine decided to come home and we would go down on weekends. This lasted till 1/10/16 when Barb passed away.
When my wife came home, I was relieved that she could rest and try to get back to somewhat of a normal life. Well that did not happen. From the minute and I mean minute Elaine walked in the door I was accused of having an affair. I could not believe my ears. Her reasoning was she found Cialis in my bureau drawer. After her throwing this at me I showed her that it was a sample with my name written on it. The funny part of it was, Elaine was the one that picked it up at the doctors office. By the way our doctor not only wrote my name on the box but the date 1/16/2012. Four years before we moved to the mountains.
That was the end of that session. But two weeks later she told me my girlfriend stole five pair of her jeans from the closet. I could go on an on about the accusations but to name just a few. Cigarette butts found in the street meant my girlfriend was standing there watching the house. I was told while we where both out shopping together that there was blood on our mattress pad. When we got home the blood had disappeared. Now remember we never left each others side.
I won’t bore you with more details because there is over 50 accusations made. None of which were true.
Anyway last week a new neighbor moved in and you guessed it I was having an affair with her.
Well two days ago she left me, drained our bank accounts of over $125,000. Leaving me not only with my wife of 52 years but without a penny.
I can’t do this anymore. As much as I love her I want it all to end. I can’t stand the pain. I sit here and look at a bottle of pills the doctor gave us for depression and can’t stop thinking this would end my pain. I was a strong willed man all my life, a rough and tumble construction worker. Well I am a broken man now. She broke me and took my will to live.
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Hi there,
Oh gosh,so much to say,and some things to go unsaid,I'm so sorry to hear about all this.
Elaine is right now is reacting in state of shock due to Barb's passing,when an event happens in our lives that takes us by shock or by trauma can leave us in a state of devastation,our minds tend to make up things that arent there,and vast cloudiness takes place in our judgement. It is also an outlet to deal to run away from the trauma or event that has happened. Your wife's mind,created scenario's only she saw,due in part of her extreme grief. It would have been best to seek grief counseling on her part. I strongly recommend,if you can seeking the advice of an attorney,to see what can be what can done as soon as possible.Close your bank account immediately,any and all assests your wife may have access to at this time,freeze her out of them,because she can take more if her name is written on any financial documents you may have. It appears that your wife,with all due respect,it showing signs of a mental illness due to her deep grief of loss,and severe depression.Behaviors like this are actually quite common,loosing the proper thinking of one's mind.Elaine needs a proffesional in her life for grief counseling to get over her loss. Please consult an attorney. And a counseor if possible.I wish you the best of luck! And hope your situation turns around for you!
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Now I'd like to start off that I have depression, for a few years now, I am 17/female. I don't know how this plays into this well enough or has little.
Anyways, for thepast month my depression has gotten hard on me, all the whileI've slowly detached myself from my boyfriend, and with trying to converse with him during those weeks has made him irritated from my lethargy and dealing with me, and soon I called myself off from him and became distant to him. My feelings just started to fade, feelings for him and also I couldn't very well identify my own emotions. It's gotten worse between us and before any of this problem I had made a new (male) friend. I had no intentions to have feelings for him but now they're starting to form little by little. It's all a bit too confusing. Now getting out of the hard hit of depression I had gotten now I'm trying to work it out, but I feel like I'm rejecting a bunch of things out of fear of what'll happen. My boyfriend is sweet, caring, and I'm completely comfortable with but then, sometimes he is just so messy and disrespectful to his parents, embarrassing and boring at times. And then with this other guy, through out my worst days, has managed to make me laugh, talking almost non-stop. While my boyfriend has made me feel pushed away, like what went on inside didn't matter, now all I can explain is "I don't know what's going on inside, I'm sorry" and its tearing me apart if its just depression dampening my emotions or if its legitimate, any of them. Thank you if you read all of this. (link)
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Hi Dear,
Let's go through this shall we?
I think the person you need to focus on right now is you.Depression is a very serious issue,and you need to take care of you,yourself as a person,before you care about someone else.In other words,take a time out before deciding everything,and think about yourself first,then focus on Bill & Ted.
Time is a healer,and not having much contact with that other person can make you feel better,even though it can hurt.
Here's a question,do you feel free,since distancing yourself from this person? I you answered yes,then move on from your boyfriend. Especially if your feelings fade,and just dont stick,he isnt worth sticking around.
Disrepecting his parents? You can tell alot from a man on how he treats his parents,thumbs down. boring at times? Thumbs down. There is does not seem to be a very strong connection between you two.
Let me ask you another question,do you still feel depressed being with guy,meaning,do your feelings of depression stay there while you are with him,if they are,thumbs down again. A relationship like that is toxic,and can make you feel worse.
He's made you feel pushed away? this guy doesnt sound like Lancelot! More like Lord Farquad from that Shrek movie. If he has shown any signs of not wanting you,back away,because he can come back,and say he does,and then later on tell you,he doesnt want to be with you anymore.He just sounds not very mature.
Now,let's look at Mr.Hopeful,do you feel better,just plain better when you are with him? Does he uplift you?
You need to surround yourself with positive people,who will uplift you,and make you feel better,and be there for you.Those things,are part of what can make a relationship blossom. Being with someone special,can just lift you up,and make all those bad feelings go away.
Take some time out first,for you,before deciding anything
God bless
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I've been going through a recent complicated break-up. The thing is I kinda rejected him because I want to get my life back together first before being in a committed relationship. I wasn't able to offer my heart back in return to this guy who loved me so purely because I got scared that the moment I say 'yes' we'd be in a really serious relationship. And the thought of being in a serious relationship scared me. I got scared and I made a stupid mistake by talking to it with another guy friend. And it almost felt like I cheated on him, he felt like I cheated. And now he's not in love with me anymore and that it's impossible for us to be together again. Which hurt so bad.
I know all of that's kinda convoluted, but long story short, I'm hurt because I hurt the one guy who's never done anything but love me so purely and see the best in me by being a stupid and weak girl. What if he's the one for me, what if I blew the chance to be with my soulmate? What if I never meet anyone who will love me as much as he did? I can't get over the pain and the loneliness no matter what I do.
I know I've made a mistake too. But I'm not aiming to get back together with him, because he's already said it's impossible. Now he just wants to be friends with me because he knows we're really close and he doesn't want to lose that and he said that I don't deserve to be abandoned completely. What should I do to get over him and forgive myself? I'm really sorry it was really long. Thank you to anyone who will help. (link)
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Hi there,
Im so sorry to hear about your heartbreak.
Although,I believe is there is some mis-understanding here.
First,you took time out to get yourself together so you could be stable to be in a relationship,then you got scared.
Next you told your guy friend about this....NO,it is not cheating!! The guy you liked felt like you cheated? In what way? That you were sharing feeling with a friend?
This guy,is using your honesty,and telling your feelings to your friend as leverage and an excuse not be with you,and right now,he feels he's in the drivers seat. How incredibly shallow of him.HIM,not you.
He has alot of nerve to do that.You didnt cheat by telling your friend your feelings,cheating is kissing your guy friend,or something along that line.You did not cheat.
As for the guy you like,it's his fault,because I think he has mistood this whole situation,and he is rubbing it in like its your loss. Its not your loss,it's his.
If you are meant to be together,he will come back to you at a lter time in your life,when both your hearts are pure and ready.
Listen,he wants to be friends? No,I dont think so,use this part,if you so wish,to make him MISS YOU.Let him have the chance to miss,sort of unfriend him,without telling him.If you show how this bothers,he will eat it like candy,because he knows you like him.
Forgive yourself.Take care of you right now.
I know it hurts so much,and I understand,because I went through the same thing... and Im still recovering,I had to take it day by day,and forgive myself,and him also
Be blessed
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So I'm 18 years old and I'm studying in a university that is located in a bad neighborhood but I had to go there, all my life I spent it on studying or going out to elegant shopes and that's it, Anyway so today in the MORNING a guy who was driving right beside my dorm kept driving till he got right beside me and he grabbed my butt I was so shocked that I run fast to my dorm and started crying and right now I'm confused, was that normal? Did I overreact? Should I try and do something about it or just let it go? (link)
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Hi sweetie,Im so sorry that happened!
That is sexual harrassment and you should report it!! report it to the school,or dean what happened.
No,that is NOT normal,anyone who touches you in that way without your knowledge or consent is wrong! No,you did not overeact.This incident maybe has you feeling less safe and now more cautious which is understandable.
If possible,when you walk out of your dorm,suggest a friend go with you,or you have an honest,respectful guy friend that can escort you to your classes or around campus,or just to be near you to keep an eye out for while,it will make you feel more safe and secure!
Be blessed!!
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Im 18 years old,and I like a guy a lot and it's been going for months, he's all I think about lately and the past weeks I've been trying to get his attention and it worked but unfortunately because of my twin and not me, suddenly I noticed that he talks to us a lot but he always looks at her and gives her his attention while I'm left behind and it breaks me because she doesn't like him and I feel embarrassed so I decided to not tell her my feelings because it will be just awkward and embarrassing since he obviously likes her, I don't know what to do I really like this guy he's everything I want, me and my twin are nothing alike even our looks so him liking her is just a proof that I'm not his type and that's sucks, I've never been jealous of her before even though my family and friends like her more that never bothered me but now I'm actually really bothered and insecure about it. (link)
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Hi doll!!
Aw,lets take a moment and figure this out.
1.You may be a twin,but you are still your own individual person
2.Tell your twin about how you feel,keeping feelings is the worst thing you can do sweetie,and it can end up hurting you more
3.It may be possible that your twin may not like him as you do
4.How does your twin feel about this dude?
5.Girl,if you have liked him for months and these past few weeks he is all you think about,you may just want to ask him for a pizza,or something!
6. Dont ever feel insecure about yourself!!
7.Get that confidence running!
8.Dont ever feel insecured or bothered,yes,sometimes it feels like it can so so annoying and bothersome when people take more notice of your sibiling,if they do pay attention to her more in situations,invite yourself in the circle,and immediately,their attention will be more to you,and you can soon gain confidence!!
Be blessed! XO!
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Help please I dont know what to do. I'm being blackmailed. I am a 19yr old male and she said she was 20yrs. I sent a nude picture of myself with my face in it to a girl on Kik and she said if I don't pay her money she would post it on Ellen show website and try to have her show it on CNN or something like. And ruin my life. She wants me to pay her $100 and if I do she said she would delete the picture. Im scared that she will post it and ruin my life. I can't tell my family because they would be upset at me and cause more issues. Please someone help me I don't know what to do. (link)
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Hi there! Im so sorry about your problem!
Please report her at once!! Contact them at the link below!
https://kikinteractive.zendesk.com/home
Also,you may want to mention to this girl,that you can file a restraining order against her
I hope that helps!
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I don't know what to use for my nose because my skin isn't the oily type, and my nose gets dry, blackheads and tiny pimples. Are there any suggestions on drugstore products I can use for this? Thanks! (link)
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Try Biore Ultra Deep Cleansing Nose Strips!! Try that one and use them twice a week! I gaurantee you'll see the difference after just 1 use! Hooray!
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So I started dating a boy who is 20 years old and i'm 19 years old and today on 10/28/15 he decided to tell me in a text I can't talk right now but we have talked everyday since September so is he needing a cool of break or is he just busy with his life. (link)
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Hmmm...its hard to say
Let's start with your last conversation with him,was it a conversation? What did you talk about?
If it was good,and he just told you out of the blue he cant talk to you,then it can be okay to ask him
Ask him if he is okay and you just wanted to know if you are cool with one another
He may indeed be busy with his life,but do ask,if things bewteen you are okay
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No one is giving me the support I want n it been so hard 2 me because I haven't tell anyone how I fell (link)
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Hi dear,whats your question,let me see if I can help
Thank you
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I am wondering if it would be sinful to get one just for fun. It s cheap. Would something bad happen if I got a reading? Would it open the doors to evil? (link)
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Hi sweetie!!! The bible does indeed tell us to stay away from such things... Why?? Because God wants us to trust in him... Instead,I highly recommend praying as you will feel much better!!! I promise!!
I know its all meant in good clean fun,but take it from me,it isn't... God bless you!!
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so my favorite singer ALWAYS notices his fans. maybe its because he isnt really famous and is able to take time to respond to fans and such.
i want a hobby that i can do that i can make something in dedication to him and show him. you know, like drawing. but not that because i suck so much at it. please help me find a hobby that i can make to dedicate to him.
or something like quote art where i can put some lyrics to his songs on a canvas, but i really dont want to do that either.
any more suggestions, please and thank you!!! (link)
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Hi,have you considered doing digital art?
Something like
photosketcher.com ?
It can make any photo turn into a work of art,you can use it,and maybe add a lyric of a song of your singers,then head to Michael's or any craft store,ask them to blow the photo you show them,then you can package it and send it off!!
Hope that works!!
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My boyfriend asked me tonight if I was a virgin because he is and has never done anything at all. We've been dating on a couple weeks and I didn't know how to answer it though. This is why:
I've gave a few guys head
I've been fingered A LOT
I had anal twice
I masturbate like once a day
I never had like...sex sex, you know? Like the making babies kind LOL. You know what I mean. Does that mean I'm a virgin? (link)
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Hi there!!
Ah...the horizontal polka!!
Well.... you've said you've had anal twice,so has a man gone in you with his special package anally? If he has,youve had anal sex only....
But you are still a virgin... and here's why
If your guy has not slid his special package inside your vagina,then then you are still a virgin,because you have a hymen.. that hymen will break and you may bleed a little and always breaks when you have sex for the first time,after that you are no longer a virgin...
Yes,I know what you mean!!
Stay safe doll
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So basically I'll start off with I was with my boyfriend for 5 years and when we broke up in June I felt so sad i have always had depression and self harmed myself but no one knew Fourth of July weekend I felt the saddest I have ever felt and looked at my medicine cabinet and said what am I going to take to kill myself I thought about death every day and thought it was normal. I talked to my doctor and she put me on zoloft. I have never felt better until yesterday. I met this new guy and I finally moved on to my ex we had sex twice both with condoms. The only skin on skin action was us in the shower but we never physically did it until after with a condom. The next day I had an outrageous yeast infection and I found out yesterday I have Herpes. I have only been with 2 people and this is what happens...the guy I slept with is in denial and said he doesn't have anything but maybe he does now because I gave it to him! He was with his ex for 2 years and he said they are both fine. I just don't understand how this happened to me and now I am back in my hole where I don't want to live anymore. I feel broken and sad and nobody is going to want me. (link)
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Hi baby.... Sweetie... Go see A doctor right away... This is not something you can deal with yourself... You need to take care of that herpes or you will feel worse.... I also recommend seeing a therapist and someone who can help deal with your depression... Bring more positive people in your life... And pray and lean on God... You are in a storm.. You will rise above any other problem that goes your way.. God bless you
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okay so I was so excited to dye my hair deep purple with special effects. it's gotten amazing reviews everywhere i go and my sister tried it and it turned out beautifully.
but for some reason, mine not only turned my hair purple, but my entire bathroom and my whole body!! I don't know what happened! I followed the directions; cleaned my hair, let it dry, then I added the hair dye to my hair, and it was super messy. so glad i had gloves. i let it sit in my hair for about 30-45 minutes. then I washed it out in the shower and I noticed right away something was wrong when I opened my eyes and saw that my hands were purple! I closed my eyes and washed as much as I could, used shampoo, wiped down with some dove soap, then got out and left two neat purple foot prints on the bathroom floor.
but my whole body is purple. it's streaked and splattered everywhere!! agh!! even worse, I was sitting there about an hour after my shower, contemplating that it wasn't so bad when I ran my fingers through my hair and the purple came off on my hands!! What do I do?! (link)
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Hi dear!! I run into this problem frequently!
Next time you color your hair,be sure to put Vaseline all around your foread and ears,as this will help stop sticking hair dye to your face!
Here are so helful ideas!
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Vinegar
Hair stylists recommend a vinegar wash to strip hair of undesirable results from coloring. Vinegar is often used for countless projects around the house and you should have it at hand in a kitchen cabinet. You won't need to do an entire vinegar wash if you're only trying to remove the color from your skin. Washing your hair with vinegar with help to strip the color from your hair, so assuming your like your hair color, avoid getting vinegar in your hair. Apply vinegar generously to stained skin using a cosmetic sponge or cotton pad. Using a circular motion, gently rub affected area, applying more vinegar as needed.
Baking Soda
Baking soda in a gentle abrasive that will help to remove the dye from your skin. Create a small amount of baking soda paste by mixing a few drops of water with 1 tbsp. baking soda. Rub over dyed area of skin using a circular motion, then rinse and repeat if necessary.
Toothpaste
Toothpaste can be used to remove unwanted hair dye from you skin. It contains a gentle abrasive that will slough away the hair dye. Most toothpastes contain baking soda, so the effectiveness of toothpaste is mostly due to that.
Other options
Vinegar, baking soda, or toothpaste should successfully remove the hair dye. If not, other remedies include cigarette ash or hair spray rubbed onto the affected area in a slow, circular motion.
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Much love from my cloud of cotton candy!
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i am 13, and i live with my adoptive parents. my real mom had me at 16 and got me token away when i was very young. i have always said that i would not be a teen mom, that i would wait for after marriage. but yesterday i found out that i am pregnant. how do i tell my parents? and i will not get an abortion and i don't want to give my baby away. so how will i tell my mom( that is 6 months pregnant) and dad that their 13 year old daughter is pregnant and wants to keep her baby? (link)
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Hi sweetie,
I give you first a big hug,for being honest and for wanting to keep your baby. It is a wonderful thing.
First,I want you,to take some time out to pray and ask God for help to you,ask for His forgiveness,and start adding Him more and more to your life
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Hello! I'm big into YouTube videos of reviews and favorites and that kind of thing. I watched a video a couple of weeks ago and this girl was discussing her favorite book at that time. I can't remember what the book was called nor what the video was to find it again. So, if any of you know this book and could let me know the title, I'd appreciate it so much!!
It's about a girl who got into a car accident and (I believe) her face got very beaten up and the book is about how the accident changed her and her life after it and dealing with what happened. I really remember the girl discussed how much she likes the way the book was laid out; instead of each chapter being in chronological order, you had to flip around to find the next one so you would get to the end of the first and it would say "flip to page 56 for chapter 2".
I know it isn't a lot to go off of but if you know it or it sounds familiar, any help is appreciated! Thanks!! (link)
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Hi there!! Well,I only found one close to that description,unsure if its the one!
My Life in Black and White
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http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/12925379-my-life-in-black-and-white
God bless!
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I'm playing Canon in D on piano for a wedding on Saturday, and a few months ago the bride had 3 songs she wanted me to learn to play while the guests arrive.
Summer got busy, and I can't read notes, so in order to learn them I have to know the song well enough to figure it out and/or either watching someone else play it 20 times or watching a tutorial on youtube. So it was pretty hard...
She asked me if I could play one song I've known for years so it isn't a problem, and if I could learn Beautiful by A-kon which I did and my mother (A very, very good pianist before she got arthritis) says I play both of those and Canon in D very well.
But as for the other songs...
Married life from Up, which for some reason I really struggled with and after only managing to learn the first part as of last week I had to tell her I wouldn't be able it play it. (which is strange because I've learned much harder songs in a lot less time)
The other song, which I'd never heard of before until she sent me a link to it, I never could find a tutorial for, and is on the more difficult side so I told her I'd try, but with the wedding so close I wont be able to learn it in time(at least not all of it).
She was very nice about it and said not to worry and to play what I can, but I feel terrible...because months ago I told her I could learn them and now here I am only able to play one.
So I was thinking of other things I could play, the rehearsal dinner is on Friday, so I was thinking if I can get something good enough that if she had time she could listen to it/them and if she liked it I could play it in place of those two songs. To kinda make up for it I suppose... There is no hope for me to learn those two in less than a week, so I'll have to improvise.
I have two options, and I need your advice on what to do in this situation and which of these ideas I should follow through with or any alternate idea you have.
[I don't know the Bride very well, and the Groom is a friend of my older brothers(who is also in the wedding) so I know him but again, not very well.]
Okay option 1: (easiest but not as creative,)
So I already know a couple songs all the way through that may be suitable for wedding background music, the songs I have in mind being Terrible Things by Mayday Parade and/or Hello by Evenescence, they are both really pretty but have sad lyrics so if I just played them on piano they might be okay. Anyway, I could play those instead if she likes them.
Option 2: (the much more creative, harder and probably better idea)
Create a medley. Now I have a habit of starting something and loosing interest and not finishing it, so I know a lot of parts to random songs that I never finished learning/writing. I was thinking I could make a medley including the part of Up I know so that way she'd still be able to hear at least part of it. The problem with this is that the only parts of songs I can fully remember how to play are:
The begining/verses of Someone Like You and Set Fire to The Rain - Adele
Half the begining part of Married Life from Up(about 45 secondish worth, but I could repeat it a couple times)
About a minute or so long melody I made up a while ago that people seem to like
and up until the "don't let them in don't let them see" line of Let it Go from Frozen.
If another song is simple enough I could probably learn another part of something too...
So I really want to make the medley, but have never done so before and these songs don't exactly all mesh well.
I can do it, but it might not turn out very well...
So after A TON of rambling that I apologize for and I thank anyone who actually read it all, what I need is advice on how to go about this and if I do the medley what is the best way I could go about it with those songs and be able to perfect it by Friday...
Any advice is greatly appreciated, Thank you all! (link)
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Dude,run!
Okay,let's not do that!!
Well,you could have had the bride hear your selections of options first,but seeing that its tuesday,probably no.
Now then,dude,I love Adele,shes my homegirl,but Someone Like You is just a wee bee sad,this a wedding,not a break-up,after all,who wants to think of exes at weddings?! :D Please ignore that funny diddy there.
Okay,.meolodies,start with softer/slower songs first,lets say 2 minutes (Determine first,how long you must play) After the 2 minutes blend it to a more upbeat song,and leave that going for like 4 minutes,and soft again.The point is to blend the songs in,so expiriment as much as you can until,it all clicks together,grab ideas from Youtube,or look up people who are playing the songs your playing and go from there.
I dont read music either dear,but I still hold my 8-track tapes dear to my heart!
God bless and hope it all works out for you!
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Well she lied to me about being 18 and she is 16 and she 2month pregnant and im 27 but i dont think her parents would allow me to to see are kid and plus i think i could get in trouble for this cause its my fault for not asking for id i just didnt think girls do that and i just need help to see if i will in up in jail or can i still take care of them once she has the baby please help Me and this in the state of pa (link)
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Hi there!
Oh Im so sorry this has happened!
First things first,you need to have a very serious talk with your girlfriend,mention in this talk that you want to be involved in your baby's life and that by her lying to you about her age could get you in all sorts of trouble.Mention,that,yes,this will be hard,to talk to her parents,I know this does not seem at this moment the greatest thing to do,but may the best.It will show that you are responsible enough to be honest,second,make sure your girlfriend,mentions,that she lied about her age to you from the very beginning,because,how could you have known her age?
After this discussion,as you will be asked many questions:
How will you provide for the baby?
What job do you have?
Do you have insurance?
Do you have a clean,and neat house/apartment to live in?
Are you financially stable?
You may be asked questions such as these,so be prepared,there is the possibility that you will not be charged.Someone would have to press charges for you,ask,that charges not be pressed,as you were,indeed decieved and you will provide for your child.
If you are charged,get a lawyer that specializes in cases such as these,as they are all too common,if you have NO record of any crimminal activity,have a steady job and life,and people who can put in a good word for you,can lessen the charge to muc much much less.
Be blessed and hope it all works out for you!
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Hello!
As the headline says, im trying to be a better man, and being able to do some self defense is never bad idea. I heared that some martial arts are tied with some sort of philosophy and through it teaching other things for life then just "beating people" (because beating people is NOT my desire in the first place). I will be most grateful if you give me any suggestions i could follow.
Thank you! (link)
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Hello and hi!
Martial Arts is so wonderful and beneficial in so many ways!
They are many different kinds,I myself have tried Tai-Chi,and its very healing for the body and mind
Judo & Tae-Kwon-Do are much more physically demanding
All three will benefit in helping clear your mind,stay in shape,and have a better peace of mind!!
Pick which one you would like to pursue,as they are not all the same.Check out this article from Wikipedia!
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Martial_arts
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