Im 18 years old,and I like a guy a lot and it's been going for months, he's all I think about lately and the past weeks I've been trying to get his attention and it worked but unfortunately because of my twin and not me, suddenly I noticed that he talks to us a lot but he always looks at her and gives her his attention while I'm left behind and it breaks me because she doesn't like him and I feel embarrassed so I decided to not tell her my feelings because it will be just awkward and embarrassing since he obviously likes her, I don't know what to do I really like this guy he's everything I want, me and my twin are nothing alike even our looks so him liking her is just a proof that I'm not his type and that's sucks, I've never been jealous of her before even though my family and friends like her more that never bothered me but now I'm actually really bothered and insecure about it.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Families? Boogeylady answered Monday November 9 2015, 3:46 am: Hi doll!!
Aw,lets take a moment and figure this out.
1.You may be a twin,but you are still your own individual person
2.Tell your twin about how you feel,keeping feelings is the worst thing you can do sweetie,and it can end up hurting you more
3.It may be possible that your twin may not like him as you do
4.How does your twin feel about this dude?
5.Girl,if you have liked him for months and these past few weeks he is all you think about,you may just want to ask him for a pizza,or something!
6. Dont ever feel insecure about yourself!!
7.Get that confidence running!
8.Dont ever feel insecured or bothered,yes,sometimes it feels like it can so so annoying and bothersome when people take more notice of your sibiling,if they do pay attention to her more in situations,invite yourself in the circle,and immediately,their attention will be more to you,and you can soon gain confidence!!
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