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I don't know about my boyfriend.
So I started dating a boy who is 20 years old and i'm 19 years old and today on 10/28/15 he decided to tell me in a text I can't talk right now but we have talked everyday since September so is he needing a cool of break or is he just busy with his life.
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Either or. Give him the benefit of the doubt. He could be extremely busy with school or other activities. That's normal. He needs that kind of space as do you. He could have been with family or in a situation where texting back and forth wasn't possible or appropriate.
The other thing is that perhaps always texting him and calling or talking daily is too much. Back off a little bit and let him initiate contact and don't be swift to reply. If he likes you and there is no indication he doesn't than he will eventually get back to you. I doubt he would drop you like a potato when it's normal you talk a lot.
I would lay off texts or calls and create the aura of being busy or get more active with friends and not wait around on him. It should be fine but some guys and girls vice-versa may see all the contact incorrectly as needy. Like I said backoff and let him be the person to lead this either to a conclusion or forward.
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Maybe he is just busy with his life and really couldn't talk. Don't trip and turn it into something its not. Also, guys like some space. So if you're smothering with messages or phone calls, maybe that's it. Some girls like to talk A LOT, so be mindful that maybe he said that cause you were talking his ear off. Give him a little time. the audiobook "men are from mars, women are from venus." Has some good and amazingly accurate info about how the sexes are different and behave differently. Highly recommend it for both of you. You can find it on youtube probably.
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Hmmm...its hard to say
Let's start with your last conversation with him,was it a conversation? What did you talk about?
If it was good,and he just told you out of the blue he cant talk to you,then it can be okay to ask him
Ask him if he is okay and you just wanted to know if you are cool with one another
He may indeed be busy with his life,but do ask,if things bewteen you are okay
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