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How to convince a girl to sex
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There's this girl who doesn't like me,and I don't like her. She tried to turn my friend against me, so I told her off. It wasn't threatening oranything, just a back-off kind of thing. But she went around telling the aid that I told her to jump off a bridge and die in the bathroom. I never used the bathroom that day, and NEVER EVER said that. I told her off again, and told the aid the truth. At the end of the day, we had a meeting with the teacher. I brought in numerous witnesses who swore she told them that, the aid said it came from her, but she claims she has no idea what's going on. No one believed her, because she lies to everybody, and no one ended up getting in trouble. But I still feel like she deserves a punishment. Another day she--on purpose--destroyed my friend's art work, that she worked on for hours. She stomped on it and poured water on it. So my friend yelled,“NO!" And started punching her. At lunch I was laughing at it because she isn't that tough, and I was shocked she did it. But the mean girl claims it “was just a joke and she was taking it seriously" why is she mean like this? Why doesn't she admit she's not doing the right thing? Why doesn't she owe up to her mistakes? (link)
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This girl seems like a piece of work. I don't know what could possibly drive her to do any of this. But some people are only acting out in this way for attention that they must be lacking in their life.
Just like how boys/girls are mean to the ones they have a crush on, this might be the same situation. Some people just don't know how to act around others and she might feel like the only way to get friends is to be mean to them.
But for now, I wouldn't worry about her (unless she does another god awful thing to you). Because later in life, they'll get what they did to you guys. What goes around, comes around.
People like her probably see themselves as this sort of superior figure and whatever they do is right (in their eyes). But one day she'll be knocked off her high horse and you'll be the bigger person.
I hope this helped in some way or another! X
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Last night i was on my bf fb and i seen a message he sent to a girl saying "happy birthday cute girl" then she replies with "thank you" then he told her "you welcome" & he put a whinky face. & he searches for her on fb everytime & likes her pics! Am so sad. What should i do? (link)
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Sounds a little like he's flirting with her, but then again, I could be wrong considering I don't know you or your boyfriend at all. My suggestion is for you to maybe bring it up? In a non confrontational way (he might just get really defensive and ignore all allegations). But do you think it's part of his personality? Like to be bubbly and flirtatious because some people can't help it. But regardless of what his personality is like, I don't think that this is an appropriate way for him to act.
I hope this helps! X
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Hello there. My bf and I have been dating for almost two years now. At first I was truly in love with him but now I feel different. I dont love him like I used to. When I hugged him or kissed him or told him I loved him, I felt something. I felt like I was in love but I dont feel it anymore now. I love him so much and I want to be with him. He`s truly the best boyfriend Ive ever had. I really dont want to hurt him, he was hurt bad on his previous relationship. What should I do or what should I tell him? please help (link)
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Hi, I completely understand where you're coming from. If you don't feel like you love him like you used to, then why drag on the relationship any longer? It's not healthy for either one of you. For you, to be lying to yourself or just staying in this relationship solely because you don't want to hurt him. And for him, to go on thinking that everything is fine. You oughta let him down easy, this sort of thing happens all the time. Sometimes relationships lose that "spark". Although it seems like that "it's not you, it's me" bullshit, it really is. Because it seems like he's not doing anything particularly wrong but it's that you just don't feel the same way anymore.
I hope that this helped you! X
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My friends always pick on me because I'm skinny and it is embarrassing because they say it loudly. One time, someone offered me a cookie and I said no because I just finished lunch and they were like super loudly so everyone heard, but your not fat! Look at your wrist your so skinny! Just eat the cookie! I didn't even mention the word big or fat! Another, during a sleep away field-trip they were saying how they gained weight over the trip and when they asked how much weight I gained I said I didn't gain any, they started saying super loudly and saying that's because you didn't eat anything! You skipped all your meals! Which isn't even true. For one, i ate all my meals and ate several pop tarts during the time they served snacks which is twice a day and skipped only once because it was gross food and I went to my cabin and ate popcorn instead! I always tell them to stop because I eat enough and when I don't eat it's because I already ate but they never listen and continuously say it's because I don't eat which I know isn't true because I have been told that I have a big appetite. How do I respond next time they pick on me that isn't too serious that they think I'm mad but they won't brush off? (link)
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Being a really small girl myself, I get that a lot too. My friends always compare our wrist sizes, our waists and even feet! But I usually just brush it off. I have a fast metabolism, and you probably do too. Something that you've got no control over. You're probably beautiful for all I know! But "skinny" doesn't define you who you are! I say you oughta let them know basically what you included in your question. Let 'em know that you've eaten and that you're not starving yourself and it's just your body type, you're not deliberately going out of your way to achieve this "skinny" look.
Good luck with your friends! X
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It's been almost two weeks since he told me that it's over. and no matter how he explains, I still have questions, everyday, in my head. like, does he still love me the way he used to? how long should I wait? will I even get to talk to him again? will he talk to me again? what I really want, is for him to love me again like we used to. I miss everything, and I just took it for granted. I wanna see how he's doing, I wanna know when will he talk to me again? what is he really doing?
okay, what really happened. at the beginning of the month, we had a fight at night. ended in tears. I was frustrated with him not doing anything with his life and us not going out and having fun like young people do. he's frustrated that I was always unhappy and negative all the time. I wouldn't have been like so if he did what I told him to do. but after that, he completely blocked me. a few days later,I went to talk to him, he says that what I did made him really anxious that's why he couldn't be with me anymore. he says that he still loves me but we can't be together. we have to work on ourselves or else we'll be toxic for each other. but in the past he did a lot of things which are irresponsible that made me question his actions sometimes and every time I confront, always ends with "it's all your fault", so right now, I don't really know whether to trust him or not. even more so when we're apart because I constantly feel that we might grow apart, and I constantly think about him and miss him. sure, he's a little young, he bothers me all the time, frustrates me all the time, but I love him, and what I did, I would give the world if it means that I could get him back.
so, my question is, how do I get him to unblock me and how long I should wait to see him again? (link)
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Hi, I am currently going through the same situation as you and I can only hope to provide a little insight into all of this for you.
I'll start with my relationship. My boyfriend and I had been together for quite some time and everything was going just great. We agreed (most of the time) on everything, we were really great together. But we did have our bad days. Then one day, we had a great huge fight and decided to break up. Of course, I decided to be dramatic and told him to never speak to me again (something I didn't want at all) but he respected that. Fast forward a few months later and we do speak now. We are friends, but not to the extent where we're talking night and day. It took some time and a lot of patience but it gets better with time. Although that is so cliche to say, it's true.
It's easy to want to blame your boyfriend and say that it's his fault. But take a step back and try to look at everything with a fresh pair of eyes. Do you think how you acted or something that you said might have made an impact?
My advice to you is to give it some time, maybe both of you will cool down and maybe start to become friends again. Like you, he too needs time to grieve over this relationship. Take some time to yourself, take time to be as sad as you need to be, and do things that you enjoy. Make yourself happy. With time you might become friends again and he's probably only blocking you as a coping mechanism.
I hope that this is hoped in some way, I wish you nothing but the best! X
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