I have a bachelor of psychology and have written two books - one self help book called renovate your life and a fiction crime novel called trinkets - I also have diploma's in Life Coaching, Herbalism, Homeopathy, Nutrition, Aromatherapy, colour therapy, crystal therapy and past life therapy. I also read tarot cards. I am a human rights activist and interfaith.
Website: colleen Kristinsson Gender: Female Location: Australia Occupation: Author/Psychologist/Alternative Medicine Age: 41 Member Since: June 25, 2014 Answers: 3 Last Update: June 25, 2014 Visitors: 1002
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Im Jade and im 14 and ive been dating my boyfriend Nick, 17, for almost more than a year. I feel like he tends to be overprotective and won't ever let me be around other people unless im next to him or whatever and it annoys me.And if we're out in public or with friends he can get a bit touchy feely, and I get embarrassed, and he does this mostly when we're around his friends. He'll grab my butt in front of them or smack it and its just so annoying cuz he thinks its funny and if I try and tell him to stop but he just tells me to shut up or he'll kiss me so I can shut up. I dont know why he does this and it really gets to me. There was an incident where we were at his friends house and he just shoved his hands down my pants without asking or telling me, and I told him to stop because his friend was watching and he gave me this death stare and told me to just go with it and I didn't want to, and he just leaned and kissed me so that I couldn't say anything else. Why does he do these things to me, I feel like he disregards my feelings when it comes to stuff like that. How do I tell him not to do this, I really dont want this to happen anymore. (link)
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Sweetheart, people who love you respect your wishes and your boyfriend is not doing that - your body is your own and only you get to say how it is treated - by giving you the death stare and telling you to go with it your boyfriend is being disrespectful and controlling. People who care about you do not try to control you to get what they want. Please realise how precious you are and that you should be treated as such
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I am from india.
i am 22 , never had a girlfriend . i dont know why.
its not like i am ugly but still . never had sex . next year i finish my college , got a campus placement in a good European company.
but it all feels so sick . i like a girl in college shes cute but i dont feel like disturbing her.
i love my parents but you know i cant talk to them about certain things and these things are killing me from inside.i am depressed , dont know what to do...
i want it to be over soon. (link)
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Sweetheart - we all are unique and beautiful individuals and you need to see that in yourself before you can expect another person to see that - believe in who you are in your own worth and then others will see the worth in you. Please don't take the unique beauty that is you away from this world.
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Dear Advicinators,
I'm a 17 year old girl.
I reasently had sex with my boyfriend
The problem is I feel like I'm not as in love as I thought. I've resonly had Eyes for another guy. What do I do?
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Sweetheart it is best to be honest with both yourself and your boyfriend about how you feel. When we are young we all make mistakes as long as we learn from them then that is what's important
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