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i want to kill myself right now
I am from india.
i am 22 , never had a girlfriend . i dont know why.
its not like i am ugly but still . never had sex . next year i finish my college , got a campus placement in a good European company.
but it all feels so sick . i like a girl in college shes cute but i dont feel like disturbing her.
i love my parents but you know i cant talk to them about certain things and these things are killing me from inside.i am depressed , dont know what to do...
i want it to be over soon.
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Sweetheart - we all are unique and beautiful individuals and you need to see that in yourself before you can expect another person to see that - believe in who you are in your own worth and then others will see the worth in you. Please don't take the unique beauty that is you away from this world.
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Don't kill yourself please think of life as precious.
You can't be dictated by not having a GF or having sex those are just things.They do not dictate your life.But everything has a right place and right time.And tell the girl you like about what you feel and probably (not saying she will) she likes you too.
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PS:Just wait and don't kill yourself
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Do not ever think to kill yourself because you never had a girlfriend or never had sex . maybe to get a girlfriend yo need to put yourself out there more but dont try to find a girlfriend just for sex . trust me falling in love from sex isnt a good thing its not real love its just lust . its a better thing to save yourself when your married because then you know that the feeling your having is real . and yeah talking to ur parents is hard but it might help you a little bit , but thats depending on what type of parents that you have. just dont give up , ur still young nobody gets a perfect love story . your time will come and when it does you willl be happy with the results .
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Do not kill yourself just because you havn't had sex! Women do NOT have to sleep with you. You should not expect them to.Nobody owes it to you to make you happy, you have to do that for yourself.
Start by taking a bubble bath. Learn to enjoy your own company.
Miss Piggy
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I understand you, how you don't feel like you can talk to your parents about these things. But being 22 and never having a girlfriend is quite common actually. My cousin hasn't either and she is fine! Don't be depressed because their are other people too who have not had a girlfriend yet. Do not worry because the right one will come eventually! 22 is still really really young and fate cannot be determined so young.
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Hi.
Please don't say that you want to kill yourself.
You never having a girlfriend at 22 is not the end of the world and really isn't that rare... me and a lot of my friends have never even kissed anyone... and I am 18. But that does not mean that it will never happen.
And if you graduate college next year and have a good future and career ahead of you then you are one of the most blessed people alive. Do you know how many people wish to go to school and have a good future everyday?
And if you like a girl in college, TALK TO HER! She can't refuse to talk to you and be your friend! Who knows... maybe you two can start dating if you just speak to her. Simply being her friend is not "disturbing" her. I think that the only reason why you have never had a girlfriend was because you never put yourself out there and talked to girls. If you do, maybe you might just meet your future wife.
If you feel uncomfortable talking to your parents (I do too sometimes.), speak to someone else- like ANYONE ELSE. Like your best friend or a therapist or you can even try writing your thoughts down to get them out of your head.
My last words are that killing yourself is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. Judging from what you wrote, you have an amazing life and are lucky to be going to school. You'll feel better as time passes. Just PLEASE, communicate with people. And if you're so desperate for a girlfriend, then speak to girls. the worst thing that they can do is say no and I really doubt that will happen with every single girl. There is someone out there that you will meet and love and talk about everything with. But you don't have to lose your virginity now. It may seem like everyone is but, in reality, their not and it really doesn't matter if they are. You live your own life.
Anyway, good luck. And if you feel extremely depressed and you are really having suicidal thoughts- see a physiologist.
-talldivaofbeverlyhillz ^-^
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