annoying girl at school who hates me and won't leave me alone
Question Posted Friday March 7 2014, 5:12 pm
There's this girl who doesn't like me,and I don't like her. She tried to turn my friend against me, so I told her off. It wasn't threatening oranything, just a back-off kind of thing. But she went around telling the aid that I told her to jump off a bridge and die in the bathroom. I never used the bathroom that day, and NEVER EVER said that. I told her off again, and told the aid the truth. At the end of the day, we had a meeting with the teacher. I brought in numerous witnesses who swore she told them that, the aid said it came from her, but she claims she has no idea what's going on. No one believed her, because she lies to everybody, and no one ended up getting in trouble. But I still feel like she deserves a punishment. Another day she--on purpose--destroyed my friend's art work, that she worked on for hours. She stomped on it and poured water on it. So my friend yelled,“NO!" And started punching her. At lunch I was laughing at it because she isn't that tough, and I was shocked she did it. But the mean girl claims it “was just a joke and she was taking it seriously" why is she mean like this? Why doesn't she admit she's not doing the right thing? Why doesn't she owe up to her mistakes?
Just like how boys/girls are mean to the ones they have a crush on, this might be the same situation. Some people just don't know how to act around others and she might feel like the only way to get friends is to be mean to them.
But for now, I wouldn't worry about her (unless she does another god awful thing to you). Because later in life, they'll get what they did to you guys. What goes around, comes around.
People like her probably see themselves as this sort of superior figure and whatever they do is right (in their eyes). But one day she'll be knocked off her high horse and you'll be the bigger person.
oneway answered Friday March 7 2014, 8:59 pm: It could ne that the girl is seeking attention...there is a girl in my class like that...she wants to be popular and have a lot of friends so she gossips and act like a complete jerk ...so the popular kids will hang out with her. [ oneway's advice column | Ask oneway A Question ]
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