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Girl told me that she will go the motel in 2 weeks What should I do?
Hello,
I met this girl about three months ago in a club, we danced (close grind) , and exchanged numbers. I was friends with her on facebook and then she unfriended me after about 3 months. I guess since I sat on her number and didn't ask her out. I sent her a message by facebook and she is like I heard you were at this place, you go places and you don't invite. I would like to hit it quickly. Should I let her know by facebook or text that we should go to the hotel or should I invite her for drinks or something and then go for the hotel. When should one communicate ones intentions of having sex? As soon as you meet a girl...I have seen some guys on youtube called simple pickup who do this all the time...or later on after seeing this girl more time?
I told her that we should go to a motel...she told me that she couldn't go... so I told her we should go on another day... she told me that she can't have sex for two weeks and that if I waited then I could hit it and if couldn't wait that I can't hit it. and then she asked me by the way why would take me to this place (the motel)?
What should I answer?
Thanks
Kind Regards
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I would find out what her intentions were by giving you her number. Did she want a relationship? Or was she also looking for a hookup?
It sounds like she doesn't want to hookup, but maybe she liked you, so she's playing along. Sometimes girls think sex with lead to a relationship, which it rarely ever does.
If your intention is just to have sex with her, then I would tell her sooner than later. It's really messed up to string a girl along. There are girls out there who just want to hookup.
I would just be up front with her.
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Well, what's your objective here. Are you only wanting to find girls to have sex with?
Cus if you are hoping to find girls who can be both nice enough to marry and still be exciting in bed...they do exist but you aren't going to get them if you come right out and ask for sex the first thing. If all you want is sex, then keep up with what you're doing. Ask as soon as you want.
However the majority of woman aren't turned on as quick as a man and ready for sex. Woman are more like irons, they take a long time to get em hot, but once hot, they also take a long time to cool back off again. Even if just for sex, you still need to spend some time warming her up and this is done by showing an interest in her, conversation with flirting etc, to attempt to get her ready for sex if that's all she wants. There's instructional videos for guys on 'how to get the girl' and all the possible situations regarding guys seeking girls, on you tube by that title for search. Or look for Stephen Erdman. He does some great video instructions for guys.
Sex is much more rewarding if you actually have feelings for your partner and work hard at nurturing that in her. I would suggest learning how to woo a woman, how to be a supportive man, and learning when and how to bring up topic of sex with a woman who clearly is into you and willing to date you. It is important to have someone with the same sex drive and sexual likes and dislikes but that's gonna vary if you want to only pick up a different girl every time you go out.
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