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I'm Bryttnii and I'm eighteen years old. I have an amazing boyfriend of two years! I've been on this site on and off for about 3 years. I love giving advice & taking advice. No question is considered too personal for me. Ask me anything, that's why I'm here!
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yes, fifteen. as in tenth grade. as in everyone else started developing them six years ago. all other signs of puberty are apparent, but as far as my chest goes, it's as if my body forgot to produce hormones there or something. what is wrong with me?? if all i have to do is wait, why haven't i ever met or heard of a single person out there like me? i can't even go swimming because any flat-chested girl looks awfully unattractive in a bathing suit unless she's just a little girl still. and both guys&girls will stare and be so grossed out and know and just... don't act like this isn't a big deal. sorry to sound like a b*tch, but all people tell me when i keep asking this question is "just be patient, they'll come" so please don't say anything at all if you're just going to act like this is normal. what should i do? should i get surgery when i'm older if i still don't have them? is there any chance i WILL ever get them because i know there are some women in this world that never develop breasts and that terrifies me.
I'm 18 and my breats have yet to finish growing. It does take time and some people are just late bloomers. I'm not guarenteeing you that you will have a breast boost in the next few years but it is most likely. I know you are not done growing yet and that's always a plus to look at.
I wouldn't worry about it too much. Confidence is truly the key to beauty. If you feel like you're not beautiful, everyone else will look at you the same. If you walk into a room and you're full of confidence, everyone will look at you like you were a diamond.
I know what you're thinking, yeah..right. Right? Well, I didn't believe it neither until I tried it. I told myself I was beautiful at least 10 times a day and honestly, you feel so much better. It builds self-esteem and it seems like you could use a little bit.
Whether you get breasts in the next few years, or whether you don't. . just remember that there is someone out there with smaller ones than you, so you should be proud of what you have and lucky you have them.
i live in IA,we have a zerotolerance law.im 18 and blew a .68 but was not issued a ticket that night.could still receive one
It depends. If he just let you go that night, then most likely no. If you had to go to jail, then most likely and you will have a court date.
I live in Virginia and our law is .08 or higher is a DUI and they usually give you the ticket right then and there.
My boyfriend is graduating highschool a semester early and starting to go to college in January. He is 17, almost 18. Im 16,gonna be 17 in june. I want to get him a really nice gift because we have been together for a year and a half but i dont know what to get him...he will be 5 hours away so we wont see each other much, and he cant have his car the first year and i wont get my license until summer. I can spend up to $150. I have already gotten him:
1-a nice $140 watch for our 1 year anniversary
2-a photoalbum for our 6 month anniversary
3-an interesting alarm clock for his birthday because he cant wake up in the morning. ever.
4-a shirt of his favorite band for valentines day
5-the first 3 pokemon movies as a "feel better gift" when he was sick
6-tickets to a baseball game
7-countless keychains (he loves them...his keychains a wreck haha)
8-a leather wallet
9-Posters for his wall becuase he had his room redone
10-massage oil because he was so stressed out with college and stuff
So thats pretty much it. I wnat to get him something romantic. i was thinking of getting a jar and writing down many memories (maybe 200 or 300) and thing i love about him and have each one attached to a hershey kiss. but idk if he will like it because its rediculously corny haha and i still want to get him something he will use. do you think i should give him the jar? what else could i get? some help? Thank you =]
Well I like the photo album idea but I made my boyfriend a scrapbook for Christmas and he loved it more than anything.
He still looks at it all the time and we laugh at the picture I put in it from all of our vacations and just time spent together.
You can get a full scrapbook set for like $30 at Walmart and their really fun to make!!
Alright so I'm looking for nice plus sized skinny jeans, durible, wont rip in two days.
Last year a bought some from the Deb, and they are fantastic. But two of them recently got holes on the thighs somehow.
Anyway, I heard Torrid.com has really good skinny jeans, and I took a look at them.
They are nice, but I;m iffy about buying new jeans from a store I've never bough stuff from before.
Last year I bought ripped jeans from the Deb, and within a week they were ripped in the thighs horribley. So yeah.
Anyway, what are your oppinions on their jeans?
Thank youu.
Don't feel bad I have the same problem except my jeans always split in the butt part, haha.
Depending on what size you are, I always get my jeans from Pacsun. Their highest size is 13 but their jeans are amazing.
JcPenny usually has cute skinny jeans and I have bought a few pair from there that has last me a long time. They also offer plus sizes.
I would also recommend Aeropostle. They have bigger sizes in jeans and their pretty good.
I don't know if you have any stores located near you like, Marshalls, TJ Maxx, or Gabriel Brothers, but they usually have brand name clothes for cheap and their usually pretty good and they offer plus sizes.
Hope I helped hun!
I'm seriously contemplating suicide right now, and have been for a long time now. I'm not at all happy with my life, and I'm tired of people saying that you can "change" your life to make you happier, or whatever.
I've taken lots of courses, and read lots of books on self-improvement, and things to make you happy. And so far, it's been all bullshit as far as I'm concerned. They only give me temporary hope, and I'm back to feeling how I was.
I seem to stop the people closest from me to do what they want. I get in the way with of my brother, mother, stepfather, and father. I generally don't get along with people, no matter how much I try to ever since I was a kid. I don't see it changing any time soon.
I know my life won't change anytime soon, because I don't want to try and change it anymore. What the hell is the point? Honestly, we're all going to die one day anyways. And, I just don't really care about religion anymore. All the stupid stuff with hell, and heaven. Life has become a joke.
I've been in your situation. I've felt the worse pain you could ever feel in your life. I have been so depressed that I literally had to be picked up off the floor. I lost my mom when I was 14. I'm 18 now, and at the time I really didn't want to live without her..
I've had my share of a entire high school hating you & you feel like the only way to be happy, is to just leave this world.
I attempted suicide more than once. I ended up in a mental hospital for a few weeks and it didn't really do me any good to be honest. They told me everything I already knew, but I just didn't care.
I learned that life really does have a bright side. I met my boyfriend, and he truly was the one person that kept me alive. He treats me like a princess and makes me feel good about myself. What I'm getting at is, you will find someone out in the world that is worth living for.
It doesn't have to be family or friends or a boyfriend/girlfriend. It could be a complete stranger that you meet and you know that they admire you. Always remember that even when things get tough, there will always be someone who is in a worse situation than you, that you could probably help.
I have learned that suicide is really not the answer. You have so much to live for, even though you might not know it yet. There will be a place for you in this world and you will never find it if you die before your time.
Trust me, I know. I'll always be here to help. Even though you don't know me. I hate to see people going through the same thing I did, because I know how bad it feels.
whats fun to do when ur high?
not lazy things like whats an activity, like muesium touring and that stuff. i live in nyc what shoudl i do?
Sorry, no one on this site is here to help you find out what's fun to do when "you're high."
I would suggest stop getting high because everything in life is actually more fun when you're sober.
So recently, i had to put my shih tzu to sleep. and my mom told me i could get another dog. Now i want a medium sized dog, who doesn't shed too much. But im lost on the type of breed to get. I had an australian shepherd, or a basenji. But i'm not quite sure, any suggestions?
I agree with her below. I have a Yorkshire Terrior and she is the best dog I have ever had. Also, my dad has a Chocolate Lab and she is the sweetest dog you could ever want. Their very protective and they are trained easily.
My semi formal is coming up on December 10th and I am going with my boyfriend of nine months. We just got a dress on the weekend, its black, strapless and more cute than sexy. The problem is, this is one of my first real meetings with some of his friends and I want him to be more or less proud of how his girlfriend looks.
I have naturally wavy hair, which I usually just keep straight. I was originally thinking about curling my hair but it turns out he hates curly hair. Therefore, I was wondering if anyone had any ideas of how I can do my hair without curling it?
(I dont want to put it all up because it may fall out by the end of the night)
Thank you for any help you may give!
Straighten it and do the "poof" with the front of it such as:
http://images.buddytv.com/articles/Image/lauren-conrad.jpg
here are some other hairstyles you may like:
http://www.goodhousekeeping.com/cm/goodhousekeeping/images/jennifer-aniston-lg.jpg
http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_9Zf_P9g6cuo/SNEUxfcEN6I/AAAAAAAABhQ/kLx0BbIGwes/s400/long-celebrity-hairstyles-2.jpg
http://www.celebrity-hair-styles-magazine.com/images/celebrity-female-hairstyles-gallery-06.jpg
http://www.aaa-fashion.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/08/bridal-hairstyles1.jpg
http://www.zimbio.com/Half+Up+Half+Down+Prom+Hairstyles/articles/11/Half+up+Half+Down+Hairstyles
I live with my mother. I'll only be in high school one more year, but I'm wondering if I should spend it and this remaining year living with my father nine hours away by car. If I moved, I would be able to live in a nice house, where I would be taken care of well, and I could attend an art-focused school. These are my reasons for wanting to leave. But if I do move, I would have to leave all of my friends, abandon all the relationships I've made with them and teachers, and leave all the clubs I've joined. I know I'm going to have to leave them all soon anyways but it doesn't make it any easier, especially if I have to leave my boyfriend. I wonder if it's too late for me to leave or too soon. I should also mention the art college I hope to attend is where my father lives, so if I did leave I wouldn't have to leave again.
This isn't a question that anyone on this site can answer for you. This question has to be answered from yourself. No one can tell you the right decision because no one knows your lifestyles.
It's truly your decision. If you feel like you would have a better life and enviroment with your father, then I encourage you to move with him. If it will be the same lifestyle as your mothers, than I would stick it out with your mother until it's time to go to school where your father lives.
Just think, if you move now then you would see your mother a lot less in the next few years. If you wait it out, then you can spend a lot of time with her between now and then and also spend time with your father when you do move by him.
18/f
My ex and I were together for 8 months. He was my first time, not my first love, but the one I loved the most. We had made big plans for our future together. He was going to go to college near me, 4 hours away from our home and I would move in with him my junior year when I was allowed to live off campus. During the last month of our relationship he asked me what I thought was a cute way to be proposed to. When he first asked I thought it was adorable but as the week went on I started to freak out. At the time I was seventeen and thinking about proposals, doing apartment searches for him, job hunting and going through my first month of college away from home. Needless to say I freaked out and took it all out on him. We fought for a week and I told him I was confused and didn't know what I wanted and he begged me for a second chance and told me he'd do anything to keep us together. So he came up to see me for the weekend and I could see the pain in his eyes and it killed me knowing that I caused it, I couldn't stop crying the first night but he just held me and I couldn't remember why I had said any of it to him. We ended up having unprotected sex, it was the first time we had done it without a condom. He was here for two nights and we just hung out the whole time and I tried to make it as normal as possible but it was obvious that he was still hurt.
As soon as he left I got all of the scared feelings back again. He called me when he got home and I tried breaking up with him over the phone, saying I didn't want to be in the relationship anymore. And I was bawling the whole time because I knew I was still completely in love with him. He hung up on me and then I got a text saying that he'd prove to me how much he loved me and he didnt answer any texts after that. I thought he was going to kill himself although he doesn't have a suicidal history at all. But I was a wreck, I've never cried so hard. I even went into a panic attack. Four hours later he showed up at my door and I cried and yelled at him for putting me through that but I was so glad to see him and we just hugged for a long time and he cried and I cried. But something still made me break up with him and I regret it everyday since then.
He didn't want to speak to me and a few weeks later I had a miscarriage, which I didn't tell him about. He texted me asking when I was coming home for thanksgiving, because I had to pick up stuff from his house and he wanted to see me. I called him and told him everything, how breaking up was a mistake and he said that he could never forgive me for breaking his heart, which I don't expect him to. I told him about the miscarriage and his mood completely changed, he was back to the caring person I always knew. Asked if I was alright and why I didn't tell him and I said that every time I tried talking to him he picked a fight. After telling me he still had feelings for me he said he'd think about things and call me the next day. So he called, just to tell me that he doesn't give second chances and he has a new girlfriend.
Its now been two months since the break up and I've tried every possible way to get over him. I've kept myself stoned for a week so that I didn't think about it, which works until the high wears off. I had meaningless drunken sex with an old acquaintance. I've taken down all the pictures I have of him and hid everything that would remind me of him. But I'm best friends with his sister, and his mom still emails me to see how I'm doing. I saw him over thanksgiving break and I couldn't look him in the eye without crying. He still wears a bracelet I made for him and he taught his band how to play all my favorite songs. Everyone is telling me that I'm better than him, he's from a lower class family and he smokes a lot and his family has more problems than I could ever explain. They tell me he's not worth my time and suffering and I'm sick of it. This is the only relationship I've ever fought for in my life.
I don't know what to do anymore. I'm an emotional wreck for the first time in my life. And I want my sweetheart back.
Take a deep breath and relax.
It seems to me like at the time, he was just kind of rushing into things too quickly with you. It's obvious that neither of you were ready for that kind of commitment. Instead of breaking up with him for that, you should have just sat down with him and explain to him that you were still a child and wasn't ready for marriage or anything that goes along with it.
Most people make the mistake of getting married too young or when they were unsure and it ends a lot badly. If you still care about him, sit down with him and talk to him. Explain to him everything you were feeling. It's time to be a grown up and talk instead of argue and break-up.
As for drinking, drugs and having sex with someone to ease your pain is unexceptable. Not only could you end up pregnant or dead, it can hurt you mentally too.
Never degrade yourself because you think it makes you feel better. In the end, it will only add to your problems as is.
I suggest you either move on from this guy, and find someone else out there in this huge world or call him up and arrange somewhere to meet to talk.
Some people need closure and maybe that's why you don't feel like it's truly over yet.
If you need anything at all, inbox me.
so like heres the thing.....i have a boyfriend and we have been together for 19 months but for the longest time i have felt like somethings missing....a female....i have always wanted to be with a girl relationship wise and sexually but i dont have the nerve to talk to any girl in that sort of way...my boyfriend is find with this because were both "freaks" lol...well how do i solve the problem of getting a girl???
Well first off, you need to make sure that you would like to be with a female for yourself, not because your boyfriend would like for you too.
Second, being a little bi-curious is normal and a lot of people experience this. If you have a certain friend that you can talk to about all of this, talk to her. Sometimes if you experiment it's easier for you if you know the person.
Nobody can tell you what orientation you are, but yourself. To answer your question, you can check in on some girls you may be interested in and see if any of them would be up for trying anything. You could invite some girls over and play truth or dare and see where it goes from there ;]
im told not to tell a soul because its getting somewhat taken care of. so il ask un-named. my bff is very badly depressed bc her moms boyfriend abused her so she told her mom after a while and he killed her mom and he went to jail which was a little over a year ago. now she lives with her grandparents. her grandpa is very bad bipolar and abuses her as well but only her none of her younger siblings. today she finally told me about what her grandpa does and showed me her new bruise which is very bad, it is like right on under her breast an its bloody red and very swollen and stuff she wont even put anything on it because its swollen and itd make it bigger. still which happend two days ago it even ripped her shirt. this weekend he is going to treatment for bipolar so she is running away and staying with a certain friend because he will be very bad. he is also their only source of income since the grandma cant work so if he goes they go homeless. hes going into treatment so it will maybe get better and if she gets taken away hed probly go for her little siblings so she wants to stay and take it for them. she also has anger management problems and depression so shes very agressive to people but i dont blame her. what can i do? any advice on any of this and as much advice as possible?! its getting better so i am not telling. im almost 16 and she is 14
This is a an unfortunate but common problem. A lot of children suffer from child abuse and unfortunately they never tell.
This could really hurt her emotionally later in her life. You could go to a school counsler and let them know what is going on and work something out with them so no one knows it was you that told. You could just ask them to say that she has been acting differently in class and maybe she will let them know what is going on.
I hope everything gets better for your friend and please don't keep something like this from anyone that could help her.
-bryttnii
I have no clue what to give my boyfriend for our 7 month-aversary.
NO CLUE at all?
any help??
It really depends on what he likes.
Here are some pretty good ideas:
cologne, cd/movie, clothes/shoes, gift cards, take him to dinner, cook him dinner, make him a scrapbook, give him a picture in a frame of you and him and decorate the frame yourself, a pet - dog, cat, bird, fish, hampster., wallet, and anythying else really.
Guys are really easy to buy things for lol... they take what they get & just about always love it.
Hope I Helped.
_bryttnii
iv been going out with my boyfriend for almost a year and a half. but now he cant even make me 'happy' at all like fingering or anything then he gets so sad over it. what could be going on?
Sometimes, people just stop having the "loving" feelings towards their boyfriend/girlfriend. Some people just simply fall out of love and some just stop having feeling for that person.
It's not a bad thing. You shouldn't be upset because it happens to a lot of people, everyday.
It also could be that you are just unsatisfied because you need to "spice" things up a bit ;] Try something different and see if that helps.
_bryttnii
my hair is like dead. i dyed my hair 3 times. the 2nd time it turned out wrong and went platinum blonde. (god was that horrible). but now my hair is golden blonde with dirty blonde/ light brown hair roots coming out. it is extremely ugly. the roots are about 3 inches long, i went to my hair dresser about 2 months ago to get it dyed, and she said she wouldn't dye it because if she did my hair might fall out so she said wait till my roots came in good. well i really want to dye it now, but how do i know its healthy enough without going back to her and asking her ? and i've been scrunching my hair more often for about 3 weeks now to make it more healthy, but what are more healthy ways to make my hair more healthy than deep conditioning ?
If you bleached your hair, that was the biggest mistake ever, especially if you have dark hair naturally.
I bleached my hair blonde and it was dead and wouldn't grow for two years. It broke off terribly and was fryed completely.
The best thing to do is either dye your hair back to it's natural color and do not dye it anymore until it is healthy and back to normal, or let your roots grow out until your natural color comes back on its own.
DO NOT straighten or blow dry your hair until it's healthy again because that will make it ALOT worse.
From experience, I know how you feel right now and unfortunatly it's miserable =/
Hope I helped, anymore questions inbox me.
_bryttnii
I'm not the prettiest thing this earth has ever seen but I know i'm not the ugliest.
i just feel so down about myself.
I don't feel pretty anymore.
It makes me so depressed, and i really don't know where to go with any of it anymore,
please help.
Everyone has flaws and no one is perfect.
Beauty is more than what's on the outside.
Everyone has something about them that they don't like. Don't feel alone in this situation because just about everyone goes through this every day.
If you feel that you need to change something about yourself, then don't be afraid to do it. Just don't do it for anyone but yourself.
Just remember that you don't have to keep up with the hottest styles or the latest fashions to be beautiful. Confidence is the most important part of beauty.
_bryttnii
what's a good christmas song to sing at my christmas show for school ? i want more of an orginal one. not one like "let it snow" or "have yourself a merry little christmas". if you know what i mean.
My two favorites are:
All I Want for Christmas is You - Mariah Carey.
Santa Baby - Taylor Swift
Those are two really cute christmas songs you could sing.
_bryttnii
ps- good luck :]
okkkay so I just turned 15 what do i have to do to get my temps in 6 months ? do i have to take any classes help please ?
You go to the DMV and take your written test. Most DMVs have the option of letting you take it on a computer or you can take a written one.
If you pass, you get your temps. If you don't you have to wait a couple weeks before you can re-take your test.
_bryttnii
Today I walked past this guy that I really like. I've told him that I like him so he knows. We usually just greet each other when walking past but today he winked at me. What does he mean when he winks at me????
It could mean that he likes you :] That's a huge sign.
Am i weird because I love the way guys testies aka...balls feel when I touch them
No, you're not weird :]