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I'm Bryttnii and I'm eighteen years old. I have an amazing boyfriend of two years! I've been on this site on and off for about 3 years. I love giving advice & taking advice. No question is considered too personal for me. Ask me anything, that's why I'm here!
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iv been going out with my boyfriend for almost a year and a half. but now he cant even make me 'happy' at all like fingering or anything then he gets so sad over it. what could be going on?
Sometimes, people just stop having the "loving" feelings towards their boyfriend/girlfriend. Some people just simply fall out of love and some just stop having feeling for that person.
It's not a bad thing. You shouldn't be upset because it happens to a lot of people, everyday.
It also could be that you are just unsatisfied because you need to "spice" things up a bit ;] Try something different and see if that helps.
_bryttnii
my hair is like dead. i dyed my hair 3 times. the 2nd time it turned out wrong and went platinum blonde. (god was that horrible). but now my hair is golden blonde with dirty blonde/ light brown hair roots coming out. it is extremely ugly. the roots are about 3 inches long, i went to my hair dresser about 2 months ago to get it dyed, and she said she wouldn't dye it because if she did my hair might fall out so she said wait till my roots came in good. well i really want to dye it now, but how do i know its healthy enough without going back to her and asking her ? and i've been scrunching my hair more often for about 3 weeks now to make it more healthy, but what are more healthy ways to make my hair more healthy than deep conditioning ?
If you bleached your hair, that was the biggest mistake ever, especially if you have dark hair naturally.
I bleached my hair blonde and it was dead and wouldn't grow for two years. It broke off terribly and was fryed completely.
The best thing to do is either dye your hair back to it's natural color and do not dye it anymore until it is healthy and back to normal, or let your roots grow out until your natural color comes back on its own.
DO NOT straighten or blow dry your hair until it's healthy again because that will make it ALOT worse.
From experience, I know how you feel right now and unfortunatly it's miserable =/
Hope I helped, anymore questions inbox me.
_bryttnii
I'm not the prettiest thing this earth has ever seen but I know i'm not the ugliest.
i just feel so down about myself.
I don't feel pretty anymore.
It makes me so depressed, and i really don't know where to go with any of it anymore,
please help.
Everyone has flaws and no one is perfect.
Beauty is more than what's on the outside.
Everyone has something about them that they don't like. Don't feel alone in this situation because just about everyone goes through this every day.
If you feel that you need to change something about yourself, then don't be afraid to do it. Just don't do it for anyone but yourself.
Just remember that you don't have to keep up with the hottest styles or the latest fashions to be beautiful. Confidence is the most important part of beauty.
_bryttnii
what's a good christmas song to sing at my christmas show for school ? i want more of an orginal one. not one like "let it snow" or "have yourself a merry little christmas". if you know what i mean.
My two favorites are:
All I Want for Christmas is You - Mariah Carey.
Santa Baby - Taylor Swift
Those are two really cute christmas songs you could sing.
_bryttnii
ps- good luck :]
okkkay so I just turned 15 what do i have to do to get my temps in 6 months ? do i have to take any classes help please ?
You go to the DMV and take your written test. Most DMVs have the option of letting you take it on a computer or you can take a written one.
If you pass, you get your temps. If you don't you have to wait a couple weeks before you can re-take your test.
_bryttnii
Today I walked past this guy that I really like. I've told him that I like him so he knows. We usually just greet each other when walking past but today he winked at me. What does he mean when he winks at me????
It could mean that he likes you :] That's a huge sign.
Am i weird because I love the way guys testies aka...balls feel when I touch them
No, you're not weird :]
im 17
and i haven't had sex
i'm wondering how i will know whether i'm ready for it or not..
You'll know when you meet the right person. It could be 10 years from now, but when it's with the right person you will be glad you waited.
There isn't anything wrong with being a virgin and you shouldn't do it because everyone else is doing it.
Just wait until you find the right one. Then you will know instinctivly.
_bryttnii
I am thinking about how things will go when I have sex and I know it hurts when you have sex for the first time, but I really want to know: did you have an orgasm the night you lost your virginity??
Is it possible if it always hurts too?
Some people do, some don't. I personally didn't, but I did the second time. It did hurt me, but not as bad as I thought it would. It's better if you feel relaxed and if you are with the right person. If you're tense and not sure you want to do it, it most likely will hurt more.
The pain isn't as bad as everyone made it seem. But then again, everyone is different. Some people may not feel it that much and some it might hurt bad.
_bryttnii
So usually when i cum i never actually "shoot", it just kinda rolls out. Do girls find it less attractive if you dont "shoot"?
To be honest, girls don't really pay attention to how far you can "shoot it."
It's normal & it's not a big deal.
Don't worry about it :]
_bryttnii
My best friend is a freshman in college and I'm a senior in high school. We used to call each other every night and talk for an hour, but now its an occasional text and we have run out of things to talk about, and we are definitely not as close as we used to be. How can I try to fix this and make it work? (both girls)
Well, I'm sorry to hear about this.
Maybe you could plan a night for just the two of you to go out. Movie and dinner, club, bowling, party, anything like that.
Don't worry about talking to her everyday because then there really wouldn't be much to talk about in your phone conversations.
Let her know that you feel like you two aren't as close and that you would like to do something together.
Good luck.
_Bryttnii
So in april i met my current man, hes black im white. and my dad jus happens to be racist. my mom knows about my boyfriend and i know she would like him if she met him..my dad jus doesnt open up to anything really and one day when i tell him or he finds out its going to tear the family apart. We already dont talk, and he knows i dont like him. The only reason i stay here is for my mom, plus im underage. I am in love with my boyfriend and there isnt really anything i can do at this point. i feel lost. Help?
You will always have people that just doesn't accept a girl/guy dating outside of his/her race.
Sometimes it's hard to ignore little comments especially if their from your own parents.
Since your underage, unfortunately they can stop you to an extent from seeing him. I would sit them both down and explain to them everything. Before you do this, you could invite him over for dinner and tell them he's a friend until they open up more.
If they still don't like him, that's when I would tell them that you're dating. Sometimes you think that the news you have, will most likely make your parents go off, but sometimes it's the opposite.
At this point, you just have to see what happens.
_Bryttnii
what are some cute love songs? i would like new ones...from like 2005 and up
love - keyshia cole
trust - keyshia cole
departed - brandy
you belong with me - taylor swift
come on over - jessica simpson
you complete me - keyshia cole
shorty like mine - bow wow
like you - ciara bow wow
and i - ciara
let me hold you - bow wow
how do you sleep - jesse mccartney
down - jay sean
dont forget about us - mariah carey
use somebody - kings of leon
_Bryttnii
I'm 18, and a girl and I'm always tired. It doesn't matter if I go to bed at 8 and wake up late, I'm always tired and falling asleep. I've asked the doctor before, and he thinks it was my diet. I eat good now, and it seems worse. Is there something I could take or something? I'm miserable!
Try taking vitamins. The one a day for women are the best ones to take. It'll give you more energy & make you feel more awake & ready to do things.
_Bryttnii
m/16, i need an idea for a holloween costume.
You could be a pirate, cop, excaped convict, michael myers, clown, cowboy, michael jackson, a cheerleader(joke), doctor, professor, fireman, basketball player, baseball player, football player, etc.
_Bryttnii
I need a second costume for halloween, i'm at college and so we are going out both nights of the weekend. Im not sure if i will have time to go buy anything so can you think of a costume that, chances are, i already have in my closet (like something with just a black dress...etc.)
Thanks so much!!
If you have a black dress, you could tease your hair really big & use make-up to draw a nose & whiskers & you could be a cat.
If you have a plaid shirt, you could wear that & a skirt with high heels & wear your hair in pig tails & get a pair of glasses - school girl.
Wear pajamas & be a baby.
Wear a black dress, pearls, heels, and if you have one of those featherd boas, you could be like a show girl in the 20's.
_Bryttnii
how to make friends in a school that hates you?
It's hard depending on the situation. I'm not going to lie. If a school hates you, it's hard to even attempt to become friends with them.
I've been there.
Try becoming friends with people you know will be nothing but a good friend to you. The people that don't have many friends, usually are the best friends you could have. Being nice to everyone no matter how rude they can be, always helps.
Don't let them get to you, just keep your head up!
_Bryttnii
what kind of card games and board games do you like to play with one other person or a group of people at a party? or even family night?
Spades, Rummy, Phase 10, Monopoly, Clue, Uno, Hearts, and Life, are my favorites!
_Bryttnii
i have felt like pure crap for the past few days and i think i have the flu or swine flu. which i couldnt go to the doctor because my parents were across the country but they just now got home. i also got wasted two nights ago because i felt so bad and was fighting with my boyfriend. if i go to the doctor and get tested or something would alcohaul still be noticeable in me? and what is the test they do for swine flu?
The doctors are not going to look and see if you have gotten drunk days ago. Their simply going to look for signs of swine flu.
They don't do a test for swine flu.
They will probably swab your mouth & maybe take blood.
If you do have swine flu, it's only fatal if you have a high fever that you can't break.
Here is a link you can read more about it.
http://www.examiner.com/x-18331-Natural-Health-Examiner~y2009m10d28-What-are-the-symptoms-of-swine-flu
_Bryttnii
Okay, do guys want you to get rid of all of it? I am only 13, but I don't want to stand out when i do get close with a guy. What are they expecting? Do I need to shave down there everyday so i don't get stubble, or do guys not care?
Help!
It's not about what the "guys" want, it's your decision. If you want to have hair down there, then do so. If not, then shave it.
You do not need to shave it everyday because this will cause razor burn bad :[
Use a new razor everytime you do shave which is recommended every 3 days.
Do it for yourself, not any guy.
If a guy don't like it, you deserve better anyway!
_Bryttnii