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I AM FIFTEEN AND I DO NOT HAVE BOOBS
yes, fifteen. as in tenth grade. as in everyone else started developing them six years ago. all other signs of puberty are apparent, but as far as my chest goes, it's as if my body forgot to produce hormones there or something. what is wrong with me?? if all i have to do is wait, why haven't i ever met or heard of a single person out there like me? i can't even go swimming because any flat-chested girl looks awfully unattractive in a bathing suit unless she's just a little girl still. and both guys&girls will stare and be so grossed out and know and just... don't act like this isn't a big deal. sorry to sound like a b*tch, but all people tell me when i keep asking this question is "just be patient, they'll come" so please don't say anything at all if you're just going to act like this is normal. what should i do? should i get surgery when i'm older if i still don't have them? is there any chance i WILL ever get them because i know there are some women in this world that never develop breasts and that terrifies me.
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I've answered questions like this many times before because I have the same issue. I'm 19 years old and I'm barely an A cup. I have been patiently waiting for 8 years now and still nothing has happened. It could just be in your genetics, which I'm sure mine is too. You still have time to grow them. But just think of how unique you are, I'm the only one I know with this small of boobs, which just makes me more unique than everyone else. :)
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not everyone developes at the same rate. but just to be safe, you may want to see your doctor.
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I'm 18 and my breats have yet to finish growing. It does take time and some people are just late bloomers. I'm not guarenteeing you that you will have a breast boost in the next few years but it is most likely. I know you are not done growing yet and that's always a plus to look at.
I wouldn't worry about it too much. Confidence is truly the key to beauty. If you feel like you're not beautiful, everyone else will look at you the same. If you walk into a room and you're full of confidence, everyone will look at you like you were a diamond.
I know what you're thinking, yeah..right. Right? Well, I didn't believe it neither until I tried it. I told myself I was beautiful at least 10 times a day and honestly, you feel so much better. It builds self-esteem and it seems like you could use a little bit.
Whether you get breasts in the next few years, or whether you don't. . just remember that there is someone out there with smaller ones than you, so you should be proud of what you have and lucky you have them.
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Unfortunately, there's no natural way to grow breasts. There are a few tips and tricks, though:
1) Worried about swimsuits? Get a bathing suit that will let you insert cutlets (silicone inserts). They're pretty natural feeling, and give the illusion of a cup size bigger.
2) Try working out. If you develop your pecs to be a bit bigger, they may help give you a boost.
There are guys who care, but there are those who don't. The whole "bum men" vs. "boob men" thing. Actually, there are a lot of guys who prefer tiny-breasted women.
One of my friends in high school actually grew from a AA to a B literally overnight in Grade 11. It was kind of freaky, actually. Another of my friends is a 22 year old A cup and she's perfectly happy with them (Personally, I'd trade her any day. She can have my E's!)
As for surgery, it's your personal choice. I would definitely wait until you're in your mid twenties at least; you don't want to get implants and then grow!
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Why does it terrify you? I'm just wondering why breasts are so important to you.. because there must be a deeper reason. Have you been teased because of it? Do you think guys will like you less because you don't have big boobs? (Which isn't true, so hopefully you don't think that!)
I absolutely do not judge you for feeling this way, I did not develop breats until my sophomore year of high school and I hated seeing all my friends develop quicker and be able to wear regular bras, while I was still wearing training bras. Have you noticed that there are several female celebrities with smaller breasts? Kate Hudson, who is gorgeous and confident with her body, and never had surgery on her breasts.
The bottom line is, you may grow.. you just might be one of the few girls that develop super slow. You may not, since I can't predict what will happen or tell you for sure. And of course, you can get surgery when you're older. There is nothing wrong with that either! See what happens in the years to come, and that will give you time to grow and decide what you would like to do about the situation. Any choice you make will be yours and only yours, and you should only make it depending on your happiness. :)
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