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so like heres the thing.....i have a boyfriend and we have been together for 19 months but for the longest time i have felt like somethings missing....a female....i have always wanted to be with a girl relationship wise and sexually but i dont have the nerve to talk to any girl in that sort of way...my boyfriend is find with this because were both "freaks" lol...well how do i solve the problem of getting a girl???
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threesomes + relationships = trouble. this can cause jealousy between you too that could ruin your relationship. i suggest that if you want to experiment with a girl, do it on your own time and not with your boyfriend. if hes not okay with it, then i suggest not experimentin until youa re single.
make sure you actually want to do this and not because your boyfriend wants to. if you realllly arent worried about jealousy AT ALL and youre sure that it wont ruin your relationship, i say either recruit your third at a party or someone you arent that close to.
if you want to experiment alone, then i suggest it with someone you know because you will be more comfortable with it. :)
good luck , anymore questions just ask !
x sweeethoney
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Your local gay bar would probably be a decent start. Other than that, just start talking to women and chatting them up, because unless you're comfy with walking up to a girl and asking her "hey would you like to come home with my boyfriend and I" you're going to need to get to know them and befriend them. You'll make some new friends, hopefully one of them will work out.
A quick word of warning. Your boyfriend and you need to discuss this at length. Bringing another person into the bedroom can cause alot of jealousy on both sides. If he doesn't get to join, he's going to be nuts with jealousy. You might have that same reaction on seeing him with someone else if he does get to play. Both of you need to be secure in your relationship and secure in yourselves before this door is opened, the last thing you want is one of you going off with whomever you bring home. The relationship always comes first, and either one of you has to be able to veto whats happening at any time if they need to and its alright.
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Well first off, you need to make sure that you would like to be with a female for yourself, not because your boyfriend would like for you too.
Second, being a little bi-curious is normal and a lot of people experience this. If you have a certain friend that you can talk to about all of this, talk to her. Sometimes if you experiment it's easier for you if you know the person.
Nobody can tell you what orientation you are, but yourself. To answer your question, you can check in on some girls you may be interested in and see if any of them would be up for trying anything. You could invite some girls over and play truth or dare and see where it goes from there ;]
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