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confused!!
I am 22 years old and am dating this guy I know through a friend.I had known him since 2009 and met a couple of times. I Had heard a lot about him from my best friend. the sad part is he left for europe to pursue higher studies. we are currently in a long distance relationship and will mostly be for the next one year.He keeps telling me that he really likes me and when we are on the phone we talk real dirty. He told me that distance doesnt matter even though we started a relationship like this. He seems quite honest about his feelings and talks about having kids in the future. my track record in relationships haven't been exactly great.I sometimes feel if its stupid to start a relationship like this or should I just go with the flow.I really like the guy and I think it does have potential to turn into something solid in the near future.I don't want to keep bringing up the distance issue as I don't want him to feel m not in for a relationship. he seems confident and talks about being together in the future all the time. Does this sound stupid?
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My friend that was in a long distance relationship just got married, so there are people who do work out. They dated for 2 years, all long distance.
On the flip side, I was in a long distance relationship and it didn't work out.
What it really comes down to, are both of you on the same page on what you want in life and in a relationship? If it's not the same, then it won't work.
You're 22 years old, so I'm guessing you just graduated college and possibly just started your career.
If I could go back, I would have worried less on relationships and more on my self development. Don't revolve your life anticipating what he will do, I assure you he's not doing that.
If this guy truly loves you, he will make the relationship work and make it so you two can be together. He will reassure you that he is committed.
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Hi there!
Ah,no,it doesnt stupid!! Take that comment out yo system!
Now the,you make variable points! Bravada!!
Think of a few things first/Ask yourself these questions
1.Do you see your life without him?
2.Is really comitted?
3.Do he see you in his future?
4.Is he coming home soon enough,that it makes seeing him again worth waiting for?
5.Could you see forever with him?
If you answered yes,to most of these questions,then you may want to pursue it
You are young sweetheart,and life will give you many oppourtunities that you may or may not be 100% sure you can make,or may not want to deal with
All part of growing up!
Also,listen to your gut! If you at any time,don't feel something is right in your relationship,stop,take a time out and figure out why you feel something is wrong,if you ignore it,your gut will nudge you,until you deal with it.
Be blessed in whatever your heart decides! Be blessed!!
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