my best friend constantly lies about being pregnant and alot of other stuff
Question Posted Wednesday November 4 2009, 12:06 am
My bff constantly lies to me about being pregnant & miscarrying & I can tell she's lying because she says she's preg one day after having sex and stupid, obvious stuff like that. She also lies about constantly being sick and random stuff like what people say or what her mom says, its dumb. I know its for attention but me and her boyfriend give her all the attention she needs. Tonight I told her for the first time I knew she was lying and I stood up to her she cussed me out and I don't think she wants to be friends anymore. We work together and she is like the bosses pet and everyones favorite I'm sure she'll make my life aweful there. Any help or advice on what to do or what to say to her would be helpful, thank you so much
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? TheRandomJuggalette answered Wednesday November 4 2009, 5:51 pm: The Best Thing You Can Do IS SAY NOTHING. SOON All Her Lies Will Come Back And Slap Her In The Face. Because When Word Gets Around That She's "pregnant" It'll Of Course Get To SOme Kind Of Administration Or Something. Just Trust Me. People Like That Always Get Stuck Somewhere. And If She's Angry Because You Know She's Lying And Cussing You Out And Crap, You Don't Need To Be Friends With Her. At least Until She Cools Off. And As You Probably Already Know, It's IMPOSSIBLE To Know You Are Pregnant The Day After You Have Sex Haha. If You Want To Tell Her Something Say "If You Are Going To Lie, AT Least Make It Believable" Lolz. [ TheRandomJuggalette's advice column | Ask TheRandomJuggalette A Question ]
Sharonj answered Wednesday November 4 2009, 1:35 pm: If you want to be friends with her, talk to her about how you felt.
If you don't want to be friends with her, you don't really need a friend that constantly lies. If your doing the right thing at your job and she influences how people interact with you, you can file a complaint against her. That's harassment. I would just try to continue to do your job. My mom had a situation with a co-worker. The co-worker sucked up to the boss, but always said something bad about my mom, the co-worker ended up getting fired. [ Sharonj's advice column | Ask Sharonj A Question ]
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