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my boyfriends neighbors
ok me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 11 months. hes a 17 year old male and im a 17 year old female. everytime we go to his house if his girl neighbors are outside there making a whole bunch of comments either insulting me or just stupid stuff as if hes messing around with them behind my back. like just trying to cause problems between me and him. cause i know hes not cheating on me, we spend like every second and every minute together he wouldnt have time to do it anyways. well like one girl will continuosly be like hey my babys daddy! or little stupid comments like that, it makes him mad and he will say shutup or something cause he knows there just doing it to make me mad. well i try to ignore them cause i dont want to start any problems. a few times they kept talking he told his mom and she went out and told the girls a whole bunch of stuff cause its not nice. and today we were walking away from his house cause he was walking me home and one of the girls was like you dont even say hi and he said ya i nodded my head it means whatsup and she was like oh you mean like whats up my babys mamma?! and he was like shutup and he didnt laugh or anything he just kept walking. well what are some things i can do. to show hes mine and they need to stop messing around like that cause its pissing me off. do i just ignore them or do i do something or say something what are some things i can say/do... i dont want to like stop him in his tracks and start making out with him like that cause im not like that., so please dont have that as an option..thanks in advance!
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They are just jealous they probably grew up with him and having little crushes. Obviously your boyfriend loves you or hed be laughing at their jokes and not telling them to stop. Just don't let it bother you. ask your boyfriend to ignore them as well. hold his hand or ask him to put his arm around you. give him a hug. etc. maybe see if he will give you a kiss on the cheek sometime like that. Girls can be hurtful but the best way to deal with it is ignore them i know that is what you are doing but just keep on it they will soon to feel its boring to do it because it does bother you.
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These girls are obviously jealous that you are with your boyfriend. They also like that you both react. If you two ignore them, they will probably stop.
If that doesn't work, you could always go the route of embarrassing them. Get a whole bunch of friends and just have everyone talk about how stupid those girls are really loud. It will especially hurt if it's guys talking about how stupid they are. That will shut them up.
I always say go with the peaceful way first, but some people don't learn till they are hurt.
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