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loves hanging out with the guys!
19/female!
So i will admit, i don't get along with most girls. they just annoy the crap out of me! i do have like two good girl friends, and thats all! so i love hanging out with the guys all the time, their so real. the only problem is all they talk about is girls! their either talking about wanting to get with a girl, wanting to hang out with a girl or always texting girls! and sometimes when i'm with them they'll go meet up with girls and i'll just leave because i don't want to go! it's just annoying. does this happen to anyone else? i love hanging out with the guys, but i tend to get annoyed when all i hear about is girls! and i feel like i love hanging out with the guys because then i get all the attention, so when they start talking about another girls its a bit awkward.
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I think that's the real problem...you just get a little jealous. I have always gotten along better with males rather than females too, and like you, I thought it was great being the center of attention. My deal with women is the fact that our gender can seriously be so PETTY and TWO-FACED!! Hangin with guys is a totally different experience, and for the most part a better one. LOL--I can't believe though that you didn't realize that by hanging with them you would be faced with the very things you say annoy you....they're guys-thst's what guys do!!!
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If you choose to hang out with guys, then you have to put up with "guy talk". Its what guys do when they're together, and it really isn't for girls to hear or understand. If you don't like it, you should find some other people to hang out with. But I don't really think this is the issue. The real issue is why you choose not make and cultivate relationships with women. You say they annoy you, but you're a woman. Do you think you're annoying? My point is, not all women are annoying. Perhaps you avoid women because you've been hurt in the past, or you feel intimidated. Or, as you already pointed out, you enjoy the attention you get from males. Either way, its a problem that you should really sort out. There's nothing wrong with enjoying male friendship, but there is something wrong if you just want it for the attention and you avoid other females. Its important to have relationships with other women. It will give you a place to enjoy "girl talk" and, if you choose to surround yourself with the right people, will help you learn how to grow into a better woman yourself. Examine yourself and your motives a little more closely, and find ways to spend time with other women, women you like and who are more like you. Don't be so hard on them, or yourself, and you just might find a great support system.
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Dear loves hang out with the guys!,
I also hang with the boys because there is less drama. When they talk about girls, speak up and say something about liking a boy and they will shut up right away. It usually works for me. Or just fool around and be like, man you talk about the girls alot there. Or maybe just talking to them would work to. Just trying to helpp, good luck!
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