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I have a 17yr old brother and we are relly close we talk about anything im 15yr old girl and lately hes been acting a bit strange havent seen a lot of him and the other we started talking and he told me that he is gay he's been with a guy for a few months and he was worried about what i thought about it i was a little surprised but i said it didnt matter if your gay your gay i told him id support him hes a bit worried about telling people about it especially our parents
but i said he should come out and he shouldnt be worried about what other people think shouldnt he do so?
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Its great how close you are with your brother. He clearly confides in you, and thats why he told you what seems to be his biggest secret. Keep supporting him, your doing a great job. :-) Encourage him to tell your parents, let him know that you will always accept him as he is and support him no matter what. I imagine your parents will support him as well. Remember to encourage him, dont force him :-) he will come out when he feels comfortable, now that he sees that you are accepting, it will be alot easier for him to tell your parents, but not that easy! Give it some time, everything will work out.
Good luck!!!!
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sometimes, the truth might be painful, especially to parents. If he wants to tell, then he should. but if hes afraid to, then he should keep it inside until hes ready.
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It is not always easy for someone to admit that they are gay exspecially towards their parents..
It is very nice of you to be understanding towards the situation but sometimes our parents on the other hand have a different outlook on how their children approach the real world. I think when your brother is ready he will tell your parents, He may be holding back because he is afraid to be put down or rejected. I don't think he should feel pressured into doing something he isn't ready to do. In the meantime you can support him of his choice and just let him be happy
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