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Best Friends Boyfriend
I am a guy, 17. I have a friend, 16 and her boyfriend, 17 looked up gay porn on her computer. She found it while looking on the history. She dumped him for a couple of hours and took him back. He acts childish and talks down to her and calls her names in front of her. She takes the crap. Sadly I was kind of happy she dumped her boyfriend, but then she took him back a couple of hours later. We start school tomorrow, September 1st... and when she told they talked it out and got back together I pretended to be okay with it. Should let it go or tell her how I feel? I've been friends with her since fourth grade and we have been friends since then.
WHAT SHOULD I SAY OR DO?
Thanks,
Onebirddog2000
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Honestly this sucks but you have to let her do what she wants to do and just tough it out and then be there for her when and if he does break her heart. Trust me she thinks he is the one right now and if you are the one that gets in between it she is just gonna think you are jealous acuse you and it will ruin your friendship. She is the only one that can make the decision.! So sadly your gonna have to wait it out and let her make her own decision!!! good luck
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You can tell her how you feel but there is no guarrantee she will do something about it. As this is between her and her boyfriend and she is the one that needs to realize that he is no good for her. Unless he is not abusive and is hurting her physically than there is nothing you can do about it. In my opinion If he was looking at gay porn I start to think that he might be into guys or both. However, Like I said you can tell her how you feel and let her know that you care but this is her choice to make.
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