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giving bj come natural?
so i'm very interested in the whole, giving a BJ thing, at least just once!
i know many girl don't like it but i just want to experience it once. and i know people are always like "OMG I DONT EVEN KNOW HOW, WHAT SHOULD I DO!!?" and honestly reading about how to do it is definately not going to help..
i've told guys before, i dont know how! and they're just always like, it's easy just do what youuu want.
and i'm like no awkward, like i wouldn't even know what to do, how to do it but i was just wondering, does it come natural?
by the way i'm 19. female.
just curious :)
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Hey there,
I know how you feel,i had never given head to any previous boyfriends or any guy until literally about a week ago with my current boyfriend,because I really like him I decided he was the one I wanted to try it with.
it definately just came naturally to me I was always worried about what to do but honestly like kissing you worry so much about what to do before it but then when the time comes you dont even realise your doing it!
we were making out and then I was kissing his chest and the next thing I know im giving head.
Just watch your teeth,its not as gross as i always thought too.
he asked me afterwards had i done it before,and being honest i said no. then i was worried it was bad for him but he said it was amazing :)
so relax and dont worry!
hope I helped
much <3
Jess 16/f
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I do think it is natural, there's some techniques, but it is the same steps. The only thing that every girl knows is to not use teeth.
But I noticed that men cum more when you focus on the head of his penis and actually wrap your tongue around it. Other then that you just go up and down and put your hand on the base of his penis.
19/f
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Well at first,i didn't really know what to do either, but yes in some cases it does "come" naturally, but d.w. no matter what you do with oral sex, men love it.... apart from biting... no go...
but trust me, you'll get used to it, and learn how to please him with your oral abilities from self experience, : ) hope it helps : )
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well it kind of does come natural, but you also need to know what he likes and what gets him off. experiment a little with your mouth, like try different things and tell him to tell you what he likes..its really a team effort you guys need to talk if you want the best of it.
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I'm my girlfriends first boyfriend. Of course that means I was the first guy she gave a blow job to. She didn't know what to do either. She just give it try and it wasn't really that good but it was better then nothing. eventual she got better with experience like anything else.
However for the longest time she couldn't make me cum with a BJ. She got tried of that fact, and did a little internet researcher. Now she can make me cum with blow job with no problem.
So to answer you'll question no it doesn't come natural from what I understand, however it won't hurt to do a little research.
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