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I work at a restaurant and there are some really nice guys there that are about 20-25 years old. a lot of them have been kinda flirtin with me and i told my mom! my mom said that i'm not dating them! should i obey or not? i'm 17 and I'm a female and she said i should only date 17, 18, or 19 no men over 20!
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This may not be what you want to hear but, your mom is the boss and I'm sure she has her reasons.Next year you will be 18 and you will have a little more independence. So just sit tight, and trust your mom.
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men over 20 usually try to take advantage of girls your age(I guess) So i think you should listen to mother dear. Or, she'll tell you one day, "I told you so."
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Thats not even legal to do anything with them, so dont be a slut. Obey the law and your mom.
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I think you should listen to your mom. There will be plenty of time for 20 year old guys when your a little older.
good luck!
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obey your parents, they will always find out. trust me.
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Your mom's right. Not to fall back on the old cliche about men who want to date younger girls, but it's true. A guy that age really should be looking to date other adults, not young people.
You're at different stages in life, and there really is something strange about an older guy who wants to date a teenager. He should be able to find someone his own age, unless he's looking for sex, to be in a power position in a relationship, or is fairly immature.
Stick to the younger guys. You're at the same place in life and there's less chance of anything dodgy happening.
I'll also point out that depending on where you live, anyone over 18 having sex with you is technically committing abuse/rape and could face appropriate punishment.
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Well you might want to listen to your mom, but there's some type of law or rule that says if you're under 18, then the person over 18 that you are dating can not be more than 4 years older than you. I'd listen to my mom on that, but hey it's your life. The only thing that would suck would be you getting hurt and mom saying I told you so.
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mom knows best. you can be her little girl forever if thats what you want.
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unless u really really REALLY like one of those guys u shouldnt, they r kinda old
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i would just keep it to inoccent flirting
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