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so called friend...
well, see i used to have these two really good friends and I had so much fun around them. then things got shaky and they started hanging around these really bad guys that always wanted us to do stuff for them , and I couldnt take it. turns out, their realtionships at home got worse and they started fighting with their moms and such. but i still remember all the fun times we had. should i let them back in?
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your friends are just going through a fase. they will grow out of it and they will become normal soon. try to show them thta they are making a mistake
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They need some friends and support right now obviously. you should let them back in however; dont get caught up in thier mess. try and tell them what they are doing is stupid. just dont do anything you dont want to do! best of luck
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yes if they not hangin' with those boyz any more if they do forget about them and find new friends and do you rate high lol so plese rate me high i tryed my best to give you advise
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Have you got other good friends now? Because if so, then I wouldn't let the old ones back in. They sound like they're wrecking their lives; you don't want them doing it to you. You've gotta ask yourself that, if you do let them back in, are you prepared for the same thing to happen to you as has happened to them (falling out with her 'rents etc)?
Whatever you do, remember that there is more to friendship than just having a laugh - it's about love, respect, and being there for someone unconditionally. If you believe that they deserve a second chance, then give it to them, but keep your eyes open and get out fast if the same things start happening again. Sometimes you have to think ahead rather than now.
Blessed Be,
Rach xxx
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hey well first are they still hangin out with these "bad guys"? and why are they fighting with their moms? just be careful n dont get yourself into all of that again
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hey of course you should let them back in be there friend let them know that even during hard times that you will always be there for you friends so that they have some one to depend on if things get really rough Good Luck Ashlee!
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Let me tell you what I would do. I would talk to them and tell them what you feel about them going bad and fighting almost all the time. If they listen, care, and maybe try to stop - yes. If they don't care and go "Do you have a problem with it?" on you - no, unless they come to you later on and say sorry depending on how close you were with them.
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Only be friends with them again if you know that they are the right friends for you. If they treat people badly and do bad stuff for people then i would not be friends with them. If they are going to be doin bad stuff i would stay away from them.
good luck!!
;-)
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Indeed you should. Under one condition, they drop their bad acts with these two boys and accept their life how it was before they met them.
Megan
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I think you should. Its not like these girls were mean to you. Its ok if they go seperate ways from you and do stuff or hang around with people your not comfortable with. As long as they dont pressure you to hang with these guys or do what they do..be friends with them. I think you can be friends with people who might do bad things..just dont get into it. If you have good memories and a good friendship..then i would hang out with them. Just keep what they do outside with those guys seperate from your friendship
-melissa
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i think you should let them get back in , just give them their time with these boys to realize they lost you as a friend .. and when they realize the boys are just using them they will comin back to you they might have just thought they would look cool with these guys ..
hope i helped =)
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