There is this boy who's a good friend of mine. I am not sure if I "like" him but he's really cool and we have alot in common. The other day, one of his friends came up to me and told me that the boy I kinda like likes me. I don't know whether to believe him or not. He seems kind of trustworthy and the guy really seems to be dropping hints he likes me but would a relationship ruin our friendship?
justaskme1212 answered Monday November 15 2004, 12:33 pm: it depends weither u like him or not. you really have to decide if its worth ur friendship. if you tell him 'no i can't go out with u' then things will still be weird between u 2. if u tell him yes and go out with him then their might be a chance [ justaskme1212's advice column | Ask justaskme1212 A Question ]
xOMsRunninAwayOx answered Sunday November 14 2004, 10:57 pm: Noooo!!! deff. not ask him if he does like you!!! and then ask him if yalll went out would it ruin anything.. and work from there. Just try it out.. Anything happens please let me know or if u have any more questions. [ xOMsRunninAwayOx's advice column | Ask xOMsRunninAwayOx A Question ]
Tinkerbelle answered Sunday November 14 2004, 10:44 pm: You always have to be prepared for that possibility. It doesn't mean that relationships with friends always end tragically, but you have to know that it could happen. You can either go for it and end up messing it up, or not and wondering what it would have been like to be with them. Realize your feelings now before you make a mistake. [ Tinkerbelle's advice column | Ask Tinkerbelle A Question ]
Meetmyyimshi13 answered Sunday November 14 2004, 10:21 pm: well sometimes relationships do ruin friendships but if you talked to him about it and maybe in the beginning you say that if it doesn't work out you will stay friends and take the relationship slow in teh beginning and see where you go from there [ Meetmyyimshi13's advice column | Ask Meetmyyimshi13 A Question ]
cutebrunette answered Sunday November 14 2004, 10:08 pm: I think you should go for it! If you break up you 2 can always go back to being friends. Now this boy who told you that the boy you kinda like likes you. I dont think you should believe him. Believe none of what you hear and half of what you see. go up to the boy you kinda like and ask him if he likes you, or get one of your friends to ask him. But dont be shy, Go out there and get what you want, dont wait for it to come to you.
computerqueen210 answered Sunday November 14 2004, 10:04 pm: ya dont worry i had a bf that i thought the same way about if my friendship would ruin but in the end it just happens like that and no it wont ruin everything will just be fine when something happens!! I know this because my bf just broke up with me on the 12th and were still close friends!! Im me Computerqueen210 [ computerqueen210's advice column | Ask computerqueen210 A Question ]
xokaylanicoleox answered Sunday November 14 2004, 9:47 pm: If your asking if it would end of yall liked eachother, then no. If your asking if yalls relationship would end if yall dated, then that's totally different. It all depends on how your relationship ends if yall break up. I'm friends with all my ex boyfriends. At least the one's I see anyways. It most likely won't as long as yall both keep being eachother and if you are worried about it then make a promise with him that if yall do date and break up then you still want to remain friends with him, even if it means not being as close. -Kayla [ xokaylanicoleox's advice column | Ask xokaylanicoleox A Question ]
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