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who do i pick?
ok, i have a boyfriend....lets call him..alex*. I really really like him and all... but my friend..(lets call her..mandy*)is mad at him. She said i don't spend enough time with her or anything because she is always with alex. She got mad about sumthin, and said i had to choose between her or alex. I don't know what to do. I'm really confused. I don't really wanna have to choose. Is there a way i can make them both happy or sumthin? I seem to find time to hang out with two of my friends and alex.. but for some reason i cant find time to talk to mandy a lot lately... please help!!!
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welll miss pick,
i would have to say that you should spend time with eachother. like make plans for the trio. instead of just one or another. cuz she might really wanna be friends with alex and you. cuz i understand what ur going through. okay?
i hope i helped.
--xmandax---
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you don't have to pick between your boyfriend and your friends. that is totally not right, but noone likes to be forgoten. your friends prob think that you forgot about them. you should tell your boyfriend how your friends feel and he will understand that you need to have a few girls nights. boyfriends are there to help you out with anything and so are friends. you can't let them make you choose. trust me just talk to them and boyfriend... trust me it has worked b4.
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just forget your freind mandy,shes just jellus,if you like alex then stay with him...what would you rather have a boyFRIEND or just a friend...if i were you i would pick boy friend...hope my advice helps you.
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ok well if they were that good of friends they wouldnt make you pick....talk to them...and tell them exaclty how you feel about it and straighten it all up....i hope i helped...good luck..
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Well, first off my name is Alex so this kinda makes me happy. Ok, now to the question. First off, be glad she DOESN'T like "alex" because i just answered a ? about a person in Mandy's position like "alex". So if you want to make them both happy, i say invite them both to, lets say the mall. Everyone likes the mall, right? Ok , so try to get them to talk to each other, and then once they are a little less hostile you can do those kind of things more often. Soon all 3 of you are friends and you can hang out with them at the same time!
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I no this is gonna sound mean and everything but... You might have to leave "Alex"... your friends will always be there for you.. a boyfriend won't.. Always choose chicks over dicks.. thats my motto... Hope I helped...
*~Jamie~*
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