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i love my boyfriend.. or ex boyfriend i should say, very much. so as of right now, i am waiting for him and i have been for about 3 months or so now. i know its unfair to me, but he has told me numerous times that he loves me and that eventually he would get back with me. we were together for a pretty long time and he decided to end things because he wanted to go out and have fun.. and also bc i moved, although, not a very long distance at all. we still spend time with each other now and then and we still keep in touch.. and he assures me that he isnt seeing any other females. but well, i was wondering, if he loves me like he says he does, then why is it that hes not with me now?
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hi i wouldnt stay with him juss because i dont think its fair that u have to wait until hes readyy n obviously if ur not "fun" enough for him its not worth it..since u moved n u still keep in touch then u guys should be close friends! but my opinion u should move on with it and be his friend u shouldnt wait on like a string for the guy if he really likes u he will regret making u wait for him...
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guys can be so fuckin confusing! obviously, this guy still has feelings for you if he keeps coming back and feels the need to keep in touch. if he thought you were just some hoe he could knock off anytime, he would probably treat you like shit, instead of telling you he loves you. who knows why he isnt with you now... maybe he is scared of committment. i think you should talk to him what you asked the site "if he loves me like he says he does, then why is it that hes not with me now?"
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well, him sayin he wants to "have fun" is basically saying he wants to go see wut else is out there and be with other girls for a little while. i wuldnt go back with him only bc its not fair at all that your sitting there on a string waiting for this guy and hes out doing whatever!! i think yu shuld move on ..its gon be hard but its for the best in the end!!!
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sounds like this guy is keeping his options open. he keeps feeding you a line that he loves you and stuff, but he is probably on the hunt for other girls. if he doesnt find one, then he always has you to fall back on. see the scheme? not cool.
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Don't neccesarily make it to the point where you're sitting at home waiting for his phone call. Go out and have fun..you don't have to do anything with any other guys but just go out and get your mind off of him for awhile. Don't call him for a little, and try not to talk to him, eventually he'll call you if he cares. Guys always wonder what girls are up to when they aint callin. Maybe he's got too much on his plate right now, or maybe he just isn't ready for a relationship. Give it some time it will work out.
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You will have to discuss whether he loves you or not with him. To tell you the truth I think he's just playing mind games or he does love you and he's not ready to be held down by a relationship again. But honestly I would move on. It seems like this boy will only bring problems to you later on down the line and your going to be hurt. Don't spend your time on guys that long. If its ment to be it will happen. So til then just go out and have fun.
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talk to him and ask him really, what is going on.he might be seeing someone and has feelings for you and doesnt want commitment. Talk to him untill you get an honest answer. It may just be that he needs to think it out, and hes a, a slower thinker.
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If you find a answer for that! TELL ME! cause i'm in that same situation!
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I think you should definetely stop waiting...why did he want to go out and "have fun" w/ out hooking up w/ other girlz...hmmm i dono but that just seems a little suspicious to me. I think you should go and try to find other people too! Cuz like if he ended it just so he could HAVE FUN then maybe he doesn't wanna like stay w/ one person. Thats how it sounds. So who cares just go and have fun yourself too!
GOOD LUCK!
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Well assuring isnt always tell the truth, he could just be saying that to not hurt ur feelings. If he is in a relationship now and lying to u about it, then he could still be leading u on because he might want to go back out with u when that relationship ends. hope i helped answer ur question. I hope u rate me good.
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HES PROBABLY NOT LYING, HE MIGHT ACTUALLY BE TELLING THE TRUTH ABOUT HIS FEELINGS&HIM JUST WANTING TO HAVE FUN. BECAUSE IF HE DIDNT LOVE YOU THEN HE WOULD BE GOING OUT HAVING FUN WHILE GOING OUT WIF YOU&IT WOULD HURT YOU ALOT MORE..... GIVE THE MAN MORE CREDIT...
LAURYN
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