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Should I ask her?


Question Posted Friday August 20 2004, 11:52 pm

Ok, lets say one of your best friends just broke up with his gf, who you have kind of liked for awhile? Should you ask her out right away or give her some time? It wasn't a very serious relationship, but I don't know how she would feel going out with me, after being with my friend?

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CrayolaJenn210 answered Wednesday August 25 2004, 8:26 pm:
Well if it was a serious relationship I would give it sometime, but then again it wasn't. Maybe you should give it time anyways, and talk to her more and then let her know you got the hotts for her. Good luck

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ljk88 answered Sunday August 22 2004, 3:50 pm:
ew no! ok don't do anthing! for a while that is. see if the gf dumped the guy it would be a little better but seeing as the friend broke up with her she could still be upset and missing him. if you like her ask your friend why he dumpped her then see what happens. talk to her about too and see what she thinks. depends on the signs i guess

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xogiggles37xo answered Sunday August 22 2004, 9:38 am:
what i think its not really how she feels its how he feels. thats not really nice to leave your friend out there hanging. altho it wasnt very serious it might of been a relationship he'd enjoy alot. now im not saying the girl doesnt matter just think of your friend first. their important too. x3 xogiggles37xo.

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Steph2 answered Saturday August 21 2004, 3:20 pm:
i say you go for it!! if she wasnt too upset w/the breakup, then she should be fine and might even be happy about it...make sure she knows how u feel first..good luck!! ;)
me

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TrumpetChyk92 answered Saturday August 21 2004, 3:19 pm:
I think that u should b her friend 4 a while until she is ready to start looking for relationships again

hope that i could help

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UnluckyWishes answered Saturday August 21 2004, 11:25 am:
I'd give her sometime. She might be really upset but you might not know.I would ahng out with her for a while and let her know your here for her and be a good friend to her.wheny ou know the time is right ask her.Good luck.

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SeXyLaCi_XoX answered Saturday August 21 2004, 1:51 am:
You are going to have to ask your friend before you make any type of moves. Make sure he is ok with it because thats the last thing you would want to do or who you would want to hurt. If the girl really liked the guy a lot then I say just be a close friend to her and try to help her out and when you notice that she is over it then wait 2 more days and ask her on a date. If she is already over it then I would wait about a week then ask her out on a date. But just make sure you asked your friend if he is cool with it or not. The girl might not care going out with you even though she was with your friend. But I'm not that girl so I can't really say. Hope I helped! Let me know if you need anything else!

*Laci

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BartDude414 answered Saturday August 21 2004, 1:44 am:
Hey there go with her.Like u said it wasnt really a serious relationship anyways.Just wait like a two weeks or something.While u waiting ask your friend if he miss her and if he say no and u have to definetly ask her out.

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ElementaryHustler answered Saturday August 21 2004, 1:20 am:
Ask your friend about it first and if its ok with him go for it. But if he has a problem with it wait a little bit and go for it.

=]Brit.

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blackmamba answered Saturday August 21 2004, 1:18 am:
oh definently give it some time. its far too soon, especially if its your best friend! but maybe you could slyly make it known to her that you are interested in her.

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jj15 answered Saturday August 21 2004, 12:41 am:
I would let her break up get over her, and then after a week u can ask her out

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Maura answered Saturday August 21 2004, 12:37 am:
Get his ...clearance/approval first. It's not worth it to piss him off or to lose him as a friend for a girl.

I'd give her some time. She doesnt want to look bad. I wouldnt date an ex's friend shortly after breaking up with the old one. I'd feel insensitive and bitchy!


If their relationship wasnt serious, yours (if it happens) wont be either most likely.

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blondebtqueen answered Saturday August 21 2004, 12:30 am:
I think you should give it some time and then maybe after a week or so try and see what happens... it's difficult when you have the same taste as your friends! .:.Macy.:. (Rate me!)

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xlostangelx answered Saturday August 21 2004, 12:09 am:
definately give her at least 2 weeks! then start to build yourself up and ask her..

hope i helped:)

good luck

*ash*

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x3_O0H_LA_LA answered Saturday August 21 2004, 12:07 am:
DUDE, YOU TOTALLY CAN NOT... CANNOT CANNOT CANNOT AS HER OUT RIGHT AWAY, MAYBE 2 WEEKS AT THE LEAST&TALK ABOUT IT WIF YOUR BOY. MAYBE HE'LL TURN OUT TO BE OK WIF IT..&IF NOT MOVE ON, ITS NOT GONNA BE WORTH ALL THAT DAMN TROUBLE IN THE END, BELIEVE ME... MOVE ON... BUT DON'T BE A DICK TO HER OR YOUR FRIEND, JUST LET IT GO...

LAURYN<3

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dixiegurl792 answered Saturday August 21 2004, 12:05 am:
Go for it in like 2 or 3 weeks she might not totally be over it yet. Discuss the idea w/ your friend and see what he thinks also. There is no problem w/ goin out w/ tha girl your friend used 2 go out w/. If he is dissapointed w/ you wanting 2 go out w/ her then he isnt very much of a good friend now isnt he?.


Evan

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LilMia811 answered Saturday August 21 2004, 12:04 am:
give it a shot. ask her and see what happens. if you say it wasnt serious, then she shouldnt feel affended reguardless if she wants to be with you or not. just talk to her, you will never know til you do.

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mshonest4eva answered Saturday August 21 2004, 12:03 am:
Give her time and space, cause she still may have taken it hard. Come up to her, and start a conversation about something other than him. If she starts hanging out with you more, when you do finally ask her out, ahewont be surprised. But dont get all to to chumy, because them shell think of you only as her friend.

XoxO ALissa

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Karen answered Saturday August 21 2004, 12:03 am:
I think you should tell her how you feel about her but don't rush into anything yet. Give her some time to cope well not cope, but you know what I mean. It's different for every girl. I hope I helped and I hope everything works out :)

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soljette answered Saturday August 21 2004, 12:03 am:
first, i think you should ask your best friend how he'd feel if you told him that you like her. dont do it too quickly, wait it out for a couple days or so. if he doesnt like the fact that you have feelings for this girl, then i think maybe you shouldnt ask this grl out bc that would destroy the friendship you and him have. if hes alright with it, tell him that you want to ask her out and you wanted to go to him about it first because you respect him

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xcry4noguyx answered Saturday August 21 2004, 12:00 am:
I think your friend might be kinda mad..but give it few days and tell her how you feel...then she'll let you know...its different with every girl

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