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how can i stop bein shy around boys?? i cant help it!! n i blush all the time!!!!!!! ahhhhhhhhh help me please and i will LOVE You for ever
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Well first of all, how old are you? Try not to dwell on the fac that your around boys. Just try and have a fun time and not care so much as to what is actually happening. Act like they are your cousins--you wouldnt blush around your cousins. I don't really know what to say because this never happened to me. Good luck though!! Let me know if you need anything else!
*Laci
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Hehehe,no need to panic hunnie!!I used to be TERRIBLY shy,still am a little bit.The thing I learned to do was to use my sense of humor,and joke around with the guysjust like they were my friends.Let's face it,don't you always notice the person who's laughing and smiling and having a good time?Being shy isn't gonna go away on it's own-unfortunately for us!I think it's really about giving off an air of confidence,even if you don't TOTALLY have that much.Be friendly and smile at guys,talk to them,just about every day stuff.The more you talk about how bad your english class sucks or how funny last night's southpark was,the easier it'll get to talk to guys and just be yourself.That's the key,be yourself.Guys don't like it when you try too hard....shoot we girls don't like it when a guy tries too hard either!!You just look desperate when you try too hard.And it's not all about barbie doll beauty,remember that.But guys do notice little things like,your perfume and your smile,and the way you carry yourself.Have fun with your friends,but don't always be SURROUNDED by your girls.That can intimidating for a guy who wants to approach you.And don't ever be embarassed or ashamed of the way you feel.If you like a guy,drop subtle hints! ;) I realize I'm rambling here so I'll stop,lol,but I hope SOME part of this helped you!!!! <3
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Well, maybe you're getting intimidated by boys. If they're really cute it may make you feel embarassed to talk to them. What i would do, is try to find a common interest between you and them. Like say, if you like rap music (which i don't but we won't go there cuz a lot of people do) so yeah if you like a sort of music, and so does he...just go up and have a casual conversation with them. If you start off talking about them, or something they like...they'll probably like to talk about themselves. Try to talk to the guy's friends about what they like to do. If he's in to sports, try to ask him what his favorite sport is and their teams...then ask why he likes them and stuff like that. Once you have a casual conversation going, it will probably lead into better thing :wink wink: lol
hope i helped...rate good~ashley
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Just try and think of something that makes you feel secure. Usually people are shy because they feel they have nothing to add or that they are not up to the level of the people that surround them. The next time you find yourself in that position, try focusing on something that's not so perfect on the person. Find something that makes you feel better about something you have, for instance, " Boy, his nose is alot worse than mine" and that will bring them down to a level that will make you feel a lot more comfortable with yourself, and feel more at ease about sharing yourself. Hope this helps. Id loved to be loved forever :)
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