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hi im a 16 yr old girl from florida..theres this guy that i like..i dont know if he likes me back...but hes really nice to me..he compliments me and stuff...now the problem is that a lot of girls like him..and hes always surrounded by girls..bc hes a very talkative outgoing guy! hes totally my type..and ive been waiting for a while for a guy like this to come a long..hes smart funny outgoing athletic hot etc etc! i dont know what to do...im friends with some of his friends..should i play hard to get..or what?? i dont wanan drive him away from me...hes used to girls
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Well, Im going to pretend like I am in your situation and try to answer the best I can.
I would play hard to get just a little bit, but also let him know that I want him at the same time. Ya know just so he doesnt think that your "not interested". Does he act like he likes you back like by giving you extra attention or talking to you more than the other girls? go for it. Just think though, if your the jealous type and hes around lots of other girls, then you might want to reconsider
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That happened to me with my boyfriend. He was the most popular kid at his school and won class clown and most school spirit when he graduated. Every girl in his school wanted to go out with him but he never gave any of them to chance to. This might be the case with your guy. If your not sure if he likes you, just ask him if he wants to hang out. If he says yes which chances are that he does than just start to get to know him better and let him get a chance to know you one on one. There is also a chance that he is complimenting you and is nice to you because hes nice to everyone. You just have to hang out with him and then from there see where it goes. Let me kno what happens after you guys hang out and I will be able to help you out some more ok? Hope this has helped you so far
*Laci
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Whoa,I'm goin thru a kinda similar situation right now!And I did once when I was in high school.I say go for it girl!!!Let him know you like him.I'm not one for being ashamed or embarassed about your feelings,but I realize sometimes it's hard to let someone know!!!But you should let him know.If y'all talk online or on the phone,tell him that way,or even in a letter if you think you're too shy to do it face-to face!!If you can do it face-to-face just ask him to meet you someplace,or to take a walk,or go out to eat,anyplace where you guys can be alone together and you have your opportunity.Guys that are the typical "ladies man" can be kinda hard to deal with sometimes,lol.But believe me you get used to it.You sound very into this guy,so I don't see why you shouldn't tell him!!If you feel more comfrotable letting his friends know and having them hook you up or whatever,then go for it!As for hard to get,that game can be fun for a while,and it works sometimes,but only for so long.Guys don't usually like to have to figure out how you feel!Plus some guys you just have to practicaly beat em in the head to get them to see you like them!LoL I don't suggest violence tho!Haha!But I say tell him girl!You're running a much bigger risk by not telling him cuz then he may end up with some other girl,and you'll be hurt 10 times worse knowing you could've given it a shot but didn't!!Best of luck!Let me know how it goes ok sweetie!!?? I wanna hear all about it!! ;)
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I have a saying that I'm quite proud of. " Play hard to get and you may not get got". If he compliments you, thats a sure sign of interest. How about asking some of his friends if they know anything. Maybe hes been saying things about you that will tell. Remember, youve been waiting this long for someone like him, think about how long you may have to wait if you miss out. Good luck, hon.
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