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What is the most important thing when you look for love?
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Meaning? When your in love you think about this person all the time....
But if your looking for someone too love..then dont thats the most important thing, you will fall in love with someone unexpectadly cos you love them...
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im a 14 year old guy i just got into high school and i can't stop thinking about girls there is this hot cheerleader in my science and i keep undressing her with my eyes and ive been haveing very dirty dreams about her wut should i do? (link)
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That is 100% normal , your in that stage of changes...things like this will happen on a daily basis until your mind settles itself as you grow older, try masturbating too release the sexual tension.
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So i'm generally considered a 'good' girl.. even prudish by some of my less closer guy friends. But last night at a party, i went to second base with a guy friend who's interested in me... it was my first time and in retrospect it was a really really stupid idea. looking back, i dont even know why i did it!! and now i dont know what to do.
I dont want to seem 'easy' or anything and i definitely dont want to be used. My other guy friend said not to believe him when he said that he doesnt care that im not that sexually active. It's just awkward to see my guy friend now, especially when he wants to go out with me and i dont know if i want to... hes not very attractive but he has a great personality and i dont want to seem shallow or anything... what am i suppose to do? i think that if i do end up going out with him we might touch second base again or something because i wouldnt let him go far in that.
any help or advice please?? any hurtful rude nonhelpful comments will be disregarded because im really worried about this. (link)
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Tell him perhaps in a text you felt that what you done wasnt a good idea, and if you go out you would prefer too take friends, and ask if he has feelings for you other than friendship..Im sure he will understand if you explain why your nervous :)
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I'm a virgin (15), and my boyfriend is not(17). he doesn't care that I am, or anything like that, he has a girlfriend for a long time and she's only the other person he's had sex with.... Well I'm really scared to do it, and it's not liek he's pressuring me or anything, I just want to know, what his reaction will be like. because I'm really afraid, and do guys usually have patience with girls during their first? and how bad does it actually hurt? (link)
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Dont be scared, if you are then consider whether your ready or not :)
It does hurt yes but not much, once it has ''popped your cherry'' then its all fun from there, he will know too be patient with you, tell him you want too take it slow..
You will be fine :)
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So, i'm pretty sure I like girls. I mean, ive never dated a girl or a guy to EXACTLY know. (or kissed for that matter) but honestly i'm just attracted to girls and find male genetalia gross.....
But i'm starting to think that maybe i just find it gross because of my age and inexperiance and just... immaturity? and maybe I like the idea of having friendships with girls and confuse that with being in love with them? I just dont know.
I have told people I am bi, but never told someone I was actually a lesbian. Also, all the guys im friensd with are gay. I have like no straight men in my life besides my father and older brother lol, if that matters....
Oh, and I watch/enjoy girl on girl action frequently and i just dont know who i can see myself spending the rest of my life with: a man, or woman? I can't see myself with EITHER! :-p (link)
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I had the same problem for some time, although I never watched girl on girl action.
You could just be curious.
Sometimes it seems easier too see yourself with someone of the same sex.
I was attracted too both for quite some time.
Your right it could all be down too your age.
Just go with your instincts. Try watching some girl on guy action.
Dont think too far ahead yet.
Hang around with some guys see what you think...Its obvious whos good looking and whos not..So see how attracted you feel too the guys.
Good Luck :)
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well i need help with this,
i'm 14 and a chick
my boyfriend just broke up with me about 2 days ago and i still love him sooooo much. like you guys have no idea.
but i dont know what to do, i want to get over him but it seems impossible.
and it was such a rash decision too.
about 3 days before he was telling me how much he loved me and that i was pretty and all these reasons why he loved me, but then he just broke up with me.
he says its because he cant handle the pressure of being in a relasionship, and i told him i wouldnt pressure him at all.
we had been dating for 4 months by the way.
help would realllyy be appreciated. and i'll love you forever =] (link)
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Im on verge of the same problem ... I dont like the pressure of the relationship but god I love my bf.
It could be you have rushed into the I love you too fast...
Talkinga bout marriage kids and loving him so much and stuff like that...You need too settle into things slowly...He will get bored once he knows everything.
Give him some space then suggest getting back together
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Me and my brother don't get along but that's becasue he is an ass around his friends.. But normally he is OK after a while. There is this one friend, that I think is really sweet, nie and we really get along. He asked if I was going to this party, that he wanted me to go and stuff.. Well me brother was going and He didn't want me to go because he isn't comfortable with me around him whne he is with friends (But I get along with his friends better than he does and they want me hanging around...) Well.. I asked him if it would be ok if i dated him if i dated his friend. And he said he doesn't care.. But then someone was sayign abotu how his friend was gonna fuck me and shit... And I mentioned somethign abotu i would if he made the mood, and ever sicne then my brother was totally being an ass to me and his friend because of that and ui just dont know.. I told my brother I wont becasue he doesnt want me to and all, I wont even flirt with him anymore...
Just what do you think of the whole situation..? (link)
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Its Jealousy.
No doubt about it.
Your brother is jealous you get along with them so well, and perhaps is feeling insecure.
It also could be that he sees you different, as a potential threat of embarressment.
Hes doing what most regular teens guys do.
Dont listen to him, if his friends like you they should stick up for you anyway.
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well you know the website www.iconator.com? some of these people make really good icons. like really good. examples:
http://iconator.com/profile.php?UserID=702779
^ mostly everything made by that person, just scroll down. i was wondering if any of you know how to make icons that could help me? thanks soo much.
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Try browsing other sites that make icons, google it
Make your own icons or something.
I know a doll website where you can make your own icons.
www.dollidol.com
Hope I helped..
Good luck
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So i met this kid in my class and he told me that he would call me and we could hang out sometime....the class is over and he never called me back!
No I'm a dude and i dont want to sound gay but is there a reason why....maybe he forgot?? (link)
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Im sure he forgot, Dont worry too much.
You may sound too desperate which will put him off.
Try too act cool and just text him sometime perhaps asking him about some homework or something too start a conversation.
Good Luck !
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Late at night like after 12 I'm like an eating machine. I'm afraid that if i dont stop soon I'll gain 100 pounds and ruin my life.
What can i do to stop my late night binging???
It's making me depressed!!!
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Your not getting enough sleep, which is causing you too make up for it by eating.
Try doing something that will make you tired before bed.
Horse Riding is tiring, football etc etc
The quicker you sleep, the less likely you are too eat.
Try focusing on something else.
Dont see it too much as a problem otherwise all your attention is diverted too the food.
Good Luck!
Hope I helped =]
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so i have these two best friends. and it just so happened that their boyfriends and my boyfriend are bestfriends also. well my two friends have lost their virginity to their boyfriends, and i didnt, and me and my boyfriend have been together longer than any of them!!! is this normal? i mean i wanna do it with him, but im scared i get hurt by him, i mean he is really sweet and he loves me but i just dont know.. (link)
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Dont do it just because they did.
The question is...Do you want too?
As in , do you want too because you want too, or do you want too because you will look cool to your friends?
You should speak with your boyfriend, and try too see when hes ready for it.
You can help ease the pain of first time sex using lubricants, fingering beforehand, and making out is a general relaxer before sex.
Make sure its for you the sex, not for them.
Do you have any proof they actually done it with their boyfriends?
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my boyfriend and i have been going out for 4 months today. this weekend we are going to his cousins house and there will be no adults. i am a virgin but i think i am ready for sex. how do i know if i am or not? do i know at all? should i do it? (link)
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Im afraid, from what you have said you arnt ready.
I could be wrong.
Check these off and if you know all of them, then you are ready.
1) Do you know how too use protection?
2) Do you know what too do if the protection fails?
3) Are you ready to be a parent if you dont choose abortion?
4) Do you feel emotionally ready for it / excited
5) Do you know where too get protection?
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I get discharge like everyday and have no pains or mood swings - so how do know when my period will come (its irrgeular too) (link)
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Ok Ill answer by what I think you mean.
Record it in a book, dont just guess.
In a diary, the day you have your first bleed count a month from there.
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how effective are they?
is there a good chance that they can be wrong?
how long after becoming pregnant can pregnancy be detected? and the later you take it, is there a better possability that it will show?
help plz!! (link)
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Pregnancy tests are usually 98-99%
And you can detect pregnancy from the second your egg fertilises.
It doesnt matter how late you take the test, It will show all the same.
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I think my mom doesnt trust me. Everytime I go on the computer she says, "Who are u talking to????" Even if I am just on the web. If I sign off of AIM she thinks I am hiding something from her. She knows that it annoys me, but she does it anyway. What should I do?
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Well, perhaps try telling her in a normal way before you go on it, why not show her when she looks, say look thats all im doing.
I would get annoyed if my Mum kept asking aswell.
When you sign off, say this is boring or something.
She will get the hint eventually.
My Dad is the same
He used too watch everything and get annoyed if I spoke too someone if the name had anything too do with swearing or sex lol
Why dont you play a game on there and show her it. She will think you play that alot.
If you do have MSN then add me: secksymoo@hotmail.co.uk , if not then just mail me using your aim.
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Ok i havnt heard from my man in a couple hours and the chick keeps texting me telling me to stay aways from him. She makes up a lot of lie. She told him i got rid of the neckles he gave me on the 23 of this month. And that made me really mad. So i told her to stop. But i think the only reason that she is trying to break us up is because she wants some dick. She is one of those girls who use every guy then drops them. When me and my man talk he tells me how much he hates her and how nasty she is. But when i talk to her she tells me he talks crap behind my back!! So i dont kno who to beleive! Plz help me
P.S. He gave me a neckles for christmas wat does that mean?? (link)
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Well, obviousley you dont trust him, otherwise that wouldnt be a question.
Do some investigating...
Get your boyfriends phone, look for her number , if he has it then text her saying something like, I love you, and see if she replys.
If she says I love you too...Obviousley theres something going on..
If she says wtf are you on about..Clearly shes lying.
But you shouldnt have too do that unless you dont trust him.
I trust my bf 100% I would never question him.
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all my life I have been judged by so many people. Im a nice person. I dont like being mean to people unless their mean to ME... I alway thought I looked pretty when I looked in a mirror, but sadly, nobody agrees with me. Everyone thinks im ugly! This ass named CJ is spending the night at our house and its only because he's on vacation from California and we have known him since kindergarden.... I was a stupid retarded little girl in Elementry school... I didnt know any better. I was always chasing guys for fun.... and now that we are in High School, I thought I had changed so much from then, but CJ said I havnt changed at all, and just now, I was upstairs watching tv, and Colton started a fight with me about how a chopper was a motercycle and not a helecopter (it can be both) but they his little friend joined in the fight and THEN the little bitch told me to shut up because I was annoying! it all started when the little booger wanted to play my brother's PS2, and I was watching tv, and these little twerps wouldnt stop making fun of me, and THEN my brother's little friend told said "Brittany told me your a dork" (he said it to me before, but when I asked Brittany, she said it wasnt true because she dosnt tell her brother ANYTHING) and im starting to think that everything everyone is saying is true.... I dont know why everyone is so mean..... I have dreams, but there crushed under the feet of my stupid brother, and CJ, and my sister Hollan, and EVERYONE! Hollan wont stop taking my stuff that little brat! Im a triplet, and my sisters have always been telling me "Thats why WE have boyfriends" and I havent gone out much, but my first bf was a fony... He asked his friend to ask my SISTER, Cher out..... but he accidently asked ME out instead, and I said YES! WHat was I thinking???? Well im really in a bad mood right now because today was also the day my dad made me do the dishes and he's not even getting the two little boys into trouble! its just me! Just because Im the older kid, dosnt mean that he shouldnt care about ME.
My family is soooooooo horibble... Me and my brother and sisters fight all the time, sometimes my mom even crys about it. But my sisters are bad people... They sneak out and stuff like that, and it makes me mad because they think their nold enough to have sex and all that (but I dont know if they have done it yet) but their the kind of people that think they get every boy they want... and the truth is.... they do... they get all the boys, and Im stuck inside.... Just today, I came outside and Hollan's all like "Go the fuck away! No one wants you here" and I just came out there to hang out with her friend Ali....
Everyone treats me like SHIT! I even bought my sister HOllan a $40 jacket at American Eagle Outfitters.... AND SHE'S STILL AN ASS!!!!!
(im not trying to brag) but Im a nice person! I dont like to be mean! I dont like to make people cry! But no matter how nice I am to people, they are always mean to me! THey call me names like dork, nerd, geek, and my sister even calles me a prude! It really makes me mad...
I remember I got in a huge fist fight with my sister Hollan on the front Lawn, and Monae and Ali and ANika were all watching and they didnt bother to do anything! I have been picked on my whole life and im too nice to do anything about it! I mean I usually dont fight back because I know I'll lose.... I always lose.....
I dont know what to think of myself now..... (link)
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You have seen my answer lol you gave me a 5 ^^
If you have MSN, add me
secksymoo@hotmail.co.uk
or yahoo = annmarieashman
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ok....well...i have these bumps on my breast... well on the part (i cant think of the name for it right now!) my nipple or whatever... its been there for like a year... Does anyone know what it is?? (link)
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Guys try reading her message before you worry her, the chance of it being cancer if she has had it a whole year are 1%
I have little bumps aswell
Its nothing too worry about honest :D
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I'm 14 and I have a problem when talking to boys. Whenever I see guys checking me out, I get really nervous and run away and hide until he goes away.
But if I ever do get the chance to talk to a boy, my mind goes blank, and I can't think of anything to talk about except my cat. I'm always a weird, annoying dullard around guys, even though I'm not like that at all around other people.
How can I get over this and behave normally around guys, like other girls? (link)
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Perhaps take a friend with you and meet up with some boys , see how you feel around them, or ask how they act about it.
I get attention when im walking in the street its highly embarressing when they beep at you.
If you notice someone looking at you think of something else and dont make eye contact then turn away :)
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I was wondering if there's anyway you can upload a video from myspace onto another website like youtube.
I uploaded one a while ago to myspace & dont have it anywhere else anymore & for some reason the code wont work. So i thought if i uploaded it to another site i'd have a code that worked for it.
Is that possible? If so, how?
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Im not too sure what you mean by the code, but you could make a piczo site and then upload it, afterwards deleted the piczo site...
www.piczo.co.uk
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