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im still in love with my ex
well i need help with this,
i'm 14 and a chick
my boyfriend just broke up with me about 2 days ago and i still love him sooooo much. like you guys have no idea.
but i dont know what to do, i want to get over him but it seems impossible.
and it was such a rash decision too.
about 3 days before he was telling me how much he loved me and that i was pretty and all these reasons why he loved me, but then he just broke up with me.
he says its because he cant handle the pressure of being in a relasionship, and i told him i wouldnt pressure him at all.
we had been dating for 4 months by the way.
help would realllyy be appreciated. and i'll love you forever =]
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Guys at your age don't know what they want when it comes to relationships. & sometimes they're actions won't make any sense. If you have any desire to move on & get over him, I suggest limiting your conversations & spending less time hanging out. Don't necessarily cut him out of your life (unless you both agree that's your best bet), but just don't devote your entire night talking to him like you used to. If there are certain things around your room (like the flowers he gave you or a picture of you two), take it out. Remove anything that might remind you of him & cause you to get emotional about. I don't suggest forgeting all the good times completely (you'll want to remember those!). But if you have less things around you that remind you of your relationship, it'll be easier to keep your mind off of him. In addition, try picking up a new hobby or spending more time with your girl friends. It'll work overtime, trust me. :)
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Well, he just broke up with you 2 days ago, so I don't exactly expect you to be over it just like that. You weren't dating for very long, but you're young, so 4 months is a while in your eyes.
Anyways, if you wanna get over it, just don't think about it. If it's gonna be hard being his friend, then don't be his friend. Honestly though, time heals everything. And it might take a while to get over him. Sometimes you'll think you're over him, and then you'll see him & realize that you're not.
Just be patient. You'll be better in no time. =)
♥T!NA
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girl, i feel your pain. same thing happened to me 2 months ago *we too had been together for 4 months*. we talked things over and he just said he wasn't wanting anything serious and basically that he wanted to have his fun while he was young. so what i did was not pressure him. i didn't call him, if he wanted to talk he could call me, i didn't treat him any differently, i didn't start talking about all these guy's phone numbers i had. i just played it cool. and 6 days after we broke up he picked me up and we went to his place and yeah, it was awkward at first, but we ended up kissing and after a while i said something and he was like "maybe we should give us another shot" and we got back together. sometimes i wonder if guys just do this to see how much you really care for him. cuz since then, things have been better than ever. so just keep it cool, and if you have any questions, let me know
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Its hard to get over the guy that just broke up with you espeacially since it was 2 days ago. He probably can't handle the commitment like something went wrong and he can't handle it. So you should just try hard to get over him. He still might like you but just wants to wait a bit.
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Everyone feels as though they have lost the love of their life before, so don't feel as though you are alone in this aspect.
Four months of dating can seem like a long time when you are young, but as you grow older you will look back on this relationship and laugh to yourself. You may hurt a lot right now so you should give yourself time to relax and have fun.
You will be over him sooner than you think.
Hang in there!
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Im on verge of the same problem ... I dont like the pressure of the relationship but god I love my bf.
It could be you have rushed into the I love you too fast...
Talkinga bout marriage kids and loving him so much and stuff like that...You need too settle into things slowly...He will get bored once he knows everything.
Give him some space then suggest getting back together <3
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okay honey......it was only 2 days ago give it time i kow that everybody feels that way i know i did after all my relationships but i eventually got over it and i thoyught that no one would understand how much i still cared about them but you eventulaay get over it but if you don't you definalty need to tell him.....because sometimes it could be real.
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