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lesbian?
So, i'm pretty sure I like girls. I mean, ive never dated a girl or a guy to EXACTLY know. (or kissed for that matter) but honestly i'm just attracted to girls and find male genetalia gross.....
But i'm starting to think that maybe i just find it gross because of my age and inexperiance and just... immaturity? and maybe I like the idea of having friendships with girls and confuse that with being in love with them? I just dont know.
I have told people I am bi, but never told someone I was actually a lesbian. Also, all the guys im friensd with are gay. I have like no straight men in my life besides my father and older brother lol, if that matters....
Oh, and I watch/enjoy girl on girl action frequently and i just dont know who i can see myself spending the rest of my life with: a man, or woman? I can't see myself with EITHER! :-p
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Well first off, a lot of girls go through this.
It's mainly because you're young, try not to stress on it, you figure things out as you get older.
Anyways.. I still find the male genitals gross hahah.. because, well..look at them.
I've madeout with a girl before [drunk but thats not much of an excuse] but that doesn't make me even bi, because I don't find myself attracted.
But yeah, like I said, dont stress, everyones like this.. you just need to figure out who you are as you get older.
Good luck! x3jessikah
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Your not necessarily a lesbian. What you need to do is kiss a girl, pretty much. If it's disgusting then your probably not a lez.. and if its wonderful then you probably are. Sometimes people can be attracted to the same sex, but it doesn't always mean sexually attracted it could just mean you like that persons personality and thats what attracted you to them. If your not quite sure what you are then I wouldnt tell people that your bi. You should kiss one of your gay friends, they probably wont mind, and see what it feels like. Hope I helped.
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you're just young an inexperienced. its normal. you're more comfortable with girls, because you are one and there's no mystery about girls to you. you find male genetalia gross, because it's something new to you and you don't exactly know very much about it or feel comfortable with it. as you grow older, i'm sure you'll be able to develop your opinions. but i don't think you're a lesbian.. you're just young and inexperienced. =) you could be, but only you can know until you experiment =) good luck hun!! ♥
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I had the same problem for some time, although I never watched girl on girl action.
You could just be curious.
Sometimes it seems easier too see yourself with someone of the same sex.
I was attracted too both for quite some time.
Your right it could all be down too your age.
Just go with your instincts. Try watching some girl on guy action.
Dont think too far ahead yet.
Hang around with some guys see what you think...Its obvious whos good looking and whos not..So see how attracted you feel too the guys.
Good Luck :) <3 LittleMooCow
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