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I'm doing a speech project and I'm supposed to find a song and bring the lyrics to class, but I can't find a good song! I want something no one has ever heard. I'm just having the hardest time thinking of a song!

Can anyone give me a list of songs or awesome/unique artists?

Thanks!! (link)
It would be better if people have heard it. Look at artists albums that you like. Most songs on albums only have like 1 great hit but theres other good songs on there too that people dont bother listening to.


hi.sorry this is long but i need answers. well let me start by saying how much of a pussy i am. Ok this guy, he's like a "bully" came up to me, and his attitude is just real, crap. He's all "are you sure you're a man? youre like a man-beast" am like "ook." now how stupid can i get, thats the stupidest response i could have come out with. Im really really really shy, and im a guy by the way. Im huge but no one gets intimidated because im so quiet. im nearly 6 foot and im 15. So then today im at school, and he shouts my name from the other side of the room, and says "is your sister supposed to be bum?(hot)" im all "i dont know" now how stupid am i? i got real pissed off cause he was disrespecting my sister, but didnt say anything, and then the other guys were all "yeah she is, i saw her at parents evening" and then he comes out with "yo give me your sisters number?" im all "no, im allright" Now thats probabaly the pussiest thing ive ever said. what a effed up responce!? now if i said anything back like "F*** you" there would have been an up-roar. you just dont say stuff like that to people in my school (in leicester england) there would have been "beef" and he probaably would have wanted to knock me out. and he would have probabaly. with the helf of his "gangster" friends. Long story short, im a pussy. a big one. Why? Whats wrong with me? any help would be appreciated. (link)
This is kind of long, but I hope I'll help. First of all your not a P****,so you need to stop saying that. You need to boost your confidence, because if you keep calling your self that then the more you'll feel like it. Try saying something to him. About the sister comments, its not that big of a deal, just ignore him if he's far away and if he's not just be like Nah man. Saying f you would of been not necessary, so you did right. About the man beast commnent, what else are you supposed to say, if someone said that to me I'd be thinking that that person is an idiot and i wouldnt want to swear at them because its not really necessary in this situation so I'd say, ok whatever or look at him like he's a dummy and that's how he'll feel. Theres no reason to get all worked up over it though, he's not anyone important in your life, he aint your mom,your dad, your sister, your brother or your girlfriend, so all i can say is dont sweat it. If he decides to take it to a physical thing, then I say let loose, you'll be scared, but are you really going to stand there and let someone beat you up while all the students yell in the background? No boy, you better not. Kick his behind and show him that 6ft self can easily beat him. Also, you may have some insecurities about being so tall, but have you tried getting into a sport or modeling. Male models are hott, hun. You should think of something that can help you in multiple areas. Even if your not hott, who says you cant be on a comercial or in the nba looking good making dunks. Practice doesn't make perfect, but sure as hell brings you close to it. If you have any other questions about anything you can ask me. I hoped I helped.


ughh i got braces today. they dont hurt because i dont have wires in yett, but they are soo annyoying! from others exceprience, how long till they feel normal? and what are some good foods to eat?

and any suggestions on how to make it look like your mouth isnt bleeding metal when you smile., if you know what i mean.


thanks in advance :) (link)
I got used to mine in like 2 weeks. At first I couldn't even bit a piece of bread, it felt awful, but it gets fine. Eventually I didn't even realize I had them anymore (not that i had them for long) but what was annoying and which you should watch out for is, getting your lips stuck on your braces. My lips were constantly getting cut and it hurt, so watch out for that. :) And dont worry about the "bleeding metal" braces are 'in' now. I'm not sure why, but they dont look that bad anymore, so if that doesn't even look bad, just wait until you get them off, you'll be gorgeous.. or handsome. lol. And yes they are even fine for guys too, so don't worry about the brace face thing or any of that stuff, because it doesn't happen. Good luck and if you need anything else ask me.


I am absolutly serious about this. Is there any way what-so-ever, to get my period for the first time earlier? I just want to get it over with, and I want it to come. Only serious answers please, I really want/need this. (link)
No you dont ! As soon as you get it you'll be wishing soo much that you didn't for a long time more, because you get cramps, headaches, fevers sometimes, you may throw up if its that bad, self conscious and more things. It's really not fun. Some girls think, well all of my friends have it so I should too, but no actually they are probably wishing they were you and it wont be uncommon if they make fun of you. It would just be for not having what they do. Like going out to the beach and outdoor activities, you need to worry about that and wear you are. If you know you will be getting it soon though, then start carrying pads around. Good Luck and remember, once you have it you dont want it, so Bye


can you use

A and B wants to have a different "blah and or blah"

in an essay? (link)
Yea why not. good luck


im a 14 year old guy i just got into high school and i can't stop thinking about girls there is this hot cheerleader in my science and i keep undressing her with my eyes and ive been haveing very dirty dreams about her wut should i do? (link)
Hahah.. It's okay. It's a big deal, a lot of guys do it and even girls. She might be picturing you in a speedo or something. Also, "undressing" her isn't actually having sex. You have to let your mind do some thinking and if it's that kind of thinking then let it be, you'll get through it. I just wouldnt make it obvious, by like staring at her and her body especially, or when your talking to girls and staring at their boobs, or saying anything outloud that may come to mind. It's typical teenage fantasy thoughts, no biggie. ZHope I helped, and any more questions about it, ask me. Bye


Ok, so I'm one of those shy guys that doesn't know how to approach a girl...But there's this girl I like, and she's like one of my bestfriends and I don't know how to tell her I like her...Anyone have an ideas?? (link)
Oh piece of CAKE ! :) Especially since she is your best friend. You shouldn't be afraid to strike up conversation, so do that. Then tell her you want to talk to her at the end of the day or at lunch. Then that will get her wondering and it will give her a chance to rethink her feelings for you. Then when it comes to talking to her say something like, Well I been thinking about you lately and I like you, but as more than a friend, I was wondering if maybe you felt the same way. Its good to do it like that, because girls dont like rambling idiots who spend ten minutes on one sentence. So saying it straight out and completely how it is, is easier. If she feels the same way then ask her out on a date. Start with a movie and maybe some icecream afterwards. Make it fun and simple, so dont start wondering what romantic restaurant you can take her to, because thats going too fast. If she doesn't feel the same way, tell her you still want to be friends (though she will probably say that to you first) and if your really mad dont let it show, because you'll look like a loser who cant suck it up and get it through his head. If your sad then thats all right, because if you really like her, you will be sad. The most important thing I can tell you is to be straight forward and be who you are. I hope this helped, I'd like to know how things work out. I'd wish you good luck, but you dont need it. :) - PK


i want to do a make over. im grounded and when i come back on monday i want the boys to be like "helloo!" haha. yeah so any good ideas.. like hair, nails, make up, ummm yeah basically all of that stuff & ANYTHING else you can think of.
please i actually want people to notice a diff. in me.
the makeup i currently go with- lip gloss, black eyeliner, a little cover up around my eyes and neutragonas mineral sheers (like powdery stuff). pretty much its just a natural look and its really quick and easy.
hair- i either keep it wavy or straighten it.

yeah. so any advice.
im blonde and blue eyed... and im yeah. THANKSSS (link)
Dye your hair, if your allowed to. Something that is cute for blondes are black ends. Like the last three inches of your hair be black. It looks cute. Wear some mascara. I like mascara better than eye liner, but if you really want to wear the eye liner than wear both. As for clothes, wear something new. If you really want GUYS to stare at you wear something tight(meaning actually tight and really cute). If you dont normally wear earrings,then wear some. Wear big hoops. Dont believe that saying "The bigger the O the bigger the Ho" It's not true. Also, its not just about your looks, but your personality. Be talkative, not overly talkative, just not shy to talk to new people. Flirting can help with the guys. You dont need to flirt excessively but just enough. Good luck and keep the hair straight.


okay well i have been trying to scrunch my hair for the longest time. I tried gel and hair spray and drying it after i put gel in or ill just wait for it to try itself but everytime i do the curls just fall right out and if they dont my hair just gets wavy. I want my hair to be hard and curly. Can some one tell me what they use or any other ideas please im sick of doing my hair straight everyday (link)
well I use like half a bottle of mouse.. my hair is curly and i use it to keep the curls long and not scrunched and short. Because your hair is wavy you wouldnt need to use like half the bottle, but mouse is really good for making hair curly, but it depends what it says on the bottom. Some are specifically for making your hair curly, wave, or whatever. Others are for everything and it has directions in the back, but you dont even need to follow the directions. After you take a shower, or wet your hair, just shake it from side to side a litttle bit. Then put a bunch of mouse through your hair and run it from your roots to your ends and scrunch it up like you usually do. Hope I helped, any more questions ask me!
Sincerely, PK


what exactly is blackmail? (link)
1. use of secrets to compel: the act of forcing somebody to pay money or do something by threatening to reveal shameful or incriminating facts about him or her. See also greenmail n.
See also graymail
2. coercion: unfair threatening or incriminating of somebody, as a way of achieving a result

Encarta ® World English Dictionary © & (P) 1998-2004 Microsoft Corporation. All rights reserved.


Its just a way of backstabbing someone by telling someone something about that person that was supposed to be a secret. It's a way to keep someone quiet about something else, like something you did,so if you have something on that person you can use it against them.


can people please tell me if this poem is bad or good?
it's about fear and denial, not too long

http://storywrite.com/story/65235 (link)
The poem is decent. It's confusing though, but as long as you undestand it and it means something to you, then others' opinion shouldn't matter. :)


is there any websites that are free that allow you to download music and then it puts them onto your iPod for you ? i use limewire but its not working right now - ergg . so please help

xo B R ! T T A N Y (link)
Ares. you can download as many songs as you want for absolutely free. I download my songs there and then I have itunes so i press open file from there and send the songs i want to my library. If you try looking up ares on google, im not sure if you'll be able to find it, so if you dont then message me and we can swap email addresses so I can send the program to you. - Bye


you told me to run for 2 and a half hours on a tredmill and you said i would see results in a day.
i don't have a tredmill, so would the eliptical give the same results in the same amount of time.

&thanks for the advice. (link)
the what ? eliptical.. you confused me after you said that :) that's geometry and stuff. Try getting a membership at a gym, and if you dont want a membership, a gym usually gives you a free trial like two weeks free. If you cant do that then you can see the same results by running outside with a lot of layers on for the same time. The key is sweating. The more you sweat the more you'll lose. Jumproping is really good. Also, something that is fun (too me anyway) is dancing. Blast the radio and go in a wide open room, maybe the basement or something and just dance. Or you can get one of those steppers. Its like a stool, exactly like a stool, but for exercise. You step on and off, on and off. You'll get pumped with the radio and you get used to it after a while and the results can be amazing. Dont try the diet pills and starving for 3 weeks. That's unhealthy. Everything I just said is the healthy and normal way that will keep the weight gone (not saying forever). If you do it the unhealthy way, then as soon as you eat a hamburger, that weight will come bouncing right back to your a**. Lol, you know what I'm saying? Well, hope this helped.. you know if you have any more questions, you can ask me. :)


well i'm 5' and i weigh 120 and im 13yrs old.
my thighs are muscular mostly except on the inside, how can i get rid of that flab?
like i do 100 squats a day.

also what can i do to get rid of the fat on my stomach and arms.
please helpp. (link)
Get on the tredmill.. and put a lot of layers. Put like two long sleeve shirts and 2 heavy sweatshirts. Also, like two pair of jeans and sweatpants. Run for like 2 1/2 hours a day and you'll notice a difference in just one day. Sit ups are great for your stomach. I reccomend 100 a day, you can break it up through out the day. Try 100 in the morning, afternoon, and at night. You'll notice a difference in like 2 weeks. Bike riding is really good for your legs and jogging. Good luck.. and if you have any more questions ask me.


Okay, last month i had something like a period, it was just brown. And this month it turned red. In the summers i ususally spend most of my time outside swimming, at the beach, and all sorts of stuff like that. I am a self concious person when it comes to swim suits. With me just starting my period, what will my figure look like by summer time? Like curves, tummy, and boobs. Like how much would my boobs have grown or my figure have taken shape then?

About me now. Im about 5'5 and i weigh 125 pounds. My belly sticks out some, and my sides are like curved some in one spot basically on both sides, so it makes me have "love handles." And im basically, almost flat chested, they just stick out enough to have a shadow between them or to have a shadow at the top or a really low cut shirt, you know like where the boobs "start" theres like a little dark place between them.

14/f (link)
Well, just because you got your period doesnt mean your boobs are going to start growing. It might happen fast, slow, and possibly never (hopefully not) If your worried about your stomach then it wouldn't hurt to do some crunches and exercise every now and then, but don't try and get too skinny, because that wont be attractive to guys. Theres not a definite time though, so you'll just have to be patient. Have ne more questions.. ask me.


This is going to be long or no one is going to understand my situation.

Basically I'm 16 & Female: I had this perfect boyfriend (or so it seemed) we dated constant, no breakups, for 17 months. He, too, was 16. We planned so much, we were even getting engaged, it was perfect. Near January of this year, things started getting a little rocky between him & I. See we go to different schools so we never really got to see eachother that often. We planned to meet eachother at the bowling alley, and that night we got in a fight. The fight wasn't really over anything big, he just got mad at me over something & hurt my arm. But I told him that he had anger problems & needed to resolve them. So basically, for the next 3 days he ignored me. He ignored my calls, my texts, my messages, my emails, & he never called me back, returned anything. Then I had gotten on the computer that day & he broke up with me. I was not only mad that it was through the computer, but I was furious because of everything he threw away. A week down the road, he comes back to me & asks for this thing he called "break-up sex" I knew it would have been a mistake for me to have done it, but I wanted him back & I wanted that feeling back. So I agreed to it. Later on, he tells me that he's "talking" to someone & doesn't want to ruin things with her, so he doesn't want to have this "sex." I was hurt. Basically because I still wanted him back. Friday night, I went to the basketball game at his school to meet up with a couple of my friends, and he was there. He wasn't with anyone like he told me he would have been. So he texts me & asks me to meet him outside. We ended up having sex in the backseat of his car. I don't really regret it, but last night he told me that he never would ever get back together with me & that friday night was an accident. What is your all's opinion on this situation? (link)
Come on.. seriously. People can be in love, but they have to understand when someone is using them for all the wrong reasons. He knows that it wasn't an accident. He just wants some a**. It's like a booty call. Don't be the one to give that to him. Your only 16 too, but having sex is your choice, so ok. Also, if he's even somewhat abusive you need to get out of that relationship all together, friends and everything. Get over him and go for someone who really cares about you and your feelings. Your just giving him what he wants and thats not good. Hope I helped and if you have any more questions ask me.


yeah so like how do i know whAT size to get like tampon wise. ha. (link)
It depends on your flow... if its heavy then get super absorbent if it light then u get light.. you get it ? It says it all on the box.. and what kind you should get. Definitely get the kind with the plastic applicators ... because my friend had to go to the school nurse and the nurse had cardboard applicators..


what exacly does understanding means? can you give me an example?

im from korea (link)
. ability to grasp a meaning: the ability to perceive and explain the meaning or the nature of somebody or something
Surely even someone with a very limited understanding could see the logic in that.

2. interpretation of something: somebody’s interpretation of something, or a belief or opinion based on an interpretation of or inference from something
It was my understanding that the costs would be shared equally.

3. mutual comprehension: an agreement, often an unofficial or unspoken one
I’m sure we can come to an understanding about this.

4. knowledge of another’s nature: a sympathetic, empathetic, or tolerant recognition of somebody else’s nature or situation
I thought you of all people would show a little understanding.



adj
1. sympathetically aware: sympathetic, empathetic, or tolerant in recognizing somebody’s or something’s character and situation
fortunate in having understanding parents

2. able to know something: able to comprehend the sense or meaning of something (archaic)




Encarta ® World English Dictionary © & (P) 1998-2004 Microsoft Corporation. All rights reserved.


Example: She not very understanding, because she never listens to what I have to say or can never relate to how I'm feeling.


okay so Friday i got my first period and i didnt go to school. its really gross because its like a REALLY heavy flow and it is just so gross. i have pads like carefree original.. but i dont like them. i mean they dont work well and i keep getting stains and its so gross. i dont like the brand im using and find it so gross about like the flow and everything. and im so worried like i have school on monday and this is my first period. like what the heck am i suppose to do? like .. wear am i suppose to put the pad and stuff. i dont even want to use a pad but like i guess im kind of embarresed to ask my mom to go get me tampons. and even if i DID have tampons to try like firstly, i would have no idea what to do like to get them in and like when to change them ect. AND like what brand would be good because i have like sports and crap. this is so overwelming for me because its my first time. and ALSO i hate the feeling i have like when like theres a flow because i just like feel so dirty (and since i have been grounded for like a week i've been home alot) and i just like take a bath and stuff and i feel clean. like this whole thing is just ew.
any advice??
ew. =] (link)
Hahaha, yeah this whole thing can be pretty eww.. all the time. Pads are good for when your sleeping or for when your ending your period, but when your just on it, tampon time. Wearinga tampon is the best !! You dont feel anything (if u wear pads, you feel it all) and you can keep it in for 4-6 hours. When you first put it in it hurts, because it has to break thru, but its not that bad..trust me you'll know where to put it, because theres only one hole for it. Definitely ask your mom before monday, because you dont want to be wearing a pad. Bring a pad in your purse and then when it comes to lunch time at school go to the bathroom, because lunch time is enough hours to have it in. And because you had a tampon on it will take a while for you to feel anything with a pad. Hope this helped.. ne more questions just ask me k. :)


So, i'm pretty sure I like girls. I mean, ive never dated a girl or a guy to EXACTLY know. (or kissed for that matter) but honestly i'm just attracted to girls and find male genetalia gross.....

But i'm starting to think that maybe i just find it gross because of my age and inexperiance and just... immaturity? and maybe I like the idea of having friendships with girls and confuse that with being in love with them? I just dont know.

I have told people I am bi, but never told someone I was actually a lesbian. Also, all the guys im friensd with are gay. I have like no straight men in my life besides my father and older brother lol, if that matters....

Oh, and I watch/enjoy girl on girl action frequently and i just dont know who i can see myself spending the rest of my life with: a man, or woman? I can't see myself with EITHER! :-p (link)
Your not necessarily a lesbian. What you need to do is kiss a girl, pretty much. If it's disgusting then your probably not a lez.. and if its wonderful then you probably are. Sometimes people can be attracted to the same sex, but it doesn't always mean sexually attracted it could just mean you like that persons personality and thats what attracted you to them. If your not quite sure what you are then I wouldnt tell people that your bi. You should kiss one of your gay friends, they probably wont mind, and see what it feels like. Hope I helped.




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